|
Questions for the guys (girls can answer too if thw have a o
Is it a turnoff if a girl asks a guy out???
And can you like kinda clarify... i really need help... anyone... i rate high
Gomesy
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
ok i calling a guy friend that i know im asking him he says no it is not he thinks it is kinda sexy for a woman to ask a man out. just call him ask him out or if you are shy then get one of your friends to do it for you as long as that friend doesnt like the guy or is two face it will be fine. Just be your self around him.
GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!
LISA
]
to some guys it is to some guys its not theres really no definate answer to that it just depends on the guy mostly... and what makes you comfortable too...!?!?!
Hope i helped
Hayhay*
]
I think that guys really like it when a girl knows what she wants and goes for it, but my opinion, I wouldn't do it, but hey that's just me lol, I believe in the more traditional guy asking the girl out but also believe that theres nothing wrong with a girl asking a guy out. If you want to go about doing it, just go up to him and ask. A lot of guys don't like it when girls play games, and they like it better when girls just get to the point. Hope I've Helped! ♥
]
I think that it is okay for a girl to ask out a guy. It just shows him you probably have a bold, not shy personality for having the courage to ask him out. I think they will actually appreciate it because you know some guys are shy too. I say go for it and ask your guy out!
xoxo
I hope I helped
]
No, its not a turn of because this guy you like could be shy and wanting you to ask for them. Just be honest and say would you mabe like to go out sometime.
luv roxie
XxX♥XxX
]
No way. Guys actually like when girls ask them out. It takes all the pressure off him. Just ask the guy you like if he wants to see a movie or something. You can make it a group date, so it would be easier for you.
Hope I helped!
Ke
]
If you think he likes you, ask him out!! Guys get shy too, and it is cool nowadays for a girl to ask a guy out. I would include him as part of a group and go from there. If you guys spend time together in the group, then go on a double date or a triple date even. Then work it down to a single date!! Good Luck!!
]
No its not a turn off. Just shows the guy that you arent shy! x0
]
i dont think it is at all... some guys dont realize that a girl likes them until they get asked out, and mabey then the guy realizes they like the girl too. but dont make it sound desperate. just tell him how long youve liked him and then just ask him if he would go out with you.. its always best to do it in person.
<|Micah|>
]
Heck NO! If you ask, You're showing that you care about that person. If I were a guy and got asked by a girl I would have NO PROBLEM saying yes! I'd probably be totally in love with her if that happened!
♥ *ad0rkable* ♥
]
no way i think somtimes it makes the guys feel better cuz they dont have to make the first move i think its great i asked a guy out and it was great it didnt last but umm lol it still was great good luck
]
Why would it be a turn off. This day and age is different from years ago where it was acceptable for girls to wait until a guy ask them out. Girl, go get what you want!!! Asking a guy out shows that you are confident in yourself.
]
It can be for some guys, maybe an 'assault on their masculinity'. I though would be flattered if a girl (whom I liked, if you please) asked me out. I'd love it, had it happen a,d went out once with each. Just because you date doesnt mean you have to be boyfriend/girlfriend.
If you want to ask a guy out, flirt a bit. Girls seems good at it... :P Then ask him! Bom, splat, its done ^^
<3 EJ
]
I'm the only one saying its a turnoff! lol I think it's one because it shows the guy you're desperate. I've seen it happen and when the girl asks the guy out, he seems scared/mad and most likely says no all the time. Shy guys will do it soon enough if they really like you, trust me. I would never because it gives the guy the upper hand in the relationship. Hope it all works out tho hun xo
]
It's not a turn off usually these days. Mostly shy guys feel relieved because you took the initiative except for those who are conservative. Maybe you can do it by like making it appear as coincidence. Like for example you go to him (when it's lunch time) and talk to him and ask him have you eaten? If he says yes then say "oh tomorrow i needed your help...etc. are you available?" Try to find a reason why you'll go out with him then after that pretend that you care for him just like a friend. (to avoid embarrassment)
]
I dont think it is a turnoff cuz it might actually relieve boys into having to ask you out..i am a girl and i just asked a boy out and he said yes. I did it on IM. it is easier to do it like that or to write a note, or to have your closest friends do it for you. or if ur not afraid of maybe being embarassed, just go right up and ask him.
~Steph~
]
Of cource its not its all about how confident you are in doing so. if your not confident enough to ask them out then dont. I've asked guys out before but i mainly stick to waiting for them to ask. Try saying stuff like you find him attractive just be confident cause thats a big turnon.
]
i dont think its a turnoff for guys when a girl asks them out. alot of guys thinks its a turn on acutally. they see that your not afraiding of wanting something and just getting it, or trying to get it. just when you ask this guy out make sure that he is interested in you...he might me be thinking of asking you out but is too afraid you might turn him down, you be the brave one and ask him first...im sure it will surprise him. and as for how to do it? just ask him will you be my boyfriend. simple as that. good luck...hopefully you will have a boyfriend by tomorrow...hope i helped....
...you only live once...
...xox... please rate me
]
Hello,
Well i would think it would be okay... lots of people do it guys like girls who arnt shy.
How to do it
Well make sure not to do it by phone, or computer..face to face is best... Just ease up on the question like soo who do you like..... once he anwsers be like well i like some one and its you... trust me it will work, you just have to try it.
Lovely.
]
More Questions: |