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Hey! My name is Kathryn and I am 14. I live in a suburb of Chicago.

I would say that I am a very friendly, loving, adventurous, helping, funny, crazy, outgoing, kinda person.

Some of my intrests include hanging out and talking to friends, helping people, playing soccer, playing basketball, playing ddr, going online, listening to music, drawing, going shopping, reading, and watching movies.

I just love giving people advice and helping them with their problems...I want to either be a counselor or social worker when I grow up.

I try my best with answering questions, and I hope that I can help you!

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ok...so for some reason, iconator.com doesnt work on my computer.

does anyone know of any other sites that will have really good icons?? because i really want a new AIM icon for my sn

& please don't say google or whatever.

please & thank you! (link)
I know of a couple good icon sites they are:

http://www.badassbuddy.com
http://www.budyicon.info
http://www.iconhell.com
http://www.originalicons.com

I hope you find an icon you like

Good luck
I hope this helps
xoxoxo


my friend told me that if you put lemon juice in your hair and go into the sun that it would make ur hair lighther is that ture?
would it would if you have meduim brown hair
and how do you do it ? (link)
This is true. There is something called Sun-In which you can buy at a local drugstore and I have used it before to lighten my hair. It actually has lemon juice in it and it is natural. It works better if you have blonde hair but it does work some for darker hair. (i have dark brown hair and it made it a little lighter.)
Here is the link to look at it.

http://www.chattem.com/products/sun.asp
or
http://www.sun-in.com

good luck
I hope this helps
xoxoxo


well my boyfriend is having a birthday party in a while and there will be a ton of people there. But its at his house so his mom and dad will be there. I want to look good but i also dont want to look all slutty so any ideas of what to wear?
thanks,
Katie
[by the way im 13/f] (link)
If it is warm out side wear like cute shorts or a cute skirt. If it is cooler wear capris or jeans. I would suggest the capris myself. Then wear a cute summery top like a cami or a t-shirt with a cool print on it. I wouldn't reallly worry too much about your hair and makeup...just go for a natural look. Also wear flip flops because they are comfy and cute. If you want accessories i would try a bright colored bracelet or necklace.

Good luck
i hope this helps
xoxoxo


i like this guy who likes me as well but the problem is........ im going to high school and he's staying in middle school. he might ask me out and i don't know if i should say yes, or just stay single for summer and find someone even better in high school. help please (link)
Well hun it looks like you have a hard decision to make. If you think your relationship could last during the school year even with you at different schools then i would say yes. Keep in mind though that there is much more stuff to do at highschool so u might not have enough time. Also you may meet other guys in highschool and you might want to keep your options open.

If you say yes will you hang out with him during the summer? Thats a question to ask your self. Or do you want to be single and ready to mingle with hot guys you see at the local pool? This is a really hard decision to make but I am leaving it up to you and what you really want.

Good luck
i hope this helps
xoxoxo


does anyone know how to curl the ends of my hair?.... Plus i really want to make my hair wavy but i have no idea how!! (without usin hair curlers or wateva) please help me because im really bored with my style! its always down strate thanx ill rate 5 for any good answers
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There are two fast easy ways i use to make my hair wavy. The first one is what i call scrunching it. After you take a shower or wet your hair completey, apply mousse throughout all of your hair. Then use your hands and fingers to scrunch your hair. Take one section and start from the bottom and just bsaically tangle or scrunch it up all the way to the top. Hold it there for a little less than a minute. Continue to do small sections until your whole head is done. At the end apply hairspray so it will stay like that. DO NOT DRY YOUR HAIR ANY WAY BECAUSE IT WILL RUIN THE WAVES.

Another fast easy way to make your hair wavy is when you get out of the shower put tons of small braids all over your head. Keep them there for a while.(when i do it i take a shower at night and sleep with the braids in.) then the next day take out all of the braids and you should be left with tons of little waves. Apply hairsspray so the wave will stay. DO NOT BRUSH THROUGH THE WAVES AFTER YOU TAKE OUT THE BRAIDS BECASUSE IT WILL RUIN IT.

good luck
i hope this helps
xoxoxo


i have a boyfriend, lets call him [ X ] and my bestfriend is telling me she really likes this other guy, lets call him [ A ]. but everytime i'm hanging out with my bf X and my bestfriend, she's always flirting with him. and i think she might like him, but i dunno how to tell her to just stop w/o hurting her feelings.

anyone have any advice for a nice way to say "stop flirting with my bf!"

please and thank you. (link)
Next time she starts flirting with him just nicely say

"Hey, do u still like [A]? *wait for answer* Well it just seems like lately you have been flirting with [X] a lot. I am not really comfortable with it and it has been bothering me. I mean he is my boyfriend. Please stop flirting with him."

this will probably work and your friend will understand.

good luck
i hope this helps
xoxoxo






13/f

I have really large breasts, and unlike most girls, I hate it. Is there anything I can do that can make them appear smaller? Without buying anything, that is. (link)
I have a friend who has the same problem...wear sports bras or camis underneath every shirt you wear. it makes them look a little smaller. You should really get used to having big boobs i mean tons of girls probably envy you. if you dont worry about it you might become less self conscience and gain more confident. just be happy the way that you are.

good luck
i hope this helps
xoxoxo


Does anyone know any sites like download.com where you can get free downloads for your ipod?


thanks! (link)
i use morpheus and it works pretty well. you can download it by going to www.morpheus.com

good luck
I hope this helps
xoxoxo


I have these two friends and they both lie at times. To me at times...and well one day they were asking weight. And I said I'm 160 and she said 120. now she's pretty fat and she can't in no way be 120. I was really stunned at her effort to lie. I don't want to confront her but she makes me feel like i can't trust her again.

What do I do? help me please cause it relly hurts me she lied. (link)
Your friend was probably just embarrassed and self conscience about her true weight. If i were you I wouldn't really say anything to her because that would make her feel worse. If you know the truth is that she weighs more, just keep that to yourself. Probably other people can tell who weighs more too, so I wouldn't worrry about it. Its not really a big deal so I wouldnt get that worked up about it. Plus lying about your weight is only a small lie.

I hope this helps
xoxoxo


okay, so i have had a sunburn for about a week and a half and now its starting to peel and its grossing me out so i was wondering how can i fix the peeling.

i rate (link)
You cannot really fix the peeling, you just have to wait till it heals. Meanwhile though you should use aloe vera gel to soothe the sunburn and get rid of the stinging and the redness. Who knows it may even help with the peeling but i'm not sure.

Good Luck
I hope this helps
xoxoxo


what eyeliner color brings out dark brown eyes? does blue eyeliner do that? (link)
I have really dark brown eyes too and i think that brown eyeliner looks the best with them. I've tryed blue, purple, and green colors before, but i just don't think it makes them pop or stand out that much. brown looks the best overall because it blends in and gives a sexy natural look.

i hope this helps
xoxoxo


im 14 and i wear a some makeup. just like a thin line of black eyeliner, soft eyeshadow colors, and black mascara. yeah, nothing out-of-this-world. anyway, i was wondering what you guys think is a good eyeshadow to match light blue eyes and light brown/long hair. oh yeah and a lot of freckles on the cheeks.

i usually do like a light brown or a light gray and i really like those. still, i wanted to try something new but i didnt want it to be like 'whoa, too much'

pink usually doesnt work for me. idk it just doesnt work with likee, the texture of my eyes.

ok thanks. (link)
Hey hunnie. What would probably work best for your eyes with your skin tone would be neutral colors like cream, tan, brown, or maybe some blue just to match your eyes. Check out this link and look at the eyeshadow called Avant-Garde.(its the one pictured).

http://www.walgreens.com/store/pickcolor.jsp?CATID=100292&navAction=push&navCount=0&skuid=sku1805727&id=prod1806247

or check out some of these. Iced out and Blue heaven would probably look good.

http://www.walgreens.com/store/pickcolor.jsp?CATID=100292&navAction=push&navCount=0&skuid=sku1464177&id=prod1464188


You dont have to use these exactly...these are just ideas. but remember the neutral colors and the blue colors. Those would work best for you.

Good luck
i hope this helps
xoxoxo


This is gonna sound disgusting but during the past week my feet have been smelling really badly. They never used to be like that, its just happened recently.
What can i do to stop them smelling?
If it helps, im 13/f
Thanks in advance, xxx (link)
It is probably because you are wearing socks and shoes. They make your feet really sweaty. First of all make sure your socks are made from 100% cotton. Other kinds make your feet sweat really bad and that causes the smell. Try getting a powder to put in your shoes to get the smell out (you can get soe at any local drug store). Also just try spraying smelly things on them like perfume in them to temporarily get the smell out.

Good luck
I hope this helps
xoxoxo


I have a large mole which is larger than any other on my body. It is located near the vagina just above my thigh. It is oval shape and sticks out the skin. I am worried this is cancerous. But i've had it for years. I'm just not sure if it has grown in size.

Is it canerous? or am I worrying over nothing? (link)
Go to the doctors to get it checked out. They'll tell you if it is cancerous or not. I have had two moles removed from my body because of the risk of it being cancerous. Basically to tell if it is cancerous check to see if it changes shape, size, or color. These are the most common signs. The only thing I can really tell you is go to the doctor and ask them.

Good luck
I hope this helps
xoxoxo


alright so im (15/f) and all of my friends have done stuff with boys. i havent. is that wierd? i think im just scared because once i find someone i really like i dont wanna be like hey yeah i dont know what the heck im doing! lol soo what should i do. (link)
No this is not weird at all. I think it is very good actually. You should not give in to peer pressure ever. Do not do something you are not comfortable with or not ready for. You don't want to do something that you might regret later. Just continue on doing this until you think you are ready. Go at your own pace.

Good luck
I hope this helps
xoxoxo


does anyone know where to get camis that are kinda long that covers your whole stomach? and i also want the very cheap ones.. like i dont want a cami for 10$ .. thanks (link)
you could try any of these stores. I bet you be asle to find camis that you are looking for for under 10$.

Kohls
JC Pennys
Carsons
Charlotte Russe (clearance racks are really good there)
Wet Seal (they have them for $6.49...i just bought one)
Wall Mart
K Mart

I hope these help
Good luck
xoxoxo



can someone please find me a link the the FIFA World Cup seeding chart?! i was looking at it yesterday and i cannot find it for some odd reason!

i will rate 5's if you can get me the link! thanks! (link)
Hey. Check out these sites:

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Seeding_for_2006_FIFA_World_Cup

and

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/2006_FIFA_World_Cup

I hope this helps
xoxoxo



columnists--

how do you get a pic small enough to fit???
and how do you get a code toput icons as a background?
thnx. (link)
First of all to make your picture small enough to fit you should host it. I use www.tinypic.com to host all my pictures. Once you do that you just copy the code they give you and put it on ur column.

Second of all, you basically do the same thing to get icons for ur background. Find an icon you really like and host it at tinypic. copy the url and paste it onto your column settings in the box that says page bacground(url).

good luck
i hope this helps
xoxoxo


I want to do my room over. I want it to be kinda funky/retro. People I need ideas of how to decorate my room! I'm 14 and female by the way. I will rate soo high if you give me items AND store names and even websites!!!! (link)
To make your room look funky and retro you should choose a pattern of polka dots, stripes, plaid, or tie-dye. Those were really popular back then. Also choose bright colors such as firetruck red, bright orange, sunshine yellow, candy apple green, sky blue, or plum purple. Chocolate brown, black, and white look good along with some of those bright colors. www.pbteen.com is a good website with bedroom ideas.

good luck
i hope this helps
xoxoxo




i have one of those invisalign retainers that i have to wear while i sleep. after a couple days it starts to smell and get really gross. ive tried rinsing it with water, it didnt do anything. then i tried using toothpaste. (brushing it like i would brush my teeth) it only worked a little. so i was wondering if there was anything i could do to get them really clean? (link)
i know how you feel because i have a reatainer too. its not an invisalign but whatever its still the same. What I do is i got some denture cleaner from the local drug store. then once a day i soak it in there for atleast a couple of minutes. it makes it really clean and it takes out the nasty smells.

good luck
well i hope this helps
xoxo




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