i like this guy who likes me as well but the problem is........ im going to high school and he's staying in middle school. he might ask me out and i don't know if i should say yes, or just stay single for summer and find someone even better in high school. help please
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Jenn_2 answered Sunday June 18 2006, 5:09 pm: It all depends on how much you're willing to do for this boy. If you really like him and you're sure you want to be with him, then yes I'd date him. But if you're having second thoughts, then I'd pass him up. I have a friend whose going into high school while her bf is staying in middle school, she dumped him and she already has a high school guy who likes her! But I also have a friend in high school while his gf was in middle school. They're made for eachother and they love eachother. It all depends on what you're willing to do for him! [ Jenn_2's advice column | Ask Jenn_2 A Question ]
JazzyGotDaAnswer answered Friday June 16 2006, 5:12 pm: this is tricky because i can say stay single and find someone in high school and you could miss out on a good guy. or i can say go with him and he turns out to be a jerk. so I say stay single for the summer and if you guys are meant to be their will always be another chance.
xoxoPrettyNPinkxoxo answered Friday June 16 2006, 3:37 pm: Well hun it looks like you have a hard decision to make. If you think your relationship could last during the school year even with you at different schools then i would say yes. Keep in mind though that there is much more stuff to do at highschool so u might not have enough time. Also you may meet other guys in highschool and you might want to keep your options open.
If you say yes will you hang out with him during the summer? Thats a question to ask your self. Or do you want to be single and ready to mingle with hot guys you see at the local pool? This is a really hard decision to make but I am leaving it up to you and what you really want.
kendrabdatgirl answered Friday June 16 2006, 1:33 pm: Well the summer is all about having fun and if you think that you'll have fun with the guy that you like then i think you should go out with him. even though you both will be in different grades when school comes around im sure they'll be ways to work the relationship out...If everything isn't all peachey with the relationship around school time then just break it off with him and go out with someone even better thats in your high school...have fun...hope i helped [ kendrabdatgirl's advice column | Ask kendrabdatgirl A Question ]
XxbrokenloverxX answered Friday June 16 2006, 1:29 pm: wow. i had somthing quite like that happen to me. Well i picked to go out with the guy that liked me back but then during schoool i found this really nice guy that i wanted to be with, so i really just followed my heart on which one i would be best with. I kno it kinda got off subject but yeha....So i think you should really think....do you really like this guy....will you last long with him....is he worth it or is he going to break your heart....once you've answered those then its really up to you whether or not. Just do what you WANT to do not what you should do. if you have any other questions about this just ask me! i hope i helped
sincerly,
Katie [ XxbrokenloverxX's advice column | Ask XxbrokenloverxX A Question ]
softballcatb answered Friday June 16 2006, 12:32 pm: I think you should say no because between schools, you'd probably never have time to see eachother. I have to brothers in high school and i barely get to see them.(im in middlr school). Trust me, with all this homework and studying you wont have time for a boyfriend unless he's in highschool. Good Luck! [ softballcatb's advice column | Ask softballcatb A Question ]
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