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i have heard different things and i could use some good strong opinions (not flames, dont leave me bruised and battered) on bisexuality from a christian standpoint. i fear i may actually have to read the WHOLE Bible (LONG!) to form my own opinion to be honest. i just know alot of ppl interpret the Bible differently.
thanks in advance

well bascially being homosexual is an abomination to GOD and thats bad and being bisexual is basically homosexuality so its wrong

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well im going out with this guy and i really do like him. Well my friends want us to kiss like really bad...dont ask me why but their just weird like that. Well anyways...we've been going out not that long though....only 2 weeks and 2 days to be exact. But we've been friends for a long time. Well i was just wandering if its too early and how to kno if it is and if he wants to yet. Cuz i kno i do..but i dont kno how to see if he does any help?
sincelry,
confused

well i think that you should kiss when yall are ready dont let your friends infleunce you bc when friends get into a relationship its not good im sure if u really want to know if yall are ready to kiss then talk to him about it

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i like this guy who likes me as well but the problem is........ im going to high school and he's staying in middle school. he might ask me out and i don't know if i should say yes, or just stay single for summer and find someone even better in high school. help please

yeah i would say no bc you wont like going out with a middle schooler if your in high school

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What can i say i am a tight person, its not somthing i can help. But its time that i get in the game! So i really like this guy but i dont know him that well. Hes really cute and fun person to talk to. We were in a class and talked a little bit but i wouldnt see him over the summer. Any suggustions to how i could get him to like me?

its kinda of hard to get someone to like you but just be yourself and he will like and if he doesnt then it wasnt meant to be in the first place

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my name is Rachel and iam 17 years old and my sister and my 4 year old niece and 2 year old nephew moved in becouse they got kicked out becouse they couldn't pay the rent in their apartment and now I have to share a room with 3 people 4 people counting me I ended up sleeping on the couch and they got my room which I don't think is fair at all and we only have 1 bathroom so I have no privacy and I think at 17 I need all the privacy that I can get what should I do?

well just stick it out you will be repayed for your valiant efforts plus families are supposed to stick together just hang in there with a smile on your face somebody appreciates it

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okay, so i have had a sunburn for about a week and a half and now its starting to peel and its grossing me out so i was wondering how can i fix the peeling.

i rate

not really much you can do but wait for it to peel all the way off take a vineagar bath that usally helps the peeling alot faster

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do u think that i should kiss my bf or wait until he kisses me? I am very lost but what should i do?

PLEASE HELP

eh this ? comes up alot just wait for it the right time will come when you both will kiss each other trust me dont rush into things you break up faster just go with the flow

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ok so here is a conversation i had with this guy that i like and i can't figure what exactly he meant in his last text message so i'm gonna type the whole conversation and i want you to tell me wat you think he means. I'll rate 5's to everyone that gives me an opinion. O and my name is *Debbie* and his is *Nathan* And this conversation was at 11:30 last night.

Nathan---how about we give what we both want a chance and see how good we really are together. hit me back adn let me know what you think you might like.

Debbie---in shock didn't reply for a minute

Nathan---are you going to text back anytime soon i would really like to know what you think before i go to sleep, i guess i could just call you.

Debbie---Well depends on what you really want.

Nathan---You know what i really want what is it you want.

Debbie---No i don't think i know what you want.

Nathan---I want you and you do know that what do you want, I wouldn't mind there being an US but that would be up to you. but what do YOU want.????

Debbie---(i sent this one to the wrong place)I want there to be an us to.

Nathan---are you there can i get a response please, just leaving me hangin ain't cool you know. I will call you in the morning but i want you to text me.

Debbie---I sent it to your phone instead of your screenname but i want to be with you.

ok this is where i get confused.

Nathan---i never got it but *that's good* i'll call you later ok.

Are we dating? What does *that's good* mean?

Thanks signed
really confused

well instead of being confused i would just ask hijm staight out what he ment bc im kinda confused myself

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Anyone have a myspace? Someone made a fake one about me and I want to know who the person is. How do I report them or how can i tell who they are?
Thanks
i rate 5s

go to tom hes on everybodies myspace send him an email telling him about the problem

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my 'rents willl only let me drive their car. i have told them that i want to have my own car. they say that if i want my own car that bad then i should buy one with my own money(which i would never do). iam trying to think of ways to convince them to buy me a car that i can call my own-any ideas??!!
thanks a lot! ♥

well i wanted my own car and my parents wouldnt buy me one so i bought it on my own but parents usually have it in their heads what thier going to do and you usually cant change thier minds so maybe you should suck it up and buy your own car it will make you feel good knowing you paid for it yourself

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Me and this guy name Marcus likes each other a lot and like we talk all the time and were really close but we live like 1 hour and a half away from each other and he said he thinks we will never date because of the distance and I dont know what to say or do now.. and like i'm really upset and i told him i was but he said theres nothing he can do.. what do i do?

Well maybe you should try to find someone else bc thats not along way away i dont think hes willing to try so that means he doesnt like you

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My Dad has a great job oppurtunity that he just accepted & that means I have to move about 14 hours away. Don't get me wrong, I'm really happy & kind of excited to get a chance to start over but I'm kind of scared. I've never moved before... I just started at a new high school this year as a freshman but I had a lot of people I knew around me. I don't know what to do! I've worn uniforms to school my whole life & next year I'll be at public school...I have no idea how I would dress! Can someone relate or help me out? I'm 15, female, soon to be sophomore. I'm moving to the Princeton, NJ area. Thanks!

shit you just have to find your on style once you get to public school youll see most of them dont really care what you wear but some of them will make fun of you for what you wear and how you act but so what dont let them get to you just be yourself

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Hi. I have a kitten (named Shadow) who's 2 months old. She used to be very fluffy, but as of late she's been losing fur. We know it's not shedding for several reasons (we don't see fur all over the place, or have it on us after holding her, etc.) We thought it might have been soap from giving her a flea bath, or maybe something else that got on her. We have five other cats, one of them as young as she, and they're all fine. They eat the same food, drink the same water, and since Shadow is still pretty young, she doesn't go anywhere out of our yard when outside. Does anyone know anything that might be causing her fur to thin, but not spread to the other cats?

well it depends on if its in one spot or if its losing hair all over if its in one spot then the cat has allergies and is eating its hair but if its all over i wouldnt worry about it maybe its just getting older

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I was playing basketball yesterday and then I got fouled and got knocked down and hurt my knee but I got up and walked the pain off of it.. It didn't start hurting til this morning.. My left knee is swollen on the left side of it I can't squatt it hurts bad..My knee feels really tight to I think its were its swollen.. I can still run and stuff though.. I can't stretch my leg out while moving my foot to the right and it hurts.. Could it be A meniscus tear? If not what could it be?

well maybe you should go to a doctor instead of asking us well that was heartless i was just trying to answer your fucking ?

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theres this guy ive had a crush on for a while. we always talk, and weve even hung out outside of school once or twice and i even think he likes me alittle, but none of us have ever broughten it up. today he signed my yearbook and he said "i hope you find the perfect man this summer" which i find wierd because normally guys dont write that kind of stuff. anyway, im going away this summer for 2 months and i wont be back for a while. im debating telling him i like him just to get it off my shoulders cause i just want him to know already and i wont be seeing him for a while. should i do that? or do you think it will freak him out and he wont want to start any relationships this summer??

nah i think you should tell him what could it hurt?

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so last night i got really drunk and cheated on my bf and i cant even remember what the guy looked like (i hope he wasnt ugly lol) but the problem is i dont feel guilty about it at all and i know thats not normal..so does this mean i should mabey reconsider the relationship i have right now with my boyrfriend?

well first of all you were drunk and people do alot of stupid things when there drunk and you cant feel guilty about something you dont remember can you? so maybe you should tell your bf and see how he reacts then base your break up on his reaction

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16/f

I never let guys get close romantically to me, because I'm scared they will try something sexual. Now, its not that I'm morally opposed, but I think I'm just self conscious or something, because I'm scared to let a guy touch me. Like I'm afraid I'll be bad at whatever we do, or they won't like how I look or feel or whatever. I have dumped all of my boyfriends after like a month because I just don't want them to get too close. Well the thing is, I really like this guy now, but I don't want to pull away from him because I'm worried about things. So 2 things. 1-what can I do about this? and 2- Do guys mind doing things with a first timer?

Well just try and go for it dont think about it doesnt matter if your bad which you wont be bc it usually comes naturally and are you kidding me guys love first timer we get to teach you our way of doing things very sexy

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I go shopping for myself like every other week and when I get bored or don't find anything I like, I just start buying things for my guy. Well that was my ex so I'm just wondering, do most guys like it when their girl buys them clothes for no reason?

Hellz yeah free stuff lol who would turn down that

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okay so my boyfriend..lets call him Bob..thats weird but i dont want 2 use his real name..okay so Bob and me have been going out 4 about 2 months now..Bob's never made a move..neither have i..all my friends *boys and girls* went 2 the movies one night..i sait next 2 bob..he didnt put his arm around me or anything..but hes not shy..i know that..should i make a move or wait till he does? Thanks!!
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thats prolly what hes waiting for im not shy but i love when a girl makes the first move so go for it youll like the results

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I've known my bestfriend since 7th grade (we're now both juniors) and we're the closest two friends can get and I love her to death.


Our freshman year, we'd always hear about this girl Meagan and how slutty and bitchy she is. Meagan is a grade ahead of us. Well, 2nd semester of freshman year my bestfriend had a class with her but only for about a week because she got switched out.


Last year, my sophomore year, I was in a class with her for the whole year and at fisrt I didn't like her because of the things I've heard but we started talking and she wasn't that bad. Yeah, some of the rumors were true but she was still a good, fun friend. Now we're really good friends. Not as good as my bestfriend and I, but nevertheless, friends.


So whenever I'm with my bestfriend, and I talk about Meagan, she gives me this disgusted look and talks smack about her. I tell her to shut up and not talk about people she doesn't know and then that's the end of it.


Meagan and I are going to a concert in July and I asked my bestfriend if she wanted to come with us because I know she likes that band. Well, she told me that if Meagan is going, she isn't.


How can I get her to stop being so judgmental and at least try to actually meet her?

well set up something so that your bf can meet you and megan but dont tell your best friend that megans going to be there like a movie or something that way she will get to meet her but some people are going to listen to rumors more than their feelings so watch out but it wouldnt hurt to try

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