Me and this guy name Marcus likes each other a lot and like we talk all the time and were really close but we live like 1 hour and a half away from each other and he said he thinks we will never date because of the distance and I dont know what to say or do now.. and like i'm really upset and i told him i was but he said theres nothing he can do.. what do i do?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Belladonna answered Thursday June 15 2006, 3:00 am: Sorry to tell you this, but if you REALLY liked someone, you'd be willing to put up with the distance. I mean, 1 hour and a half away seems like a lot, but you'd still see each other sometimes.. like on weekends, or at least every second weekend. It's not like you live on the opposite sides of the world from one another. Sounds like he's just not willing to put the effort into making it work. He's not worth your time. I know that is upsetting to hear, but you need to move on to someone else. There's plenty of guys who would be willing to put the effort in for you. [ Belladonna's advice column | Ask Belladonna A Question ]
darkprince13 answered Thursday June 15 2006, 1:37 am: Well, you definatly should move on, and find someone else to date instead of him. It is still probably a good idea to remain friends with your distant pal, for friendship. [ darkprince13's advice column | Ask darkprince13 A Question ]
BriZeeme2 answered Thursday June 15 2006, 12:10 am: move on sweetie there are more than one fishin the sea and if he doesn't wantot do anything you shouldn't have to either =)
HardxcorePunkLover answered Wednesday June 14 2006, 11:52 pm: I think the only thing you can do in this situation is roll with it. Just let him know that if he ever changes his mind, that you'll be there. This kind of situation is tough to deal with, but I think that is the only thing you can do. Good luck!
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Answerman answered Wednesday June 14 2006, 11:36 pm: Well maybe you should try to find someone else bc thats not along way away i dont think hes willing to try so that means he doesnt like you [ Answerman's advice column | Ask Answerman A Question ]
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