about

(sorry I have not been on at all, I had other activities to use my time on)

Hello, You my ask me anything.
About me:
I am 14, Christian, uhm, I started playing the guitar days ago.

Note:I had an older collumn I can not access due to the fact I forgot the password and I cannot access the email adress I had put for my address in this site.
(I used to be under the sn of Caden)


Disclamer:
Please try to use google before you ask me something.
Use good grammar, or atleast ok grammar. I will reject ones Where u typ3 lyk3 dis.

advice

I'm 14 years old and a female.
I have a boyfriend who I have been going out with for 4 months now and at first he was so sweet and really nice to me. Over time he started getting mad at the littlest things,, like how I dressed or did my make-up. He would call me a whore or a slut and other things, and about a month after that he bcame abusive. He would always loose his temper and hit me. Never in front of anyone though, and he just got worse and worse but I never told anyone. So after school yesterday I tried to break up with him, he got so mad and punched me. He said if I ever tried to break up with him again I would regret it. After he left I was just sitting in the hallway crying when this guy I really liked(I didn't know him that well but I like him even before I had a boyfriend)came p to me and knelt beside me and asked me if I was okay. I tried lieing to him, telling him I tripped and fell but he wouldn't by it.(I'm guessing my black eye gave him a hint) He asked me if my boyfriend did this to me and I said yes. He lives close to the school so he asked me if I wanted to go to his house to get cleaned up and I said yes. When we got there he helped me wash the cut and everything and we started talking. He asked me if it was the first time my boyfriend did this to me and I told him no, then I told him everything. For some weird reason I trusted him. He walked me home and when we got their he hugged me and then he kissed me. He said he would take care of my boyfiend. I ddn't really know what he meant but I let it go. I was to happy he kissed me. I was late to school the next day, but when I got their I was just in time to see the fight between my boyfriend and the other guy (Lets call him Matt). They were broken up by the police officer. They were both pretty beat up.Both of them got sent to the principals office. Matt got suspended for a week, and my boyfriend 3 weeks. (He has previos fighting records)I caught Matt as he was leavigng and asked him why he would get in a fight over me. All he said was "I love you and I couldn't stand to see you hurt like that" and he walked away. What should I do I really need help.

You should dump your boyfriend ( it might be good to bring matt along, to defend you if your boyfriend gets abusive). Then you and matt should get to know each other, then if it feels right, ask him to get together with you.

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I saw this weird symbol it looks like uhhh well there's this circle and inside it is the letter "A" and a line going across it.What's it mean? Hope I described it well enough.

It means anarchy, it's against the government basicly, kinda a punk thing.

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13/f

k well theres this guy that likes me. the thing is that i dont know if i like him or not. one day ill be like in love with him and the next ill be like ew gross. i dont know why im acting like this. what do i do?

You need to get to know him better first. It could be that you two should just be friends thought

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I just created a myspace group and I do not know how to put a layout on there. So if you guys could tell me that, that would be great. And If you guys know anything else that could be helpful, i would really appreciate it.

By the way, the website is http://groups.myspace.com/againstconformities
if you want to join!

you could post a code into the area where you type about the group.

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Hi, this is MFS again.

If you come into the chat and people like myself, Jen, Fern, or Storage are in there, and we don't reply right away, it is likely because we aren't really there. We log in but are away. It happens. Often, I'll set my name to say something like "MFS|notHere" or "MFS|work". If you see that, then likely I'm just logged in and lurking.

The reason I say this is to demonstrate what happens when really stupid and immature people come into the chat:

19:22] *** troubledteen joined #advicenators
[19:22] hi,can sum1 gimme advice?????
[19:23] PLZZZZZZZZZZZZZZ?
[19:23] hello????
[19:23] *** SweetieAsh08 joined #advicenators
[19:23] hey people
[19:23] can u plzzzzzzzzzzz help?
[19:24] does anyone know how to make your advicenators available on AIM?
[19:24] HELLO???????????????????
[19:24] God you guys suck ass
[19:24] *** SweetieAsh08 quit Sorcerynet : Quit: http://cookie.sorcery.net/~ircd_/javachat/
[19:25] she/hes right!!!!!!!!!!! ppl cum in here to get advice and ur just like ...................................
[19:26] i bet both of yall are doing sumthin that i dont even wanna kno about
[19:26] fuck you!!!!!!!!!!!
[19:26] fuck you fuck you fuck you
[19:26] Yuck Fou! Fuck You!!!!
[19:26] *** troubledteen quit Sorcerynet : Quit: http://cookie.sorcery.net/~ircd_/javachat/

Keep in mind, I can and will ban you from the chat for stupidity like that. We're not here to serve your every whim. We're here to help IF WE CAN. And hey, get this... some of us have LIVES.

Amazing.

Anyway, hardly anyone comes into the chat room - a few have, and we've had great conversations with them and even started to discuss a few issues. This chatroom is for the people of this site, particularly the frequent columnists, to talk to each other, get to know each other, and make this site a better place for everyone.

People who use it as way to act like asshats are not helping anyone, especially not themselves.

People who are like that should get lives, seriously.

Also, as a note, banning doesnt always help, proxies would get themm access to a banned place.

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my brother and i are both realli depressed. i was wondering if there is anything i can do about us being depressed before something happens. if you get my drift. i fear for both of us. he's 17...almost 18 and im 15. if that helps.

Well, I find hobbies help with depression.
It's possible that lonliness can cause depression, so maybe you two should try to make friends.
If your still depressed, there are special doctors who can help.

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Do guys mind if girls ask them out? Usually, it is the guy who asks the girl so I'm just wondering if it is okay for "her" to ask "him".

Of course its ok to ask a guy out, it makes them feel special, unless they follow this macho thing.

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I have a boyfriend. But last night I had a dream where I was making out with this guy I used to like. Is that some kind of sign that I should be with him? Or does it mean that deep down I still like him? What does it mean?

It means nothing.
Lots of dreams do.
You may have thought of that guy and when you liked him, so that may have triggered the dream.

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can anyone help me find a backround for my site?

lol, try photobucket or geres a brilliant idea, GOOGLE it!!

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Hi, I am a 16 year old girl. So, ok there was this guy that I dated for a month. Our last date was on a Sunday & I broke up with him that Thursday. On our date, he barley put his arm around me & didn’t even kiss me. Usually on our dates we do nothing but that. Then at school that week he was acting kind of funny. He didn’t call me at all that week. On Thursday at school he didn’t even hug me before he left for practice. That night I called him & said that I think it would be better if we were just friends and he agreed. I still liked him when i broke it off I could tell that he really did think it was the right thing. We still both really did want to be friends. That weekend after i broke up with him was horrible. I still really liked him and all i could think about was him. I thought it would pass. After we broke up, he barley talked to me or didn’t even talk to me at all. I tried everything. I tried talking to him about it, calling him, emailing him, everything. He didn’t seem to want anything to do with me, so after about a month of trying to talk to him I gave up and decided that he would talk to me when he wanted to. Since school got out ive emailed him a few times telling him i want us to hang out and be firends like we used to be. Well about a couple of months after we broke up I saw that he still had a picture of me in his wallet. *the only thing he really has in his wallet are my picture & money* Then his friend told me that he still had my picture in a frame on his desk. I could understand why he still had my pictures if we were still friends, but we weren’t. Now, its 3 months later and i still really like him. I miss him soo much. I havent talked to him or seen him all summer. What should i do? about everything?

Well, even if it does seem like he thinks that you and him should just be friends, he could be a bit heartbroken by it, and it might seem akward talking to you after the break up. I know this sounds sad but you should just move on, and find another guy.

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if i exsersize and dont eat for 12 hours will i lose weight and should i drink water

You should eat regualarly, in serving sizes, and drink alot of water, as well as exersize.
You will gain wait eventually if you don't eat because sooner or later you would get cravings and eat alot.

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yea im kinda self conscious about the way i look and i look down on myself a lot like i dont only think i know that im ugly and sometimes it bothers me when my friends are like ur ugly and i just laugh it off or just say i know i dont know if they are serious or just joking with me but i dont know.. but like when i say mom im ugly shes like no your not your beautiful i know she doesnt mean it she just says that because shes my mom.. but ya whatever thats why im very careless of my looks like i dont really know what to do so that i wont look down on myself so much and not to think about how ugly i am thats why i dont really care about my appearance n e more is that a bad thing??

Well, doing your best to look good is a good thing to do, try browsing for clothes and find the one you believe looks best on you, that should give you some confidence on how you look.
Also, the words ugly, and good looking is an opinion, not a fact! To some people you look devilishly gorgeous/handsome, and to some you might not.

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Can some give me some tips on improving firefox?
Also, how can I get rid of the pop ups that have the "stop script" button?
Thanks

you can change some settings if you type in about:config on the adress bar, and press enter, here are some things to alter


nglayout.initialpaint.delay
set value to 0
(The amount of time the browser waits to act on info to recieve)

browser.urlbar.autoFill
set to true
(makes a list of alike urls when you type in the adress bar)

network.http.pipelining
set to true
(enables setting network.http.pipelining.maxrequests to 100)

network.http.pipelining.maxrequests
Change it to 100, but first you must change
network.http.pipelining.maxrequests to true
(makes Firefox faster)

browser.tabs.showSingleWindowModePrefs
Make true
(enables advance tools/options in tools/options page)

network.http.proxy.pipelining
set to true
{also, making things faster

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I didn't know what catigory to put this under...

anywho...


I need to know how to delete my account.


Anyone know??????

you can do so here
http://www.advicenators.com/deletec.php

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i have a dog that gets out of the house alot how do i keep it in?

well, you could close any places he can escap from, and put him in a cage/kennel when the doors and windows need opening.
There is a type of collar that gives him a shock when he/she has reached some area, i don't think it would hurt him/her.

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My boyfriend tends to lie to me about stupid things..like money. If he has 100 bucks he tells me he only has 50 and such. And I have caught him in his lies so many times. He told me that he woul d stop because he didn't know that i cared that he lied about stupid stuff like that.But in my opinion if he lies to me about small things than he's lied to me about more important things.What should I do to get it through his head that I don't appreciate him lying to me all the time.

tell him you know he lies to you, and that you definatly don't appreciate it, and that you can't trust him if he lies all the time, if he doesn't stop, i know this is hard to do, but I would dump him.

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ok i get bored easily,i really want some sites that are fun and maybe addicting like theres millsberry.com where you make your own house and person and of coarse thers myspace and facebook, but does anyone know of any other sites that are fun or entertaining?

www,ebaumsworld.com
www.i-hacked.com
www.miniclip.com
www.quizilla.com
www.homestarrunner.com
www.joecartoon.com
www.mindviz.com

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I know that when you are younger. Guys tease girls if they like them. Is it still the same way in your upper teens.?

Well, if this person is mature, he most likely wouldn't do so. If he is harshly teasing you, he probably isn't interested either. but if it's a playful tease then he could be interested.

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Ok, well, my internet is being slow, it takes longer than usual for sites to load (The fastest site is myspace, and it's slow enough already.) , and when I click on a folder in the favorites section, it freezes 80% of the time. I checked for viruses, but, after I destroy them its still slow.

solve it by deleting cookies and history

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how do i remove an adress from the adress bar?
If it helps, I have internet explorer

go to tools->internet options->delete cookies->clear history

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