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Liar Liar pants on fire
My boyfriend tends to lie to me about stupid things..like money. If he has 100 bucks he tells me he only has 50 and such. And I have caught him in his lies so many times. He told me that he woul d stop because he didn't know that i cared that he lied about stupid stuff like that.But in my opinion if he lies to me about small things than he's lied to me about more important things.What should I do to get it through his head that I don't appreciate him lying to me all the time.
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Don't assume untill you have proof but you have every right to dump him because no one deserves to be lied to but you should wait and see if you still is lying to you before you act
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Hi, the only thing you can do is sit down with him and talk it over. If he still doesn't follow you after then he isn't being a good boyfriend. Daniel.
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if he dosent stop threaten him (as in its the lies stop or im gone for good)if dosent stop walk away silent treatment or break up with him dosent lie big or small its never good to lie hope it gose well!:)
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I know people that compulsivly lie like this and they've been doing it for their entire life, some of them. If you can't handle him lying to you, you need to end the relationship. You're probably right.. if he lies about stupid things then he will probably tend to lie about the big stuff too. Maybe if you threaten to leave him, the shock will snap him back into reality and hopefully stop the lying.
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You need to straight out ask him what is up.What he lies about is stupid,I know,but you should still ask him what is up.It's not right for him to be lying to you like that.
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tell him you know he lies to you, and that you definatly don't appreciate it, and that you can't trust him if he lies all the time, if he doesn't stop, i know this is hard to do, but I would dump him.
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1.Lie to him and then tell him you lied and have him explain to you why it is a bad thing to lie
2. Dump him (not the best option, I know)
3. Point blank ask him what is up
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I agree with you, if he is lying to you about small things, he has most likely lied to you about more important things.
Just keep reminding him that you don't appreciate his lying. If he doesn't stop, I would advise you to break up with him because you never know what he could lie about in the future.
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Well, there really is no way to get it through to him. I would keep impressing the matter upon him, and try to get him to realize it. But as you said, if you lies to you about little things, than he probably lies to you about more imporatant things. If you catch him again... As harsh as it sounds, I would dump him because nothing good ever comes out of liars.
~Savanna
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