I never let guys get close romantically to me, because I'm scared they will try something sexual. Now, its not that I'm morally opposed, but I think I'm just self conscious or something, because I'm scared to let a guy touch me. Like I'm afraid I'll be bad at whatever we do, or they won't like how I look or feel or whatever. I have dumped all of my boyfriends after like a month because I just don't want them to get too close. Well the thing is, I really like this guy now, but I don't want to pull away from him because I'm worried about things. So 2 things. 1-what can I do about this? and 2- Do guys mind doing things with a first timer?
BriZeeme2 answered Wednesday June 14 2006, 9:25 pm: ok i used to be like this don't worry....well 1- you can relax and let him make the moves and you just go with the flow or you could tell him how you feel and he'll know how you feel 2- and guys don't mind doing it with a first timer and think about it if they do care then there not worth doing it with
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