okay so my boyfriend..lets call him Bob..thats weird but i dont want 2 use his real name..okay so Bob and me have been going out 4 about 2 months now..Bob's never made a move..neither have i..all my friends *boys and girls* went 2 the movies one night..i sait next 2 bob..he didnt put his arm around me or anything..but hes not shy..i know that..should i make a move or wait till he does? Thanks!!
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mmmmmmm answered Thursday June 15 2006, 3:58 pm: he probably is just nervous. it will happen in time. if you are ready, and he isn't, they best thing is to do is just wait. if you make a move and he isn't ready, he might get nervous! wait for him.
Answerman answered Wednesday June 14 2006, 10:46 pm: thats prolly what hes waiting for im not shy but i love when a girl makes the first move so go for it youll like the results [ Answerman's advice column | Ask Answerman A Question ]
xxsima answered Wednesday June 14 2006, 10:18 pm: I think that you should make the first move. Since 'Bob' is so shy, he probably wants you to make the first move. And if you and Bob keep waiting around, then maybe he might feel like it won't work out between you two. Don't like, start making out with him all of a sudden. Take it nice && slow. Whisper in his ear, give him hugs, ect. [ xxsima's advice column | Ask xxsima A Question ]
lilly_pads79 answered Wednesday June 14 2006, 9:53 pm: It is really up to you and how you feel, but I would make the first move. Some guys like aggressive girls, or he might not think that you are ready for the next step. Hope for the best!
devilspawn_666 answered Wednesday June 14 2006, 9:41 pm: Just do whatever makes you feel comfortable. You shouldn't feel pressured into making the first move, but if you are comfortable with it by all means go ahead. Some guys get nervous when they're around their girl AND their friends. Try not to read too much into it, though. [ devilspawn_666's advice column | Ask devilspawn_666 A Question ]
klc23 answered Wednesday June 14 2006, 9:37 pm: He maybe shy to make the first move.. I know plenty of people who are like that..He could be not ready for the arms around deal.. Make the first move.. [ klc23's advice column | Ask klc23 A Question ]
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