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Ok so a lot of people tell me i am too thin. I've done those online calculators and they say i am, but you can't really trust those things because they don't take in to consideration a lot of important factors, you know. So, I thought if people could look at my pic site and give me their honest opinion? Thanks. http://www.picturetrail.com/photos/blondina75 (link)
being this thin is not healthy.
a smart choice would be to go see a doctor after telling your family and friends about this.


i recently purchased an ipod nano. i put some songs on there that i would like to take off. is there anyway i could go about doing this? please and thanks. (link)
even if i had to take all of the songs off of it and put them all back on, that's fine. just explain to me step by step please.


Okay I like this guy and we've been going out and like he really really likes me too and my parents dont like him for some reason and i dont want to break up with him and my friends dont want me to go out with him anymore and want me to break up with him to but I rele dont want to what should I do ? and this one person said if i love him stay with him but the thing is tht my parents caught me alone with him and they dont want me neer him and i want to spend some time with him on my b-day wich is tomorow and i have no clue wht to do ! please help me ..... thank you

xoxo vanessa (link)
i would talk to your parents and the people that want you to break up with him. you should find out why they don't want you to be with him. i'm sure if they explained it to you, you would understand if it is a good reason. if you don't agree with their reasoning, i would explain to these people about how you feel about your boyfriend. if you think he's a good person, then talk to them about this. i'm sure they're just caring about you.

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Okay well my bf like lives in an apartment and like theres a pool outisde his apartment and like i rele want to hang out with him at his plaace but my parents wont let me go there cuz thts were all the ''smokers and druggies'' live ... does anyone know any good reasons i could tell my parents i could go there ? please...cuz if i dun go over there he mite start cheeting on me or somehing and he came swimmin at a pool neer me and everything for a long time so i wana go over to his house.....
thanks.
-xoxo Vanessa (link)
if he really truly cares about you, he would for sure understand why your parents wouldn't want you to go there. i would trust your parents on this one. just because you can't go to his house doesn't mean that hs is going to cheat on you!

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14/f

I'm considering performing "The Contest" from Sweeney Todd (the musical) at camp. I know I can definitely pull it off vocally, because I have a very low voice, and not trying to sound cocky, but I'm a pretty good actor, so I could do the fake Italian accent accurately. And I could put shaving cream all over my friend.

Do you guys think people would think it would be weird if a girl performed as Pirelli? (link)
if it's alright with the camp, it would be totally fine. it would not matter that a girl is playing a boy. that means that you are a good actress!!


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Which do you prefer, iPod or MP3 Players? (link)
ipods will last longer if you take care of them. ipods wlil break very easily. mp3 players can be cheaper than ipods and most of the time are made better

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if you have sex with a condom ..what is the percentage of getting pregnant? (link)
99.9%


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I think I might be pregnant.. I had sex with my boyfriend without using a condom..about 2 weeks ago..He was supposed to pull out in time and he claims he did.. but "down there" was wet like "his stuff" was all over it... as if he pulled out as going ...!
I know this was a STUPID thing.. to not use a condom and whatnot.. but its too late.. and i want to know if you guys think im pregnant!?
Im like paranoid now.. and feel dizzy all the time.. ! My periods not supposed to come for a while either.. so I dont know.. plus, its realllly irregular and I dont even know when to expect it!
HELP!!! (link)
first thing to to is take an at home pregnancy test. if this comes out positive, talk to someone about this. if you are young, learn about planned parenthood. make sure you are talking to your boyfriend about this!


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Hello,

I'm 17 and I've had my period for four years now, so it's usually very regular. However, it was supposed to have come two weeks ago, and yet it's not here. I'm still having the signs of "PMS" that I normally have (cramps, nausea, etc.), which have lasted for over a week, yet there's still no actual period. I don't have sex, so I can't be pregnant. This has never happened before. I figure that if it doesn't come within another week or so, I may have to see a doctor. Can you possibly explain this to me, and should I see a doctor? (link)
same thing happened to me once! but it was only because i was sick.

stress, illness, and temperature can all factor when you get your period. if any of these apply to you, there is your answer. if you do not get your period in a week, i would consider going to the doctor. he/she might say the same thing that i did.

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Any ideas what excercises I could do to lose weight around my stomach area and thigh area? (link)
i do 1 excersice to help those two areas. do crunches but when you lift your shoulders up, also lift your legs up. you will feel the burn faster, but this is much more affective than running and all that jazz.

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Ok well I just started using tampons and I wanna know if you can wear a tampon in the shower? B/c i gotta take a shower but I like just put a tampon in an hour ago and I don't wanna waste it.

Thanks! (link)
that is perfectly fine to do.

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is the PEBL good phone, also is the razr a good phone? which is better? and if neither of those are good what's a better phone. Also, what are some good plans to get with phones? Thankies! (link)
i am not sure about the PEBL phone.. but as for the razer, i heard that if it gets scratched [if it is colored] the color peels off. i wouldn't suggest getting that if i were you.

sorry i didn't know about the other phone.

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this sunday i am going to a party at my friends country club. it's not like one of those really really fancy ones, it's like i regular one. you know with a tennis courts and a place to golf and stuff. my question is, what would be appropriate to wear? can i wear a denim skirt? (link)
a denim skirt would be fine. another thing that would look really cute is a sundress!

i hope i helped!! = ]]]


okay i think i started my period,
but im not sure
when i wipe my self i have small dots of blood
very light dots ive been having them for 3 days now
what is it?
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sometimes right before you get your period for the first time, you leak a little bit. it is completely normal. over the next couple of days, the flow will get a little heavier. you have nothing to worry about.

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my friends are always like omg he just got a boner! and i always feel left out cuz i dont know what they are...and im too embarassed to ask. CAN SOMEONE TELL ME WHAT A BONER IS?

THANKS (link)
when a guy sees something [a girl or something sexual that makes him excited] he get horny and fluid goes to his penis. his penis points out. otherwise known as an errection.

i hope i helped!! = ]]]


One of my Vaginal Inner Lips is longer than the other.
I've read other girls who've had this and people have said that it happens, and its normal.
I just wanted to double check.
Is this ok? (link)
yes, this is normal. a lot of people have this. some people even get surgery to make them both the same length.

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If I wore a reg. size tampon and put it in at 12 and then woke up around 8 maybe nine will I be at a health risk? (link)
tampons are only suppose to stay in for 8 hours at the maximum. though tss is very rear, i wouldn't take the chance if i were you.

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What are some things outside with water I could do with about 18 girls...I've already thought of a water balloon fight and other ideas?? Try to keep the ideas inexpensive. Thanks WILL RATE (link)
i had an outside party, these are the things we did [sorry if some of them don't involve water]

*we had waterguns
*bonfire
*truth or dare
*water balloon volleyball! [just use water balloons instead of a volleyball]
*wet twister [just wet the twister board]

i know it isn't a lot, but i hope i helped!!! = ]]]


hi what are some like really good excercises that i can do at home. i am trying to lose the stomach and some fat around my thighs. i dont need alot to do because im not entirely that fat. like i know you can do sit ups. but what else can i do. i walk around alot with my friends but its to hot outside to go running. what are some really good excercises that can help me loose some of the fat around my thighs and stomach? tahnk you in advance


~~Rissie (link)
what i do is do crunches, but when i go up, i lift my legs up as well. that helps with the fat in the thighs and tummy.

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I want to lose a couple of pounds and i got the whole exrecise portion covered but my problem is healthy eating. I don't know what to eat that's healthy for me. I only want HEALTHY FOOD and the only thing that i know that is healthy is salad and i don't want to be eating that over and over again. It's breakfast time and i'm hungry. What are some healthy alternatives for breakfast, lunch and dinner?? I can go out and buy the foods i need just name some. (link)
if you drink a lot of water, that fills up your stomach so you won't be really healthy. also, there isa special k cereal 'lose 10 pounds in the waist'.. supposedly if you eat two bowls of it as two meals, you will lose 10 pounds around your waist!

hope i helped!!! = ]]]




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