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Okay I like this guy and we've been going out and like he really really likes me too and my parents dont like him for some reason and i dont want to break up with him and my friends dont want me to go out with him anymore and want me to break up with him to but I rele dont want to what should I do ? and this one person said if i love him stay with him but the thing is tht my parents caught me alone with him and they dont want me neer him and i want to spend some time with him on my b-day wich is tomorow and i have no clue wht to do ! please help me ..... thank you
xoxo vanessa
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well, i dont think you should brake up with him because your parents say so, your parents probably dont like him because their afraid that he'll take you away from them or because girls normally listin more to their boyfriends then their parents or that he'll get you into trouble or brake your heart
they just care about you so you probably shouldnt listen to them at the moment.
what you should do is think that if you really love him because it's not worth it to put your parents through trouble if you don't really love him
but if you do love him then you probably shouldnt listen to them but you should think long and hard about this okay
i hope i helped
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i would talk to your parents and the people that want you to break up with him. you should find out why they don't want you to be with him. i'm sure if they explained it to you, you would understand if it is a good reason. if you don't agree with their reasoning, i would explain to these people about how you feel about your boyfriend. if you think he's a good person, then talk to them about this. i'm sure they're just caring about you.
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Hey vanessa it seems you have a common problem, my parents don't like my boyfriend either and the reason for that is because hes older than me. I just ignore my parents its my life, ask your parents why they have a grudge against your boyfriend and tell them that you really like him and he really likes you to so they should be happy for you seeing as they are your parents and SHOULD want you to be happy...i think you should tell your friends the same, maybe they are JEALOUS of you having a boyfriend that actully likes you? I think that you should go ahead and INVITE your boyfriend to your party. Because at the end of the day its YOUR party and you can invite who you want, DON'T let your friends INTERFERE its your party! Hope i helped
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i say you find out what exactly about him they dont like..and im sure with your parents they just dont like him because they found you alone with him talk to them and tell them your not gonna do anything too soon reassure them that he's a good guy..your friends too and go ahead and invite him to your party i had the same thing happen to me with an ex...they coulsnt do anything about it...its not like theyre gonna kick him out and make him go home
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