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Heyy. I'm Kelsey. I'm not here to be judgemental or tell you what to do with your life, but it's just my personal input. Most of my friends come to me when they need something, and always tell me that I really helped them out. I've been through aylottt, and most problems out there I have experienced. I'm good with relationships(love+friendship)sports, and a lot of other things. Mainly all that middle school drama crap. If you have any questions, don't hesitate to ask. Love always, Kelsey.
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kels-
i dont know what to do! you see, there's this girl who was a really good friend of mine last school year. Over the summer we seemed to not talk as much, but I still liked her. there was all sorts of crapp going on between parents and now i dont really talk to her anymore but shes made new really close friends and im sort of jealous. im just sort of standing here waiting to be invited to parties and for ppl to call me but the truth is-- NO ONE I KNOW at all (im not exaggerating one bit i swear to youu..) is in any of my classes but all my other friends from last year are ALL (again. no exaggeration) in the same classes. im so jealous and feel like im missing out and to tell the truth, theres no1 in my classes im that interested in being friends with. i feel kinda like a loner [but i hope im notttt!] and im stuck. ughh. & the worst thing is that ive got a "label" that im smart and shy. how can i all of a sudden become loud and "popular" and hang onto my old friendships when theres 14 days of school left?!!? will i have any friends over summer?! help pleasseee give me some advice that not just everyone would give..
thanks =]
much apreciated
blah. STOP SAYING YOU WANT TO BE POPULAR. theres nothing special about popular people. just be who you are, and find people who like you the way you are. just try being a little more outgoing and meet new people. chances are if you are yourself people will like you. hope this helps!
Love Always, Kelsey
hey um..everytime i get my period i feel like i cant do anything. and on the first day i ALWAYS havecramps and they hurt so bad.. will they ever go away? and idk why i cant do anything when i get it all i do is sit at home and like not do anything. is this normal please help me.
yeah. periods suck. anyways, get some midol. it really helps. yeah some people get like that when they get their period its fine. after a few years and you are comfortable with your period you'll be able to go out more. hope this helped!
Love Always, Kelsey.
I'm having a birthday party next week with four friends (we're all 13 year old girls, if that helps) and my theme is a spa party. Does anyone know any fun spa treatments that I can do at home with my friends, or any websites with home spa treatments on them?
Thanks in advance :)
I suggest painting nails, hair, facials, massages, and makeup. Hope this helped and happy birthday!!
Love Always, Kelsey
Hey Kels--
okay, so I've always been a little well uhh nerdy and this year I've started becoming a little more prep. Like I have Abercrombie shirts and junk, but now my old nerdy friends are like "Don't become prep on us." and I love my new and old friends, and I don't know if I should go back to being a nerd or continue being a prep. Gahhhh just help.
Shit. I hate how people are judged on what you wear. It doesn't matter how you dress, it depends on your personality. Anyways,Your friends shouldn't care what you wear. Talk to them and make sure they know you wouldn't leave them for other friends.
hey um.. this girl was talking about discharge and stuff somehwere in your advice column. I dont know how to put this...but what is discharge??
its the extra i guess you could say crap that comes out when you have your period or are about to get it.
im supposed to think of 3 different types of songs for our 8th grade farewell dance (im on student council) and i need a "Rap/hip hop" song, a "slow" song and a "overall" song..by overall they mean how the year meant..and it was good and bad and i cannot think of ANY!
5s for anything.and i mean anything!
Rap/Hip Hop ::
Shake-Ying Yang Twins
Ms New Booty-Bubba Sparxx
Slow Song ::
Momen Like This-(Not Sure Who It's By. Sorry.)
Be Be Your Love-Rachael Yamagata
Overall Song ::
Good Riddance (Time Of Your Life)-Greenday
Graduation-Vitamin C
Love Always, Kelsey
ok so whats a country song thats like a love song.. but its like a newer one .. not an old one.
Keith Urban- "You'll Think Of Me"
It's Not THAT country, and its like my favorite song ever.
well everytime i get a haircut and i get it blow dried it's always sooo pretty and soft and shiny!!! how do they do that??? cause everytime i do it it is shiny and soft and pretty but i know it could be better than that so how can i do that??? i have special shampoo and conditinor but that dosnt work that good though..
what should i do??
Haha just chill out. Its their job to do that. If you can't, dont worry about it!! But you could ask your hairdresser for the product she uses in your hair and ask where you can buy it. Most of the time you can buy it right at the salon. There mostly pretty pricey becuase they are such high quality, but hey its worth the great hair!
always, kelsey
i have discharge everyday! it sucks i usually have to wear pantyliners..even when i dont have my period! the only time i dont have discharge is when i have my period (well obv.) but then it sucks because i always have to be wearing somethin like a panytliner because usually its alot of discharge! is there anything i can do? is it normal? will it ever stop?!
ahh i need helP!
i WILL rate 5 for anyone who helps
THANKS
This is definetly normal. Welcome to being a woman. Theres this site, and it has anything you need to know about being a girl.
www.beinggirl.com
Hope this helps!
always, kelsey
Hi does anyone know how to do a backflip??? You know like backflip? I am not athletic at all and I can't even do a cartwheel but I really want to learn all that
1. cartwheel
2. backflip
3. frontflip
4. running to a wall and doing a backflip
5. roundoff(whatever that is)
so anyone know how to do it? very precisely because I am not really good at understanding stuff
or any website that can help me??
Thanks so much in advance!!
You need to go to a gym or something, so you don't get hurt. Join gymnastics and have someone spot you when your doing it. A roundoff is like a cartwheel except you land with two feet together instead of apart like you do in a cartwheel. I suggest you start with someing as simple as a cartwheel and then gradually make your way up to roundoff then front flip thenn back flip should be very last. But definetly make sure you join gymnastics first. I used to do gymnastics and quit a few years ago, but I can do a cartwheel, a roundoff, a front flip (trampoline only) and a front handspring. I used to be able to do a roundoff back handspring, but I haven't been able to do one every since I quit. Join gymnastics and you will be able to do all the things you said above, and even more.
always, kelsey.
what does OCD mean?
OCD stands for Obsessive Compulsive Disorder. It's when people freak out over the little things. They actually had a True Life episode on MTV and it was called "True Life-I Have OCD" and it was all about kids who have OCD. Sometimes people are extremely afraid of being sick or getting germs, or on the show there was this girl who was obsessed with her dead mother. Another really popular kind of OCD is when you touch something withone hand, you have to touch it with the other hand. Hope this helped.
xOox alwayss.
What site can I make my own website for FREE?
I'll Rate HIGH if its specific site.
www.freewebs.com
www.geocities.com
www.xanga.com
www.myspace.com[although dangerouss.if you choose myspace, i suggest you make it private]
www.livejournal.com
and theres a ton more.
I got a bad test grade and I promised my mom this wouldn't happen again this school year. If I get it signed, then I get extra credit and an A. Because of that, I want and need it sighed. Any good ideas on how to tell her without her being like super mad? 13/f
Just explain to your mom that if you get this signed you will get extra credit. Parents love to hear that their kids are doing extra credit. Make sure you apologize to your mom about the grade and maybe try to go in for extra help in that class to show you mom that you are really trying. Hopefully your mom will forgive you.
xOox alwayss
T= Girl 1
B=Girl 2
Kelsey--Okay, so T and B were BFF's wayy before I met either of them. But then all of a sudden they started fighting and T became like awesome friends with me. I really love her and everything but I feel kind of bad for B because we're also BFF's. They always put me in the middle and ask me questions about each other. There was this huge debate, but like last night, they made up. They said that they'd both commit more to their friendship. So I thought everything would be good, but well okay. T told me this huge secret and she said it was only because we were BFF's. But she claims to be BFF's with B too but she hasn't told her. B knows it too and is getting frustrated. I feel stuck in the middle.
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stuck in the middle
You should talk to T and B together. Make sure they know you don't prefer one over the other. Make a pact, and stick to it. If you tell something to one person, you tell the other person as well. Alot of friendships are ruined by secrets and rumors. If B tells you something, you should tell T about it. And same if T tells you something. You really need to make sure your friendship stays strong. I know it may be hard, but if T and B have been good friends for a long time, they probably always will be. But they may get sick of eachother, and will both always come running to you. But T and B definetly sound like they will be friends for a long time. And about fighting and making up and then lieing and telling secrets about eachother, its chill. It's just a chick thing. Girls will be like that there whole lives. Maybe T and B are just a little jealous if you become better friends with one of them. Hope I helped!
xOox always
hey im the one who asked the question about if i should stop liking that person because of just an attraction. i think i forgot to add that im pretty sure he doesnt know who i am. i cant explain why. but i also noticed that whenever i see him...he looks at me, and immedetly looks at like another girl...hes always with another girl. atcually i never see him with guys...maybe like once a week. hahah. idk what to do.
He deffinetly sounds like a ladies mann. He may not know exactly who you are, but he sounds like hes atleast noticed you before. I think you should take a chance at this guy, but only if you aren't the jealous type. If you are, this might not be the best guy for you. Some people are extremely over protective of their boyfriends and get very mad about them looking at other girls or just hanging out with them. But if you make a move you need to talk to him first. Just make sure that he knows those girls are his friends and only his friends. Let me know if i helped!
hey kelsey!!
okay 98 pounds is NOT fat. you don't have to be skinny like the popular girls? most of the popular girls are dancers and soccer players, so they are constantly working out or running or dancing non stop. thats why there so skinny. if you don't dance or play sports, you should be proud because you held your weight at average without doing those things. everyday when you lookd int he mirror, tell yourself your skinny until the day you believe it.
alwayss.
for about a year now ive liked this one boy. i cant describe what i like about him at all. its like like, AH ATTRACTION. ive talked to him maybe three times or so. and hes constantly looking at me in the halls, and i have dont really no why because i didnt think he knew who i was... should i basically just stop liking him, because really, its more of lust not love.
if you say that this boy has talked to you before and is constantly looking at you in the halls, then you have no reason at all to stop liking him! thats a reallly good start, and if you work really hard to talk to him more without overdoing it - you two might end up having an amazing relationship
hope this helps youu ; && please let me know what happens! =]
props to amanda
hey kelsey
so last year i had this reallly good friend . we were best friends. we did almost everything together and always laughed. then she found these two other girls and they do almost everything together. and i get relee jelousssssssss wenever i see them cuz like now they hang out every single weekend and always have s.os and stuff & it just reminds me like how much fun we used to have. it rele sux . i dont no what to do. did this ever happen to you.?
xoxo. kinda.
i was/am in the SAME exact situation. i really missed this girl. and ill admitt it, i was kind of jealous. but i made plans with her to do something before she made plans with her other friends, and all we did the whole time was talk about all the great memories we have together & how much we miss it. it may seem like your friend has moved on, but most likely she will never foget you and will always have you in her heart just incase.
alwayss.
ok i have these really groshh marks..like stretch marks..on my thighs/butt from the sport i do- and i love my bikinis! i feel really revealed when i wear them, and my weirdo fat marks show...i look good in a bikini..its just those stupid marks make me so self conscious. guys will think its freakish too..HELP!
love XOX
alot of teenage girls are self concious about their weight/ physical appearance. maybe you could go on a diet. like, start eating healthier. but dont become anorexic or bullemic or anything. ou could also maybe try to workout like if you have a dog run around your neighborhood with your dog for an hour everyday after school or do crunches and situps in your room. hope everything goes well.
alwayss.
im the one who wanted to break up with my boyfriend .. and dint know what to do .. i just wanted to tell you that i broke up with him and hes pretty upset but we are still friends . thanks for your help kelsey!
no problem