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Stuck in the middle?


Question Posted Saturday May 13 2006, 11:29 am

T= Girl 1
B=Girl 2
Kelsey--Okay, so T and B were BFF's wayy before I met either of them. But then all of a sudden they started fighting and T became like awesome friends with me. I really love her and everything but I feel kind of bad for B because we're also BFF's. They always put me in the middle and ask me questions about each other. There was this huge debate, but like last night, they made up. They said that they'd both commit more to their friendship. So I thought everything would be good, but well okay. T told me this huge secret and she said it was only because we were BFF's. But she claims to be BFF's with B too but she hasn't told her. B knows it too and is getting frustrated. I feel stuck in the middle.
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Kelss answered Thursday May 25 2006, 9:28 am:
You should talk to T and B together. Make sure they know you don't prefer one over the other. Make a pact, and stick to it. If you tell something to one person, you tell the other person as well. Alot of friendships are ruined by secrets and rumors. If B tells you something, you should tell T about it. And same if T tells you something. You really need to make sure your friendship stays strong. I know it may be hard, but if T and B have been good friends for a long time, they probably always will be. But they may get sick of eachother, and will both always come running to you. But T and B definetly sound like they will be friends for a long time. And about fighting and making up and then lieing and telling secrets about eachother, its chill. It's just a chick thing. Girls will be like that there whole lives. Maybe T and B are just a little jealous if you become better friends with one of them. Hope I helped!

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