Hello, My name is Kelly, I'm 15. I'm no expert on anything, but I've been told I give pretty good advice. If you have any questions or need help with something give me a shout. I can't promise that I can solve anyone's problems, but I'll do my best to help.
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i wanna ask this friend thats a guy to a graduation dance at my school(8th grade/female) but weve known eachother since we were like 4 and i asked him out over the summer and he said no, cuz he just thinks of me as a friend. so if i asked him to the dance i think he would think i like him and would say no, but i dont. also he likes one of my friends but she wont go out with him. i dont want anyone to no i asked him especially if i say no because theyll think i like him, so how do i ask w/o everyone finding out, and how do i ask him? (link)
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Well what I would do if I were you is I would just explain to him that you don't like him like that, and that you would like to do to the dance with him just as friends. As for your friends finding out, there's not really a way to avoid that, but just explain to them to that you don't feel that way about him. As for asking him just call him up and ask him, or e-mail him. But if you want to ask him face to face just find a time when you can talk to him alone for a second. I wish you the best of luck, I hope I helped you.
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ok, i was just looking at my fingernails and i noticed on a few i have white spots.I seem to always have them.What are they?Is there any way to prevent them? (link)
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Ok, normally when you have those it means your fingernails got bruised, and when the bruise appears its underneath you nail and it looks white untop of your nails. The only tip I can give you is to be more careful, and don't worry everyone gets them.
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I have been wondering if the person you like or you keep thinking who'll end up with you in marriage would usually be the person you'll really get married to. Because in my situation, I've always thought that he'll be the one and don't get it wrong, I have deep feelings for him. But there's this another guy who last time cares for me but now i think not anymore. i just think. But I'm afraid maybe the person i think would be the one for me, wouldn't really be? I know it sounds complicated but it's really giving me a problem. Pls. help me. (link)
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Well life is full of millions of twists and turns , and sometimes when you take a certain path you'll feel as if your at a dead end. But the thing is you are the one who determines who your with for the rest of your life. The decisions and choices you make now directly effect evrything from you love life to your career. The main thing to keep in mind is to date around and try to see whats all out there before you devote yourself to one person. And when you decide to devote yourself to one person make sure that they feel the same about you and that it will make you happy because if your doing it to make them happy and not to make yourself happy as well...you will be miserable.
Just remember, Life is not a mystery to be a solved, but an adventure to be lived. So Live life to the fullest and try to have all the fun you can.
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Im gonna buy my boyfriend some stuff for his birthday, but then i also want to make him something creative. I have no idea what to do! Can someone please help me???!?! (link)
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Maybe you could find out what his favorite band is and *lets say if he really liked Nirvana* You could get a heart shaped box and put your picture on it. and on the outside you could write *I've been locked inside your heart shaped Box for weeks...* those are lyrics from one of Nirvana's songs, and its just sweet and creative. You could do something to that effect. Hope I helped you.
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I just found out that a girl at school, I knew already that we werent the best of friends called me Rude, annoying, and bitchy while talking to one of my closest friends.
History of us,
we were never friends but we never were mean 2 eachother. Last year I had mono and was on medications, I had a short temper and she or someone else sai somthing thing that mad me mad or annoyed me. She said "you have changed alot since you were sick. nit for the best either. You are mean." I said stuff back 'this is the real me i didnt change. get used 2 it." i fell bad now but i didnt know what i was saying. now i think she hates me and I want to apologize but I dont want to seem like a goody goody who wants everyone to like them.
what do i do. please help me!
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Well 1st of all That's mean what this chick did, but It sounds like you want to be the bigger person and fix things. Good for you. If I were you I would tell her the things that she said really upset you, and your sorry for saying what you said to result in saying what she said. To me that doesn't seem to goody goody, it seems like the mature thing to do. Hope I helped.
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I have an extra curricualr activity. There's this guy there. His name is Gabriel. He's not the hottest guy in the world, but I think he's totally nice. We have a lot in common. We see eachother once a week, and talk on AIM. We're in different grades. He's in 8th, I'm in 7th. We don't go to the same school, and won't be able to see eachother over the summer. I really care about him, but he doesn't know. My friends think he's ugly, and that even if he is nice, he's not worth it because he's ugly. I don't care about looks so much. I'm really shy too...
What should I do? (link)
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Well if you really like this guy I think you should go for it! Who cares what your friends think, its you who is making this decision not them. You know what you want, and if this guy is nice then like I said go for it! And plus lets say you two did decide to get together, the time that you two spend apart will give you two a chance to miss eachother so when you do see eachother there will be alot of excitement there. And I have to give you a million cool points for going for this guy NOT based on his looks. To many people are shallow these days.
Hope I helped you.
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Does anyone know any good websites (beside toneteen.com) that have effective ways to lose weight? I rate high! :) (link)
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Well truthfully there are alot of weight programs and websites out there, but if you want to go somewhere that works that is truly going to benefit you and keep you healthy, you should go to www.weightwatchers.com
Now this program takes time, but its the healthiest program out there according to all the top doctors and my mom is a part of the program. Within the last year she's lost 56 pounds and she's almost at her target weight. She went from wearing a size 22 in dresses to a size 14 and she doesn't have to starve herself to loose weight either. Just go to that site up there^^ and read on about the program. I hope I helped some.
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Does anyone have any tips for swallowing pills? I have some pills from my doctor for a bronchidal infection, and they were huge, I had to cut them up into fourths, yet they still are tough to get down. Tips or tricks? (link)
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Well this is going to sound totally weird, but what I use to do to practice swallowing pills was I would swallow M&M's. Now that sounds pretty weird, but if you think about it M&M's are pretty big and if you can swallow one of those you can swallow pretty much anything. Another thing you could do to help make it alittle easier to swallow pills is, before you put the pill in your mouth take a sip of water but don't swallow it just yet. Next pop the pill in your mouth with the water still there, then swallow and take a another sip of water. Its kinda as if your tricking your body into thinking its swallowing water and not a pill.
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this girl just turned 16.. her name is Olivia.. we met b/c she goes to my school and we've been good friends and we made each other laugh and had a pretty fun and good relationship but then she broke up w/ her freshman b/f.. and we started talking.. and we had late conversations on the phone and talked on AIM alot. The problem is.. i can't say I'm in love w/ her truly if she doesn't talk to me in person.. she treats me like ne other friend when I'm around her but on the phone.. we're good.. and i asked her about it and she told me we just need to get to know each other better. Her best friend is giving me feed back on how she likes to flirt... and she went on a one on one "go out"... it wasn't supposedly a "date".. should i give this girl a try or just stop it?
-Hewitt, 14, TN (link)
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Well us girls are mysterious creatures. We sometimes make our actions speak louder than our words, and we always expect guys to pick up on that. But to me it sounds like this Olivia girl likes you, but she's just alittle shy when it comes to being with you in person. You said you've talked to her about it so she knows how you feel. But maybe you should ask her out on date or something * she'll think its the kind of thing were its ok to show the other person you like them because your on a date and they wouldn't have asked you on the date if they didn't like you* and maybe she'll start acting like herself. But before you do any of this The real thing you need to ask yourself though is do you really like her? If yes, then go for it.
Good luck to you and I hope I helped you out some.
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There's this guy I like... he's amazing. But the problem is... he has a girlfriend. Hes a good friend of mine and he used to have a crush on me, and we still flirt but I keep reminding myself hes not single. I don't know what to do. On top of this he and his girlfriend never kiss, or hug or do anything girlfriend/boyfriendy stuff with eachother..and they have nothing in common.Do I wait it out? Or is there some other thing I can do to stop driving me crazy every day? (link)
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Well theres one thing that remains a fact in this whole situation. He has a girlfriend. Unless you want to stir things up with him and her, I suggest you wait it out. They might not be doing so well, but let things end before you try to fit yourself in the picture, because if not you could end up in a bigger mess then you are now. Its hard to watch the person you like , be with someone else, but if you wait patiently and you and him end up getting together you won't have to feel guilty for breaking him and his girlfriend up. Well I hope that helped you out hun, goodluck to you.
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A really good friend of mine is going to the movies with this guy,tomorow, and i know all there gonna do is make out and touch eachother and stuff, it happened last time. She wants me to go, and i really wanna go too, and she said "bring one of your guy friends, itl be a double date!", and i said "okay!", but the truth is..i really dont have any. None..actually. I really wana go, and il feel akward if im really alone, and i dont want to tell her that im a loser! I dont know what to do, and i cant make any at school because i go to a school where theres no boys, and im really ugly so i cant really make any guy friends that want to kiss me. This makes me feel really bad, and shes so pretty so she could get like any guy..i dont know what to do. Ne suggestions, please? (link)
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Well hun, it sounds like you have a problem. But not just with guys, but with yourself. What you need to do is gain some confidence and realize that its not whats outside that counts its inside that really counts. Alot of guys are shallow, but there are some good ones out there, you just have to look around. But if you have some confidence in yourself, you'll feel alot better inside, and tons of guys will be attracted to you. *guys think confidence is a big turn on* And another thing, remember this. As girls we tend to be harder on our ourseleves than we are on everyone else. so basically you judge yourself harder than anyone else does, so everyone else doesn't see what you see. You might see yourself as a troll in the mirror, but everyone else could see you as a sweet, pretty girl. So don't be so hard on yourself. As for the guys thing if you feel like you can't meet anyone or you don't know anyone, talk to your friend. I mean after all she is your friend, and if she's truly your friend she will understand and try to help you out. Just because you feel like your friend is prettier than you, doesn't mean that you should be intimidated by her or feel like she's better than you. So just talk to her about how you feel, and I'm sure it'll be ok. Even if you don't have a guy to go with atleast you won't be having to keep your eye on some guy you barely know who keeps trying to go further than you want to go.
And p.s You don't need a guy to make you feel beautiful. Your beautiful with or without some guy.
I Hope I helped you some. Good luck and be confident.
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ok can some one please help me here
my gf keeps getting her ass smacked by dudes and its realy getting me pissed off anyway should i beat the liveing shit out of the guys who are doing it? or just tell them to stop? (link)
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Well man, It sounds like your in a tough position. If I were you I would 1st talk to your girlfriend and tell her you don't like it when all these guys are hitting on her, and then talk to the guys who are doing so. If they continue to hit on your girlfriend after you've told them to stop, do what you feel is needed. *rather it be fighting them or not*
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Okay here it goes, my boyfriend is really unexperienced, and really shy. I want to know if I should just go for it or wait untill he goes for it (it being the kiss) Or is it more of a "we both will know when its right" type of deal. I was the one to initiate most everyhting else such as holding hands and whatnot,...now what? (link)
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Well normally when it comes to that sort of case I've never really known of alot of guys who are shy about kissing or showing affection, but if I were you I would just either kiss him, or maybe call him and ask him what he would do if you kissed him. If your shy about bringing it up just try using it as a game. Ask him if he wants to play 21 questions and in it you both get to ask eachother 21 questions a piece about anything and everything, and in the process of asking "what would you do if I kissed you?" to him, you can get to know eachother better and ask other questions about him that your dying to know.
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I have a great friend...we always talk about how we're gonna grow old together. But there's a problem. He smells extremely bad of bad B.O. I don't know how to tell him... people have come up to me and asked me to please tell him about it. I don't want to offend him...what should I do? How should I tell him?
Thanks a bunches for helping out! (link)
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Ok well he's your friend , so if you tell him more than likely he will understand. So just approach him one day *make sure its when you two are alone and can talk without interruptions* and say :Look if you weren't my friend I wouldn't say anything but I care about you and I want whats best for you. This may sound rude but you need to do something about your hygiene. Like maybe you need to find a new deodorant or something because your B.O. is really bad." Or something to that effect and if he gets mad just tell him you were trying to be honest and help him out.
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okay so i am 14/f and i have never had a boyfriend before. Many times i have come close like this year but then something always gets in the way and ruins it. What i want to know is what is wrong with me i mean i have alot of friends and i am active and athletic and people tell me i am beautiful but i never have had a boyfriend and i dont know if i am doing something wrong. If there is anyone that could help me with trying to fix something that maybe i am doing wrong that would be great!
thanks!~ (link)
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First of all like you said your active, athletic, and so on. There's nothing wrong with you! Its them! Believe me. At the age of 13 and 14 is when all the guys 1st start coming around. As girls, we tend to mature faster in some areas than guys do so it takes them alittle longer to get intrested in the same things as we are, like for instance relationships. But your only 14 chick, believe me you have a LONG time to find a boyfriend. Just go out there and have fun, and you'll find one. Most of the time they are right beneath your nose and you don't even know it. But another tip if you seem like your desperate for a boyfriend some guys find that unattractive, but if your just out there flirting and having fun, your a guy magnet. As for all the other times you've come close to having a boyfriend, maybe it was just a sign that those guys aren't boyfriend material for you. But like I said just have fun, a guy will come around when you least expect them to and sweep you off your feet.
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im way confused right now. my 8th grade year is almost up and me and my frineds are driftin apart because of me. i really like this guy that my friend likes but we never had a problem with it. now all i do is talk to him because he likes to flrt with me a lot and so i kinda leave my friends so i can only talk to him. now there kinda driftin apert from me. i no its my falt and i feel really bad. i just really like this guy and i like the kinda attention he gives me. i dont want to not be friends with my other friends i just dont no wat to do because i cant stop flirtin with that one guy i cant do it i like the attention to much. what should i do. (link)
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Well it sounds like something I once went through. I once liked this guy that one of my very best friends liked, and well to make a long story short we ended up not being friends and being without the guy we both liked. Now, I'm not telling you to not continue to flirt and like this guy, but to try and make more time for your friends. If things don't work out between you and this guy you like, its always good to have someone to talk to who knows how you feel. So don't stop flirting and liking the guy, just tell your friends how you feel and try to still make time for them also.
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