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I just found out that a girl at school, I knew already that we werent the best of friends called me Rude, annoying, and bitchy while talking to one of my closest friends.
History of us,
we were never friends but we never were mean 2 eachother. Last year I had mono and was on medications, I had a short temper and she or someone else sai somthing thing that mad me mad or annoyed me. She said "you have changed alot since you were sick. nit for the best either. You are mean." I said stuff back 'this is the real me i didnt change. get used 2 it." i fell bad now but i didnt know what i was saying. now i think she hates me and I want to apologize but I dont want to seem like a goody goody who wants everyone to like them.
what do i do. please help me!
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Well 1st of all That's mean what this chick did, but It sounds like you want to be the bigger person and fix things. Good for you. If I were you I would tell her the things that she said really upset you, and your sorry for saying what you said to result in saying what she said. To me that doesn't seem to goody goody, it seems like the mature thing to do. Hope I helped. <33's
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I think apologizing is okay to do. You won't seem to goody goody. :)
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I really think you should appologize to her because even if she doesn't accept atleast you did the right thing. But i really think thats she'll be friend with you agian if you just explain that your different now, all the other things that you said wasn't really you speaking it was the medication. Well i hope everything works out ok!!!!!
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If you apologized, you wouldn't be some girl who wants everyone to like her, you'd just be polite. Your bad feelings are telling you to apologize to her. She was rude to you, too. She knew you were sick and she was hard on you by saying those things, but just tell her you know that you've been different since you were sick, and you are trying to get better. Even if she doesn't forgive you, its still nice to know that you did what you could, and that guilt will be gone in time. So, you should apologize anyway, its not a bad thing to be called a 'goody' either, its just a reputation everyone tries avoiding because they think its prude and stupid, but it isn't, but I'm sure she will accept your apology.
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