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problems w/ this girl
this girl just turned 16.. her name is Olivia.. we met b/c she goes to my school and we've been good friends and we made each other laugh and had a pretty fun and good relationship but then she broke up w/ her freshman b/f.. and we started talking.. and we had late conversations on the phone and talked on AIM alot. The problem is.. i can't say I'm in love w/ her truly if she doesn't talk to me in person.. she treats me like ne other friend when I'm around her but on the phone.. we're good.. and i asked her about it and she told me we just need to get to know each other better. Her best friend is giving me feed back on how she likes to flirt... and she went on a one on one "go out"... it wasn't supposedly a "date".. should i give this girl a try or just stop it?
-Hewitt, 14, TN
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Well us girls are mysterious creatures. We sometimes make our actions speak louder than our words, and we always expect guys to pick up on that. But to me it sounds like this Olivia girl likes you, but she's just alittle shy when it comes to being with you in person. You said you've talked to her about it so she knows how you feel. But maybe you should ask her out on date or something * she'll think its the kind of thing were its ok to show the other person you like them because your on a date and they wouldn't have asked you on the date if they didn't like you* and maybe she'll start acting like herself. But before you do any of this The real thing you need to ask yourself though is do you really like her? If yes, then go for it.
Good luck to you and I hope I helped you out some.
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i think you just try and talk about it with her more and flirt, goodluck!
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ya and if it dosen't work out fine your young there is always someone else out there so give it a try
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give her a try a little bit longer...is not then im me...jersygurl4evr...lol j/kj/k...if not then give up on her...she's not worth it if she doesn't like you back!!
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I think you should give it a try. Don't tell her you love her right away though. It may scare her off. Just date for awhile and get to know each other better. Ask her out over the phone since she seems more talkative then. :)
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Dont leavei t all up to her this talking in person if your not happy with it you do the talking make it btetter if you to are more then friends feel free to act like it walk over to her and wrap your arms around her then that night on the phone ask her if that you doing that made her uncomfortable and if she was okay with it? if she says no then ask her self is it relle that important to you if its not then forget it. If it is important then shes not right for you move on go for someone who you can have a better relationship.
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wow you should definetly go for it! you will never know how it will turn out if you dont try it. so yeah and if she says no then give her more time and im sure that if you keep having the phone talks im sure it will get better!! good luck
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Before you try to decide whether you want to make a move or not, find out how strong your feeling really are for her. If you just have a crush on her it wont exactly be worht it to try to tell her how you feel,(although thered still be no reason not to). If you find out that you like htis girl a LOT, like you think it could be serious then go for it! She's gonna be flattered either way when she finds out how you feel, whether she likes you or not. What's there to lose? And chances are she likes you back.
hope i've helped in some way -plz rate me-
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Give her some time to know you. If you really like her that much, then yeah go for her. If she keeps giving you the excuse 'I need to get to know you better', then chances are you should just stop. Good luck!
-Brianna
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Well you have to think hard is she worth the missery or are you just doing this to have a gf alot of girls like to flirt alot but maybe once you start talking to her maybe she'll find she really really likes you and wants to be more than friends keep it up with the long chats because the more you do that the more she will know you and will even like you more too probaly
hope i helped
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dude, just ask her if she likes waffles and omlets, then bring her to waffle house regardless, they serve burgers there too. while y'all are eating, ask her then. ease it in softly, not bluntly, and you'll be guaranteed an answer. be cool, and she'll go for it.
-hitler
hey, you live anywhere near rowe mountain?
got a buddy from there named lanoux.
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