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this girl just turned 16.. her name is Olivia.. we met b/c she goes to my school and we've been good friends and we made each other laugh and had a pretty fun and good relationship but then she broke up w/ her freshman b/f.. and we started talking.. and we had late conversations on the phone and talked on AIM alot. The problem is.. i can't say I'm in love w/ her truly if she doesn't talk to me in person.. she treats me like ne other friend when I'm around her but on the phone.. we're good.. and i asked her about it and she told me we just need to get to know each other better. Her best friend is giving me feed back on how she likes to flirt... and she went on a one on one "go out"... it wasn't supposedly a "date".. should i give this girl a try or just stop it?
-Hewitt, 14, TN

wow you should definetly go for it! you will never know how it will turn out if you dont try it. so yeah and if she says no then give her more time and im sure that if you keep having the phone talks im sure it will get better!! good luck

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hey... my boyfriend and i just had a big talk and he wants to be in "time-out"
i have no clue what that means just that theres no kissing at school (so he said). now i dont know how to act around him or what to say to him
My questions are ... what do you think time-out is and how should i act around him at school???... im so confused and lost in all of this

ok well if he said he wants a time out then he probably just wants time to think about things. i say that you talk to him because you are definetly still friends but yeah i think he just needs to think about things. but yeah definetly still talk to him because if you dont then he might think that your not interested in him anymore. good luck

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Hey i my girlfriend broke up with me becasue i have something like bio polar anger problems and we got in a fight and i fought back 4 once and she dumped me me and my friend thought she kinda liked me a little but i just found out she doesnt me but i really really still love her and i didnt mean to scream and theres no hope to get her back but i love her still and cant get her out of my mind

ok well i think that you should try to find another girl that you like and maybe you will get her out of your mind. Or you can hang out with some of your guy friends and have some fun and then maybe that will get her outta you mind. If not then maybe you should just wait it out and it will eventually go away.

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