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Member Since: April 24, 2005
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Last Update: April 27, 2005
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it's that time of the month again for me and i had a question about tampons. i use them all the time, but they always seem to leak so i have to wear a pad with them too. i would get bigger sizes, but they're too big for me. well i'm on the track team at my school and we hafta wear runderwear, bun huggers, whatever you call them, and a pad is too obvious, so do u have any suggestions on how to get my tampon to stop leaking? thanks so much - i rate! p.s. if this helps i use tampax pearl (link)
hey--
god doesnt it suck to be a girl sometimes? Okay well basically make sure to change your tampon right before the track meet. the type doesnt really matter although Playtex works really well for me. Anyway and for extra support wear a ultra-thin panty liner... it just helps catch anything unwanted :)
hope everything goes well


My friends and I are trying to get this one boy from my classical music class to start to appreciate rock music and rap music, pop music etc. He isn't responding to most of it and is giving answers to rap music like, "You don't know what he's saying!!" Is there an easy way to introduce him to this type of music? (link)
Some people have different outlooks on what music is, and what type of music they like. He may just not have a place in him for rock/rap/pop. But if you dont want to give up then i would basically just show him similarities between the people... :)


ok my parents rele fight alot!!!wen i try to go to bed (well atleast try)there always yelling.i've tryed to break it up and talk it out but they yell more!!wat do i do??
sighned,
janice05 (link)
Hey Janice:

Tell your parents how you feel, and tell them that their arguing makes your worry and makes you feel uncomfortable. Ask them what their intentions are; and just to let you know whats going on; b/c your just as into this as they are. If they continue to yell & fight then you need to let them know you feel in a more agressive way.


O.k so my freiend has feelings for me (love feelings). I 'm not sure what to do. When she told me I told her I was flattered and I was but its been really awkward trying to make conversation since. We used to mess around and call each other "sexy," so I assume she got the wrong idea. The other day she sarted feeling me up and iI told her it was wrong and Iw asn't into girls as much as she is. I don't know what to say or do to make her realise I don't fancy her. Any advice,I rate a five for any good advice.
p.s I'm a 16 year old girl. Don't reply to this if your going to give me shit about being shallow, cause I don't care what you think!
Thanxs. xox (link)
Hey-The number one thing you dont' want to do is lead her on... let her know how you feel and tell her you still want to be friends; but there is a place where your going to have to draw the line. And believe me, i dont think you are shallow at all. Your being truthful & you dont want to lose a friend b/c of this... also- -- after you have the conversation with her; chances are she may give you the "cold shoulder" & try to walk away. But don't let her; act as if nothing ever happened, so she wont feel embarassed about the whole situation... just make sure to make her feel comfortable & welcome again... and just hang out & have fun :) Good Luck!


ok i think im kind of bi but im not really sure and to afraid to say anything to anyone, my boyfriend of 2 years told me that gay people are gross and if i was ever gay that he wouldnt like it because he wouldnt want me to leave him for a girl but i told him i wouldnt if i was gay but he said it would still be gross....and on top of that almost all people i hang around with are gay,but i cant even tell them or anything because they consider me there "straight" friend...and they would all think its probably weird also if i said anything...what should i do??? (link)
Hey. Definitely a tough sitution but nothing we can't solve! Okay, well your 'boyfriend of two years' wouldn't care if you were straight or bi, as long as he loves you and cares about you. So if he doesn't like the true & real you then you should forget about him b/c it just doenst seem wroth it to continue to hide the real you for your relationship. How will anythiing last; if you aren't honest with eachother? Also- with your gay friends, how did you react when they told you their sexuality. Think abuot it that way and realize you still hang out w/ them & they will hang out with you. And plus i'm sure their are plenty of other straight friends out there for them to hang out with! I would encourage you to come out of the closet; b/c life is too short to hide away. :) Let your feelings come out; and just enjoy being YOU!


ok.. ive liked this guy for a while now and now he knows and i can tell he likes me too but i think that were both afraid to talk to eachother :(.. i really really like him and i wanna be able to talk to him but im really really shy. and plus ive never had to go and talk to someone, theyve always came to me. but anyways.. its been a few weeks and i jus wanna get it over with and talk to him...but the thing is.. i dont kno wut to say, and when or w/e so can u pleasssee help me?? im starting to get frustrated with myself cause i cant do it. I dont have any classes with him so i cant send a note or anything,plus hes not that kinda kid.. and i really wanna do something tomorrow so i can talk to him.
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*LaLa* (link)
Hey lala-

sounds like a familiar sitution that i just recently went through, but now me and the guy have happily been going out for a month :). Well- if you really like him, then you wont have trouble going up and just saying hey. Dont make it a big deal or anything and dont even plan it, that just gets your anticipation going and most of the time the conversation isn't that "ehmagod" worthy. Just do a casual "hey; whats up?" and see how he reacts. If your lucky then well ya know ;-)


Hey ya'll. Thanks for looking at my question.

I like this guy, Danny. Well, I don't really like him, but you know that crazy feeling that you get when you sort of like someone yet you sort of don't? (Confusing I know..)

Well I'm 17 and anyways, I kind of have the hotts for him and we talk alot on the AIM. I've know him for all my life, and we've just sort of gotten attracted to each other.

I think I could like him more than just attraction and fooling around.

The bad part about it is he lives in another state, and he's my best friend's brother. But I go out there frequently.

But I have no idea how to present the idea of liking each other to him. He is nineteen and of course its not that bad, I'll be of age soon.

I'm really bad with words and want to ask him if he feels anything for me and would like to have a relationship with me. In a nut shell. I don't want to freak him out, or make him think that I just sit around thinking about him all day.

Help please, thanks :)

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hey- this sounds tough, but if you really care about him (and it sounds like you do) you have to come out of the closet and let him know how you feel. If you are truly good friends he'll like to know the truth and maybe something more will come out of it- but you'll hate yourself if you dont try. If you feel most comfortable online then tell him there. :) Although, some guys i have talked to like being asked out in person. You could also act flirtatious and let him do the asking! Let us know how it works out!




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