ok.. ive liked this guy for a while now and now he knows and i can tell he likes me too but i think that were both afraid to talk to eachother :(.. i really really like him and i wanna be able to talk to him but im really really shy. and plus ive never had to go and talk to someone, theyve always came to me. but anyways.. its been a few weeks and i jus wanna get it over with and talk to him...but the thing is.. i dont kno wut to say, and when or w/e so can u pleasssee help me?? im starting to get frustrated with myself cause i cant do it. I dont have any classes with him so i cant send a note or anything,plus hes not that kinda kid.. and i really wanna do something tomorrow so i can talk to him.
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karenR answered Sunday April 24 2005, 11:59 pm: You can talk about anything really. The weather, maybe if he's wearing a t-shirt with a band on it you could comment on that...use your imagination. :) [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
myLoveForYou answered Sunday April 24 2005, 3:32 pm: Hey lala-
sounds like a familiar sitution that i just recently went through, but now me and the guy have happily been going out for a month :). Well- if you really like him, then you wont have trouble going up and just saying hey. Dont make it a big deal or anything and dont even plan it, that just gets your anticipation going and most of the time the conversation isn't that "ehmagod" worthy. Just do a casual "hey; whats up?" and see how he reacts. If your lucky then well ya know ;-) [ myLoveForYou's advice column | Ask myLoveForYou A Question ]
Mksangel1316 answered Sunday April 24 2005, 2:17 pm: Hey! I've had that exact problem. What you need to do, is just grin and bear it. Walk up to him and say "Hey what's up!". That's the only way to do it..Break the ice and talk to him. Then things will eventually lead to another and voila, it may not be where ya exactly imagined it to be, but pretty darn close. Smile :)
o0xbrianna answered Sunday April 24 2005, 1:56 pm: When he says hi to you or something strike up a conversation. You can always talk to him online (if you both have aol or whatever). It won't be that hard. Or, you can have a friend tell him and tell him to talk to you. Sorry, that's the best advice I can give!
Deebs answered Sunday April 24 2005, 1:41 pm: Well if you know he likes you try to talk to him. And if your super shy try to get one of your friends to talk to him. Or get someone to get his screen name then tell him then. It won't be as bad trust me. Then you can ask him out or w/e you want.
Really hope i helped.
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anahi17 answered Sunday April 24 2005, 1:41 pm: okay i have an idea that you may concider or you may not! Why won't you get your friends to help you? Do you have any friends that may know that guy*? [ anahi17's advice column | Ask anahi17 A Question ]
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