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On saturday, I went to the movies with the boy of my DREAMS. I REALLY like this kid, and we've been talking for about a month, and My friends and I were eatting dinner outside and my friend made me laugh and i FARTED! and EVERYONE of my friends started LAUGHING and I started to cry because with me, farts dont exsist, like really, if i fart i get SO embarassed and I FARTED INFRONT OF HIM!!!!! And for the past 3 days its been replaying in my head CONSTANTLY and I cant concentrate, i cant go by the kid i like, i am completely mortified and humilated. WHAT DO I DO?! I feel like I need therapy because of it, im about to cry just thinking about it, because since then he's been different, and I dont know how to relax and let it roll off my shoulders! I'M MAJORLY STRESSING THE FACT THAT I FARTED! I know this sounds hilarious but its seriously screwing up my mental health! and everyone is telling me that i should just not even care BUT I CANT! it was SO EMBARASSING! and to top it off, we were supposed to be all kissing and making out that night and he didnt do it once!!!!!!!! THats why i think its different!

PLEASE HELP ME!! I FEEL LIKE CRAWLING UP IN A WHOLE AND DIEING!!!!! =[

You farted - its no biggie.
Its natural it comes with life.
Shrug it off and laugh about it, thats the only thing you can do!

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next year i'm going into high school. I was totally psyched when i finally relized that this was my last year of boring old middle school and in high school I can pick my own classes. But earlier today a friend said her big sister was in highschool and she said it was terrible. They stuff the samller kids in trash cans and put books on the lids to make sure they don't get out. And they prank all the new kids by throwing eggs and water ballons at them. Is/was your hs that bad??????? thanks in advance.

No its not bad at all .. . lol.
You will have immature people but you just brush them off. :) Good luck

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ok well i'm going on vacation tomorrow to the beach, & i just got my period today. this isn't the first time i got it, the first time was in may, i actually got it twice in may and never got it in june. well i'm going to the beach, and i'm going to be wearing a bathing suit/going in the water. [i'm not like a person that will be swimming underwater, i'd probably just be like jumping the waves lol] it's not like i'm going to be in the water the whole time, just in and out. i've only been wearing pads though, not tampons. i've heard that your period stops when you're in the water but what about when i'm out of the water? should i just wear a tampon [i've never worn one before] would it be okay to wear a pad? idk what to do! please help? thankss :]

You should definatly wear a tampon. They are easier to deal with, and after you put the first one in you'll feel more comfortable with it. Just pop it in and try not to think about it. Alot of times I forget I'm on my period when I'm wearing one. :) Your period does not stop in water. Good luck hun!!

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I bought a pet rat a few days ago. I've kept hamsters, rabbits and guinea pigs but never a rat before. We're getting on well and she's sitting on my desk as I type this. She seems healthy -- shiny thick coat, bright eyes, clean tail, eats plentifully -- but she sneezes an awful lot. Is it just dust or might she be sick? Incidentally, her cage bedding is recycled paper, not wood shavings.

I would try wood shavings and if she doesn't sneeze then it would be the recycled paper she is allergic to.

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I am a female gonna be 20 next month.Me and that guy we've been together for 4 months.In the beginning it was so beautiful we were like 2 little birds but by the end of may everything change even if i call him he does'nt wanna stay on the phone with me, not only that but everything change about him.I ask him to break up he doesn't wanna,he said dat he still has the same love that he had the 1st day we have met.Do you think he got another girl or wat?Cuz I don't know wat to do

Hard to get is the best anwser anyone could give you. He will soon understand what a beautiful thing he is missing when he treats you like this. You deserve to be treated with respect, and have him treat you like a queen!! Never forget that!

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i am 40 years old women the last 8mnth i have gain a bit more weight 17lbs since i can remember now one of my boobs my left is at least one bra size bigger then the other is this normal?

Yes it typically is. Either that, or your breast plate/bone may be uneven and it took the weight gain to show it. Alot of woman have uneven breastplates, and just don't know it - it's nothing to be ashamed of. What I suggest is until you either lose the wieght or see your doctor about it, wear sports bras. It will disguise it, and keep away from tight fitting shirts. Good luck, and hope I helped. :)

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For my 16th birthday I'm either getting a RX 8 or a Mustang GT but I can't decide which one. Is there anyone here that knows about cars that can tell me a little about both and which one is better? I looked online but I just found what each car came with. I want to know more about performance and I can't get to a car dealership until over a week.


Also, I need opinions on color. If I get the Mustang, I either want that green color it comes in (kind of like a dark lime metallic green) or black. If I get the RX 8 I either want black, silver, or dark metallic pink (special order). Thanks.

Get something that makes your car unique. When you drive around town, people know it's you!

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The music code wont work for me. I copied and pasted it onto the part where it is supposed to be, and got the URL of the song from putfile, but it still doesn't work.

Any idea where i'm going wrong?

Just ADD the music. It will say "add" on the mini music box, and it will ask you to confirm that you'd like the particular song on your page, hit yes, then presto! You have the song.

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Kay. Well me and this kid Matt are supposed to be hanging out really soon. We're like not going out but we're basically together. He's two years and 8 months older then me. I wanna make a good impression around him and stuff. I've had so many oppurtunties to kiss him, but I am so scared! I told him I hate making the first move, and I've never done it before so he wants me to do it once. When were gonna be together today I wanna kiss him sooo badly, but like how am I supposed to know when? This is bugging me so badly, cause I don't wanna do it at the wrong moment! Eeek. Advice Please. ♥♥

Ok, here's the thing. You gotta let him know you want to. So flirt with him alot, and touch him. Put your finger on his lips and if he kisses it or sucks it or something like that, then you know he'd like to. Or you could playfully just say, "Hey let's make out".
A sure fire way is to make sure both of your faces are close, then you can just kiss him if he doesn't make a move, and if you don't he will.

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does getting a blood test hurt?

Not to badly, it's more or less like a quick pinch. Then when they take it the needle out, it's that same sensation again. It's one of those bearable pains, a dull annoyance really. Good luck.

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I'm 15 and female and my b/f is 20, but I'm fixing to turn 16. My mom likes my b/f but my dad doesn't. They are currently filing for custody of me even though i don't want to live with my dad. The thing is that I may have made a huge mistake. I engaged in sexual activities with my boyfriend with my consent because I love him. We have been dating for nearly two years. The thing is that my mom has just informed me that the only way the can take me away from her is if we have had sex. I don't know what to do. Please, I need advice badly.

You don't need to tell them. Good luck hon

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Does that acne treatment by neutrogena -actually- work? Because I've used it on my acne and it's making it worse and all dried out. It seems to be making my acne stay around LONGER. i've had acne in the same spots for MONTHS. i dont know how to get rid of it. there's some red spots on my skin, no bumps or whiteheads. i dont know how to get rid of it.

To be honest, use neutrogena, but also use a cold cream. It cleanses and provides moisture too.

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Alright;;I`m lookin for a good song to put on my myspace..I would like it to be about missing somebody who died.My aunt passed away over a year ago && i`d like to have something on there for her..i listen to rap,r&b && rock..Or it can be a song about love i have a boyfriend i`ve been with for two years.thnaks in advance

Where'd you go - Fort Minor

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Alright, I'm in a sticky situation because my BEST FRIEND likes me. (guy) and I really like him...but he was my friend first and I'm thinking that if I date him then it'll ruin our friendship. I've talked to him about it and he says that it won't (which on one hand I do believe him bc he's not one of those guys that tells you what you want to hear unless it's true) I love spending time with him, in fact I've been over at his house more this summer than my own i think lol. I also like the fact that he has seen ALL of my quirkey moments and still likes me for them. Like I said, I just don't want to lose my best friend. That would devastate me. What do you think that I should do??

love
mo

I did this and it totally sucked. I thought it would work, but now him and I just fight all the time about stupid stuff and I hate it. However if you feel you can trust him enough then make sure its genuine because its weird dating your best friend. Take it from me, and I was madly in love with him. Just save your heart the heartbreak, and crush on someone else.

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I have brown hair with blonde highlights. Now that it's summer and I'm tan, I want to go back to brown, or a little darker. What is a good brand to use to dye your own hair?

It's cheap, but its a good brand. Revlon! You can pick up a box or two for under six dollars at Walmart.

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So the whole day today, I kept getting bit by mosquitoes!!..they itch like CRAZY. But the crazy thing is...each bump is like QUARTER SIZE. I'm not even kidding/exagerrating. It's SO big..I have like a total of maybe 6 all over my upper body. Is this normal?! ..I've never had bites this big ever!..Please help. :)

Hey I have this problem too. The biggest part you can do is clean it, and try not to scratch it. It's hard for me to practce what I preach but mine have gotten pretty nasty when I would scratch, I have about eight right now. Try putting paste made by baking soda and a little salt on them, and let them sit on for about an hour, then wash it off. If they itch, it's a smelly solution but Vinager will help not only cleanse it but take the itch away. If your putting it on after you itch it, it might sting.

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iight I'm a guy and I have this bestfriend which is a girl. And in this friendship is like no other friendship. She gets jealous when I talk to girls and vice versa. We have arguments everyday like we're a real couple. I'm confused, are there hidden feelings or what is going on?

Yes you like each other. However I've done the whole "best-friends" thing and it totally bit me in the ass in the end.

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On myspace they always have those "cool new people". I always wondered how people got on it? Do you have to sign up or do they just pick you right when you make a myspace? Does anyone know?

I dont wanna be on it but i was just always curious.

They randomly select people!

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well, you see... i'm trying to lose wieght for like next week just because i'm paranoid like that... but i need help. i found this really good diet on the internet and it really works! like, i e-mailed the people of the weight loss thing and they even replied. all the success stories are there, and i'm almost sure it works! but, you have to pay twenty seven dollars to download it into your computer. the only reason that she doesn't want to get it is because you have to pay! there must be a way that i can pay for it without having to use like a credit card or something... if anyone has any idea please help me out. THank you.

To be honest, usually all of them are a scam. Go to the libary and find a weight loss book, it will have more tips and down to earth sucuess stories that dont require $27 bucks.

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So how many days does it take for it work?
I have some mild acne around my chin and thats all.
I used to use it and saw how my face was clear.. But I dont remember how long it took.

Do you have to use it in the morning and at night? or the afternoon too?

You will see results in typically two weeks. However for your skin pores to heal it will take a month to STOP breakouts.
Good luck!!

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