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I don't know wat to do
I am a female gonna be 20 next month.Me and that guy we've been together for 4 months.In the beginning it was so beautiful we were like 2 little birds but by the end of may everything change even if i call him he does'nt wanna stay on the phone with me, not only that but everything change about him.I ask him to break up he doesn't wanna,he said dat he still has the same love that he had the 1st day we have met.Do you think he got another girl or wat?Cuz I don't know wat to do
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Hi, there could be a number of possibilities why he is acting so strangely:
1. He's got another girl on his mind right now
2. Work/school isn't going to well right now
3. He isn't feeling to well right now
4. He is still figuring things out and maybe he's having second thoughts
The only way that your going to find out is by going round there and asking him how you feel. Thats the only way your going to find out. If you don't ask him then you are going to be left with lots of question marks in your mind? If you ask him, then at least you know, right. Beware aware when your asking him the place and time. Go round to his house and say something like "we need to talk" and take it from there. You will be glad that you did. Daniel.
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Hard to get is the best anwser anyone could give you. He will soon understand what a beautiful thing he is missing when he treats you like this. You deserve to be treated with respect, and have him treat you like a queen!! Never forget that!
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Talk to him about all this and then go from there. Really, its wasteful to play the guessing game and try to pinpoint his emotions and thoughts and feelings on the things he does or says - thats why you should point them out and then ask him about it.
Take the time to sort out your own feelings and ask yourself if this is really what you want. If it is, then by all means stay. If it is not, then leave. There is no point in staying in the relationship just because he says to. The relationship has to be somewhat of a compromise, an agreement. To what? To both want to be in it. It simply will not work if you do not want to be a part of it anymore and stay just because he tells you to. If thats the case, then leave and let him go.
So see where this relationship is going. If you don't talk as much and he really doesn't want to talk to you, then is that even a relationship...is that even a friendship for that matter? Remember, if you can't even consider it a strong and close friendship, then 99% of the time it is not a good relationship. So talk to him and think things through, and remember that he cannot decide for you like that. Hope that helped and good luck.
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just play hard to get a little bit. he'll get the message
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Oh, dear, red flags all over. If he can't even have a conversation with you, how can he have a relationship with you? I say leave him. He doesn't want to break up, but who cares? He can't make you stay in a relationship that you don't want or that doesn't benefit you anymore. It's your choice. Not his.
I hope everything works out for you.
Good luck!
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