Kay. Well me and this kid Matt are supposed to be hanging out really soon. We're like not going out but we're basically together. He's two years and 8 months older then me. I wanna make a good impression around him and stuff. I've had so many oppurtunties to kiss him, but I am so scared! I told him I hate making the first move, and I've never done it before so he wants me to do it once. When were gonna be together today I wanna kiss him sooo badly, but like how am I supposed to know when? This is bugging me so badly, cause I don't wanna do it at the wrong moment! Eeek. Advice Please. ♥♥
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? meghan2492 answered Saturday June 24 2006, 12:44 am: ok i know how this feels...seriously if you guys like eachother then go ahead and the first move doesnt really matter!i am only 14 but i have helped so many times with these kinda problems.the 1st thing i wanna know is...are you guys like more like friends or bf/gf??and how old is he because i know this is wierd but you are totaly right on the first impression thing and if i were you i would just make the move!it might bug you to do it but you WONT REGRET IT IN THE END believe me!!so if you have a myspace hit me up
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SDC answered Friday June 23 2006, 7:02 pm: HOW OLD ARE YOU!?!
look if you want to then do it but i hope your not too young. you will no win to kiss him. do it before you seperate or when nothing is hapening and you are looking at each other. he might even ask you. THE PERFECT TIME IS WHEN YOU GUYS ARE IN A SILENT STARE.
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PS: DONT LET IT GO ANY FURTHER THAN THAT PERIOD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (A FRIEND=DANELA) [ SDC's advice column | Ask SDC A Question ]
duudee_advicer answered Friday June 23 2006, 5:50 pm: Okay well if you`re like off alone, just talking to him and he`s talking you could just like put your finger to his mouth and then lean into kiss him. Or if your talking, just slowly quiet down and then lean youre face into kiss him, maybe say something sweet to him like " I`m so glad I`m here with you." Just kiss him, he sounds like he wants to kiss you back! =] just relax and have fun with him, keep it clean! [ duudee_advicer's advice column | Ask duudee_advicer A Question ]
rainxindoors answered Friday June 23 2006, 5:12 pm: I'm sure you will know when the right time is. Right now you don't, but when you are with him, I'm sure you will know when the right time is to do it. If you want to do it while your together, just wait until you done talking about a good conversation and when hes just looking into your eyes for a long time. That is usually the best time. If you want to do it when you are leaving, he will probably do the same thing: look into your eyes, kinda moving close. good luck and have fun =] [ rainxindoors's advice column | Ask rainxindoors A Question ]
Basketball3846 answered Friday June 23 2006, 4:48 pm: Just wait for a stop in a conversation and look into his eyes. Stay like that for a minute and then just gradually move in slowly. He obviously wants to kiss you back so you have nothing to worry about.
And like the person below me said, just play with him. When you guys are talking touch him and giggle at whatever joke he makes (even if it is stupid). Good luck and have fun! [ Basketball3846's advice column | Ask Basketball3846 A Question ]
Mksangel1316 answered Friday June 23 2006, 4:45 pm: Ok, here's the thing. You gotta let him know you want to. So flirt with him alot, and touch him. Put your finger on his lips and if he kisses it or sucks it or something like that, then you know he'd like to. Or you could playfully just say, "Hey let's make out".
A sure fire way is to make sure both of your faces are close, then you can just kiss him if he doesn't make a move, and if you don't he will. [ Mksangel1316's advice column | Ask Mksangel1316 A Question ]
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