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I love playing soccer and almost anyother sport. I also like hanging around friends and family at the mall or house.
Gender: Female
Location: NJ
Age: 14
AIM: Squid1614
Member Since: April 25, 2005
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Last Update: May 7, 2005
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ok i have some acne. not a lot but some. and my friend will sometimes make fun of it. i dont think she realizes it, but she still does it. then when i ask her not to say it she just goes, "gosh i was just kidding!" now this girl is flat chested, and if i ever make a joke about that she completely refuses to talk to me for like a day. today something happened and i apologized to her 3 times but she wont forgive me! ive known this girl since second grade and i really dont want to lose a friend. help please!
*confuzed* (link)
*confuzed*
If this girl is your friend you should be able to talk to her about how you feel. If you feel insecure about your acne go see a doctor or use cover-up. Then she can't make fun of you. And about the ignoring thing that is happening... talk to her and tell her how sorry you are. Make her believe you really mean it and you aren't just saying it, if she really is your friends, she'll forgive you.


I want to wear this cute t-shirt to my next informal casual school dance, but do you think it would be weird to wear a "Geeks Are Hot" t-shirt to a dance? By the way, it's a highschool dance and it's for freshmen and softmores only. Oh, and the shirt is pink and it is from wet seal. (link)
That would look great!! Get a really cute skirt or jeans to wear with it. And have fun at the dance ;).


ok well i got a boyfriend and he goes to my school and hes like in madly love with me and i dont rele like him anymore bc i think i found someone else...i met him at this ichthus thingy church camp and he goes to a different school and i see him every sunday and i think ive fallen in love with him!! and he likes me and we talk on the fone and everything and me and my boyfriend dont talk on the fone its at school and online nowhere else...but i just dont know what to do i just dont really like brian anymore and if i break up with him he'll have all his friends askin me why i dumped him or he'll be mad at me and i just dont no what to tell him!! HOW SHOULD I BREAK UP WITH HIM WITHOUT HIM BEING MAD AT ME!! ughh its all crazy ...but the thing is...kevin (the boy i really like) is moving at the end of the year!!! ahhh im so confused should i stay with brian even tho i dont rele like him or go out with kevin bc he likes me and i like him and then he moves at the end of the year and stuff HELP ME PLEASE!! -ashlee- i will rate u all 10s if u help :( (link)
First of all, if you don't like Brian anymore, you should dump him because two people shouldn't be together if they don't both feel the same way about each other. Sure he will be mad at you for sometime, but eventually he'll see it was what you wanted and if making you happy meant leaving you, then thats what he should do. As for Kevin, go out with him if you feel you really want to. Keep in touch when he moves, and if it doesn't work out, it doesn't work out. I'm sorry if it doesn't hun.


Ok. So i met this kid at a show and we barely talked. But then he came over my friends house with my friend's boyfriend. He's basically really cool to me. Hes totally comfortable to do anything in front of people and is crazy and fun but calm at the same time. He's really nice also. Toward the middle of the night, My legs were over his lap and things like that. But toward the end of the night. But toward the end of the night I was laying on his chest and his arm was across my back/neck. Him and I apperently acorrding to our friends looked really cute together and we were like ok whatever. They wanted us to kiss but it was our first time acutally meeting so yea.


To get to the point..I think I like him but I'm not sure. I want to get to know him better but what if he ends up going out with someone else???? (link)
Talk to him to get to know him more. It sounds like you two really got along well and if he likees you the way you like him, he wouldn't go out with anyone else.


So I really like this kid. I went out with him last year in 7th Grade for a month and in 5th Grade when we were young which didnt mean much. Last year I didnt like him at all really and now I just cant stop thinking about him! We flirt all the time and two of my friends have said to me I think blank likes you and my other friend asks if I like him .. and I really do! When my friend said to him [ hint hes not friends with this girl ] she said to him well dont say anything but blank likes you and he said well were really only friends. We have beeen sitting on the bus together and always are smiling talking and making eye contact. There are so many signs but im not sure if i should get over him or do something about it? please help!!! (link)
Talk to him about how you feel. If he feels the same way, then you guys should go out. If he doesn't, I would stay good friends because it sounds like you two are very close.


ok so i am very over obsessed with my weight well i used to be and all my friends asked me how i threw up but i didnt and i dont know what to say so if someone does can you tell me so i tell them (link)
Tell your "friends" that you don't throw up... if they are truely your friends, then they should believe you and leave it alone. If they aren't true friends, they'll keep on asking. If they keep on asking, then tell them you don't and to mind their own business.


I have an appointment tomorrow to get a tooth extracted. I'm a little nervous about the whole process because of course, the doctor told me "It's not going to hurt at all." Lets be honest, don't all doctors say that about EVERYTHING? For those of you who have gotten that procedure done, about how long did it take? How much did it hurt after the novicane wore off? How long does the pain last after the surgery? And does any one have any tips on making it not hurt as bad? Thanks so much! (link)
I have personally gotten somewhere between 10-14 teeth extracted in my life. The only part that hurt me was thinking about the whole thing when the dentist was doing the procedure. Relax, stay calm, and don't think abou it. The whole thing will be over before you know it. And the only way to keep it from not hurting is to not eat or drink until the bleeding stops... then the wound can heal over properly. Hope it all goes well.. good luck!


Ok,here goes: My friends and I are starting a dog sitting biz but now I'm not sure we can get any customers cause none of us live in a neighborhood and no one wants to drive so far to my house. And the moneys for a really good cose! Any one have any ideas to get customers or raise money? (theres only 3 of us so no car washes,too hard!)
Please don't delete!I will rate! Thanx for your help!
~*Tiffany*~ (link)
If you stick with the dog business... set up flyers around a town and see who responds. If you put the cause on the flyer... more people might respond. If you don't want to do the dog business... then be creative and sell things people need. Or put a collection bin in a supermarket or church/temple and explain on it what u guys are trying to do. People do help and you'll be surprised at how much you'll make. You could even try a garage sale!


Well.. i have 2 friends.. names Erin and Arielle.. they've been best friends since about 3rd grade and this year, me and my best friend meg have gotten really close with them. We also have another friend who is not exactly as close. Well anyways Erin asked Arielle to go to the mall with her... but Arielle said she cant. then later she called back confessing that she lied and that she didnt want to go because she was with the other girl whos not as tite (Britt). THEN even later she called erin again saying she actually wasnt just hangin out with Britt they were goin out then stayin at Britt's house... this made Erin very upset because lately her and Arielle have been drifting apart... i feel her pain, but i dont know what to do. Erin thinks this is the end of their friendship... Arielle has Taken it 2 far now.. theyve been getting into ALOT of fites lately and this is just the bigger of the many. I dont want to lose Arielle as my friend, but i'm here for Erin and i feel her pain and i also think that it was pretty low of Arielle and Britt to do that. Are we overreacting or not? What should i do to save this friendship that they've had forever?

xoxo thanks --- i rate high! (link)
If Arielle is acting the way you say she is, I wouldn't want to be her friend either. Get close with Erin and talk to her about it. Soon you and your best friend and Erin will be tight and Arielle will finally realize her mistake and fell sorry. She might even try to be you friends again, but when and if that happens is up to you. Believe me, this has happened to me before.

-Advice Chick


allrighty i really like this guy ....were like best friends we talk all the time ...we talk on the phone every night..we flirt all the time.. our friends say we would be perfect for each other... we just have a great time together he makes me laugh and hes hott and sweet we know everything about each other ... ok heres the problem hes going out with a girl in 9th grade ( were in 8th) but he tells me he wants to go out with me .. and for three days now im going out with a guy in 9th grade but i dont really like him i think hes just someone to keep me busy till they break up yeah i know bad ..sry .. so i need to know what to do now because i really like this guy and want to go out with him so.. i have no idea what to do (by the way he knows how i feel we talk about it all the time) so what do i do now
ashley (link)
Dump the guy you don't like and let the guy you like know your available. If he likes you the way you say he does, then he'll want you to go out with him. If not talk to him and maybe you'll go out when you're both older.

-Advice Chick


Hey1 I've been with my boyfriend for a bout 4 months now and his birthday is coming up. I don't have much cash, but I want to get him a gift he'll love. Does anyone have ideas of gifts or nice plances to get a boyfriend a gift? (link)
get the guy a pic with you and him together. then he'll always have a way to remember you and think of you. Maybe put it in a cool frame?

-Advice Chick


ok.. ive liked this guy for a while now and now he knows and i can tell he likes me too but i think that were both afraid to talk to eachother :(.. i really really like him and i wanna be able to talk to him but im really really shy. and plus ive never had to go and talk to someone, theyve always came to me. but anyways.. its been a few weeks and i jus wanna get it over with and talk to him...but the thing is.. i dont kno wut to say, and when or w/e so can u pleasssee help me?? im starting to get frustrated with myself cause i cant do it. I dont have any classes with him so i cant send a note or anything,plus hes not that kinda kid.. and i really wanna do something tomorrow so i can talk to him.
I rate high!

*LaLa* (link)
Get up the courage and talk to him. If he really means that much to you, then you should be able to talk to him. What about? About anything. Does he play any sports? After school activities? Act fast because someone might do it before you and you never know if he'll be there forever.


So I'm sorta about to be going out with this guy. My best friend, hits on everyone, including him. lately i've been trying to hang out more with him (but i haven't like ditched my friends for him) so today, im sitting behind him in math, and my "friend" walks up, and sits on his lap.This made me angry but, he didnt appear to happy about it either but is to nice to say GET OFF ME! So then, she's trying to get her hands either up or down his shirt claiming she's "cold". then. when we are leaving math, i walked out with him. she runs up the hallway, litterally, shoves him off to the side, somehow wiggles between us cutting my totally off from him! i havent told her yet that we r going to go out, cause im afraid of her reaction. how can i tell her to lay off him, without being rude?! ty in advance, i rate high/ (link)
Tell your friend that you and this guy are going to go out. She she makes fun of you, then shes not a true friend. Then she should get the hint and lay off.. if she doesn't, tell her how you feel.. if she reacts badly, maybe you two should spend some more time together to work on your friendship.




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