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should i dump him?!?!?!
ok well i got a boyfriend and he goes to my school and hes like in madly love with me and i dont rele like him anymore bc i think i found someone else...i met him at this ichthus thingy church camp and he goes to a different school and i see him every sunday and i think ive fallen in love with him!! and he likes me and we talk on the fone and everything and me and my boyfriend dont talk on the fone its at school and online nowhere else...but i just dont know what to do i just dont really like brian anymore and if i break up with him he'll have all his friends askin me why i dumped him or he'll be mad at me and i just dont no what to tell him!! HOW SHOULD I BREAK UP WITH HIM WITHOUT HIM BEING MAD AT ME!! ughh its all crazy ...but the thing is...kevin (the boy i really like) is moving at the end of the year!!! ahhh im so confused should i stay with brian even tho i dont rele like him or go out with kevin bc he likes me and i like him and then he moves at the end of the year and stuff HELP ME PLEASE!! -ashlee- i will rate u all 10s if u help :(
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First of all, if you don't like Brian anymore, you should dump him because two people shouldn't be together if they don't both feel the same way about each other. Sure he will be mad at you for sometime, but eventually he'll see it was what you wanted and if making you happy meant leaving you, then thats what he should do. As for Kevin, go out with him if you feel you really want to. Keep in touch when he moves, and if it doesn't work out, it doesn't work out. I'm sorry if it doesn't hun.
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I had soemthing VERY similar happen to me. I liked this other guy, but my boyfriend was infatuated with me lol. What i would do if i was you is break up with him. as far as kevin leaving at the end of the year, your still going to be sad whether you date him or not, so take a good thing while its available! YOu should date him while you have the chance. If you want to let Brian down easy, just tell him that the relationship wasn't what you thought it would be. Tell him that you were much happier before being friends and that dating made things awkward. (or something like that). If he or his friends get mad at you, they will soon get over it. It happened to me..i know what I'm talking about. have fun with kevin!
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You shouldn't be with anyone if you don't want to be. It's not only unfair on the person you're going out with but it's unfair on you. End it with Brian you'll be so much happier. It is difficult ending it with someone but it is worth it- say that you just don't think it's working out and you'd be far happier being friends. Yeah everyone always uses that line when they're splitting up with someone but thats because its true! And if his friends give you a hard time just tell them what you told Brian. As for Kevin listen to your heart. Don't let it bother you that he's moving away- live for the moment and if you'd be happy with him then go for it! Good luck
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I think you should talk to Brian and be honest with him. Tell him exactly how you feel. He is going to be hurt no matter what you say, so there is no avoiding that. Your just going to have to deal with that if you break up with him. But, you really should break up with him if you dont like him any more. Its not fair to him if you dont and it will only hurt him worse in the end. Now, on to the Kevin guy. It sounds to me like you both are interested in eachother. However, I cation you that dating someone new right after a breakup inst really fair either. Its not fair to your ex, or your new boyfriend. You need time to fully move on from your old relationship before you move on to the new one. I would say to just let nature and God take thier course in this situation and just give it time. But, I would nto pursue anything with Kevin right at the moment. That wouldnt be right or fair. Maybe when he gets back from going away for the summer or something. But, for sure, give it time. Hope I helped!
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If you don't like him then you have to break up with him. You can't just keep him because the other guy is moving, that just isn't right.
Talk to him. He may or may not be mad. No way of knowing that for sure. He will be upset but there is no way to help that. He will get over it though it may be awhile before he can be friends again. :)
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