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friends worth keeping
ok i have some acne. not a lot but some. and my friend will sometimes make fun of it. i dont think she realizes it, but she still does it. then when i ask her not to say it she just goes, "gosh i was just kidding!" now this girl is flat chested, and if i ever make a joke about that she completely refuses to talk to me for like a day. today something happened and i apologized to her 3 times but she wont forgive me! ive known this girl since second grade and i really dont want to lose a friend. help please!
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Have you really told her that you don't think that her making fun of you is funny. I mean it sounds like your always just like "ugh thats not funny or stop it okay" and she might not understand fully that it hurts you. I mean ya'll have been friends since second grade so it's nothing to lose a friend over just try to tell her more profoundly what you dislike about her "jokes" about your acne!!!
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If this girl is your friend you should be able to talk to her about how you feel. If you feel insecure about your acne go see a doctor or use cover-up. Then she can't make fun of you. And about the ignoring thing that is happening... talk to her and tell her how sorry you are. Make her believe you really mean it and you aren't just saying it, if she really is your friends, she'll forgive you.
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does she know that when she says that it hurts you? because i think she does. and she doesnt seem very friendly. if you know what i mean. but i think that is also rude of you to comment on her flat chest. i know you were kidding. but you know how it feels. and it doesn't feel good, does it?
i would just wait for her to come around .. maybe go tell her how much she means to you .. and tel her how you dont want to lose her.
best of luck
and i didnt mean for any of this to be rude!
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I don't think you will. All will be well by monday most likely. You need to make a deal with her. She doesn't talk about your acne...ever, and you don't talk about her boobs (or lack there of). Good luck :)
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All great friends fight! Talk to her, if she wont listen call hur till she answers, ( or Instant message) or talk to hur in school. Explain that you dont wanna throw the whole friendship out the window cus of a few insults! Hope it works out &hearts
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Tell her to go climb up a tree when she makes fun of you. It may seem hard to say, but she's no friend of yours if she makes fun of you.
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Tell her that she makes fun of you but you always forgive her and she most probably will deny it but tell her that anyways shell feel bad and talk
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Explain to her that it hurts your feelings when she makes jokes about it. Tell her that she doesnt like when you make fun of her so she shouldnt make fun of you. If she doesnt understand after you talk to her she might not be that great of a friend and you might not want to stay friends with her, as hard as it is. : Hope I helped xox.
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Wow, this is so wierd! I've been in the same situation so many times!Tell her,what's the difference? She made fun of something about you and you did the same.If she doesn't like being made fun of then she shouldn't do it to you.Let her know about karma-what goes around comes around.Maybe make a promise to eachother to stop teasing eachother.She's probraly really insecure because I use to be made fun of for that and I was really insecure, but to get out of this fight just write her a note and say if she honestly doesn't like it you won't do it again, but she can't do it to you either.
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