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I'm thirteen years old. I love helping people but I can be a bitch. I like giving people advice and I love getting advice. You can im me with questions or just to talk..
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well i'm in the 8th grade and 14 years old.. this is my 2nd year at the school i am now and ive met alottt of friends, boy and girl, there is this boy is my homeroom and study hall and his name is ryan.. we've been good friends since 7th grade and we even dated for a little while during the summer.. lately i think that i started to have feelings for him and hes been giving me alot of attention.. hes always giving me hugs, writes me notes, and for example today he like rushed to get the seat behind me in study hall and he was like giving me massages and playing with my hair and taking pictures of me on his camera phone.. i really dont know if he was flirting with me or was just being friendly.. but then i was going through his cell phone today and saw text messages from this other girl that says like i love you and stuff.. i know that hes not with her cuz this other girl has a boyfriend.. but im just really confused right now.. can someone give me some advice on this situation? (link)
I have 2 advices from 2 points of views.

1. He might be a player/flirt.. FLirting with you both and all..

2. He might be trying to get you jelouse. DO you look through his phone often? Maybe he told the other girl to help him out with getting you jelouse..

hope this helped
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I got a couple bleach spots on my FAVORITE pants. Not only are they my favorite pants, they're like the only ones I own that actually fit me and they weren't that cheap either! Is there anything I can do to them to either get the bleach spot to go away, or a way I can "ware" them so that it looks as though they were made that way? I don't like the whole staining in coffee or tea thing so that's completely out of the question. But is there anything else I can do to bring my pants back to life? =( Thanks. (link)
My friend had that problem before. So she twisted her pants up and but like bleach spots all over soo it looks really vintage and new style. Don't overdo the bleach tho.. Good luck

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My friend is pregnant and she's only 13. She's freaking out a lot..and she wants me to help her. What should i do ? i dont wanna end up killing someone else's baby! (link)
Wow what a slut if shes 13 what the hells she doing having sex? umm hello its called hell and a condom ya kno


to put it simply.. about 5 guys like me a lot right now and are fighting over me... i cant just pick one though because i feel a connection
with every single one of them. i dont know what to do.. do i pick one of them or just try to find someone other than them so i wouldnt be "picking"?? please help me (link)
Xo Jessica369 oX LMAOO! dude u crack me up

anyways choose the one you have the least connection too cuz you dont wanna lose a friend do you


13/f
I used to wish my bf would take our relationship more seriously. I wished he weren't so prude. Well, I finally worked up the courage to kiss him one day. But now he's so different. After we kissed he said it wasn't as awkward and now all he wants to do is talk romantic, hold me, kiss me, etc. I miss the times when we were more like friends. I feel like we're going too fast (since we're only 13). I don't know what to do and if I talk to him, he might get mad or something. Got any advice for me please?
MH (link)
Wow you got some balls to go up to him like that lol anyways tell him to take it slow


Do you think it's possible to find your soulmate at 12? When I was 12 I got my first bf and we're still together. (I'm 14.) We've been through a lot together and I feel really close to him. But I don't know if that's just because he's the only person I've ever been with, or if my feelings are real. I can't imagine us not being together. He's my best friend. So... Do you thinkit's possible he's my soulmate or am I too young and am being fooled? (link)
Its not that your being fooled. But dont get too hung up on him beacuse hes turning into a teenager and teenage boys arent trustable..


ok i have some acne. not a lot but some. and my friend will sometimes make fun of it. i dont think she realizes it, but she still does it. then when i ask her not to say it she just goes, "gosh i was just kidding!" now this girl is flat chested, and if i ever make a joke about that she completely refuses to talk to me for like a day. today something happened and i apologized to her 3 times but she wont forgive me! ive known this girl since second grade and i really dont want to lose a friend. help please!
*confuzed* (link)
Tell her that she makes fun of you but you always forgive her and she most probably will deny it but tell her that anyways shell feel bad and talk


so lets call her summer.

me and summer have been friends for a couple months. but now summer is being mean and is really annoying and i just DONT like her anymore. the problem is i half to sit with her in health and i HATE it. shes really chubby and the boys tease her all of the time but she was mean before that. and im popular and she trys to fit in but shes not bcuz well shes MEAN. and now shes hitting on my boyfriend and its annoying. and shes extremely 2 faced and gossips all of the time. and im sick of it. so how do i tell her i dont want to be her friend? silent treatment? i rate high. (link)
DOnt worry about it.. If shes that ugly she probably cant get your boyfriend. Just confront her and tell her that you dont wanna talk to her. Silent treament never works




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