to put it simply.. about 5 guys like me a lot right now and are fighting over me... i cant just pick one though because i feel a connection
with every single one of them. i dont know what to do.. do i pick one of them or just try to find someone other than them so i wouldnt be "picking"?? please help me
karazimonki answered Friday May 6 2005, 2:33 pm: Tell them all that you just want to be friends. This could go two ways:
1.The boys will go crazy and say i fyou don't love me then I don't want to have ANY kind of relationship. (or something of the sort)
or
2.They could say ok and you guys could just be friends.
What ever boys take appoach #1 then they don't love you that much.
If 1 or more of the boys take approach #2 then they really love you. Be friends with all of them and see where the relationship goes with each of those boys.
Good luck.
Karazi Kenzee [ karazimonki's advice column | Ask karazimonki A Question ]
Sw33t_Dr33ms_xOx answered Thursday May 5 2005, 5:02 pm: PICK THE MOST HOTTEST SEXIIEST AMAZINGEST ONE!!!!hope ii helped!!
Evikins answered Thursday May 5 2005, 12:52 pm: LOL ... YOU sounded like me 2 months ago. Only it was 4 guys This is wat i did. I didn't look/choose b/w the 5 guys, neither did i look outside the five guys.
I stayed on my own. 2 gave up, one found someone else, and the other stayed with me. I went with the one who stayed with me. And i'm the happiest gurl ever. Its like a Sherek story, lolz.
Hope I helped.
Nicole [ Evikins's advice column | Ask Evikins A Question ]
dee21290 answered Wednesday May 4 2005, 8:53 pm: well, i dont think this a good question at all, you need to use advicenators for a good use and not to be like omg like 5 guys like me and i dont know which one to put, cause hontestly we all dont care and thats not really a problem! [ dee21290's advice column | Ask dee21290 A Question ]
MorganoSpices answered Wednesday May 4 2005, 7:15 pm: Ok, first of all, dont go around bragging (im not saying that you are) but dont go around saying "oh mi gosh, 5 guys like me, and i dont know who to pick... oh mi gosh.. what should i do?!?!!!!" If i were you, i would just stay friends with all of them. Its better to have good friends than it is to have one boifriend, and have the other 4 boiz mad at you. So, my advice to you, is just stay friends with them.
Karen answered Wednesday May 4 2005, 6:48 pm: Having 5 guys fighting over you is a lot and your best bet is to not pick one of them and just stay good friends with them. Try finding another guy, besides them, so you wouldn't hurt anyone, since it's tough to choose one of 5 guys. You could always get to know these guys better and see how the act and such, which could help you if you every decide to choose one of the guys. [ Karen's advice column | Ask Karen A Question ]
charmed-cherry21 answered Wednesday May 4 2005, 6:03 pm: Pick one. If it doesn't work out with him then try the next. =)
BehindBluEyes892 answered Wednesday May 4 2005, 5:59 pm: hey! i suggest that you just stay friends w/ all of them for now, and then maybe later on you can work out something where you can go out w/ one that you find you really like. but its up to you, if you want to stay friends w/ all of them right now til you find the one you like a lot or b/c you dont want to ruin anything..then thats cool! i hope i helped, good luck =)
HereWithOpenEars answered Wednesday May 4 2005, 5:49 pm: Okay I am a guy. And as you prob know-guys are very competitive. These guys will most likely play copy cat and try n beat each other out until you make a choice. So I guess you need to talk to each of them and take it a step further. They need to understand what kind of position they've put you in...it'll be tough but just talk to him...
mmsladypack40 answered Wednesday May 4 2005, 5:47 pm: If it were me I would either pick the one that I like the most and that I thought liked me the most but if ya don't want to do that then find ya another man cause like they say theres plenty of fish in the sea but I say the idea for the one you like the most you should pick. Good Luck! [ mmsladypack40's advice column | Ask mmsladypack40 A Question ]
gakkuhideto answered Wednesday May 4 2005, 5:44 pm: Well if they are fighting over you...have a contest and whoever wins gets you. That's what they did in Ancient Greece. Or just tell all of them that you want to be fair to everyone and not go out with anybody. Don't try to find someone else, because then they will involve him in this fight. Whichever one you choose, the others will be jealous, so the best thing to do is not go out with anybody. You don't need a boyfriend, you know. [ gakkuhideto's advice column | Ask gakkuhideto A Question ]
xOxHOLLiSTERxOx answered Wednesday May 4 2005, 5:37 pm: that kinda happened to me xcept it was with two guys and i picked one and i felt really bad for the other guy cuz he really did like me. the guy i went out with dumped me a few months later. i`ve never felt so sad in my life. so if i were you, i wouldn`t pick any of the guys that are fighting over you cuz i`m sure at least one of those guys will get hurt. what goes around comes around. good luck ♥ [ xOxHOLLiSTERxOx's advice column | Ask xOxHOLLiSTERxOx A Question ]
LoveNJstyle answered Wednesday May 4 2005, 5:25 pm: just keep them all as really good friends...some may back off, some will just get more aggresive. it will probably keep them undercontrol tho then you dont have to pick. you cuold try to find someone else, i would advise you to. follow your heart and do what you think is right. <3 [ LoveNJstyle's advice column | Ask LoveNJstyle A Question ]
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