Hey,
I am 16 years old, living in Kansas City, MO. I have a girlfriend who I am crazy about. Im about 5'10" and ~140lbs. I basically like what most teenage guys do.
Please, don't hesitate to ask. I don't judge. If it's a little to personal to be displayed in front of everyone, just IM me on AOL Instant Messenger.
Have A Good One,
JMaz
Gender: Male
Location: Kansas City, MO
Occupation: Student
Age: 16
AIM: AlmightyShort
Member Since: April 6, 2005
Answers: 18
Last Update: December 17, 2005
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Is it weird that im in 7th grade and havnt had my first kiss yet?? i mean, so many people in my grade have been kissed. Am im like, a freak or something? (link)
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Not at all. Im a 14 year old guy- Freshman in highschool. I just began goin out with this girl and that topic came up- she hasnt had her first either. Its not like you havve to get your first kiss, make it special.
-Jeff
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i dont think my bf honestly likes me i think he just wants me to give him head,well the only reason i think he is going out wit me is b/c i gave his friend head and he fingured me and all that stuff b/c he was my x and i think his friend told him we did all that stuff and thats all he wants from me is to have sex but, how do i no if he likes me or if he just wants to have sex? PLEASE help! (link)
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Hate to say this, but most likely he's waiting for sex. Guys talk about that stuff. I personally am a virgin but attend an all guy HS (Im not gay, I have a g/f) anyway, guys talk about that stuff and when he found that out he prob was expecting the same. It eventually breaks down to you. Is he worth it? Do you wanna take the chance? Has he led other girls on before? I know it'll be tough, but its worth it if it stops you from getting hurt.
Hope I helped-
Jeff
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Okay I was going out with my boyfriend for like 2 1/2 to 3 months and then I broke up with him because he was just not working out for me. But the worst thing is that he was my best friend and now it is kinda akward when we talk if we even talk at all. And he thinks I hate him because I don't talk to him all the time and i don't hate him I just dont have anything to say to him anymore. I just kinda need to know what do to here.
thx (link)
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It'll be hard, but talk to him. Let him know that you still wanna stay close, just in a friendship. He may be mad, but if hes your friend he'll let it blow over and keep the friendship. These things are hard, but its a good test of how much he really wants to be friends. Be careful, but let him know you care about the friendship...
Hope I helped,
Jeff
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i am madly in love with this boy who is in 7th grade. i am in 8th grade so it would be werid dating down. i have only had 1 serious boyfriend so far. i am pretty sure that they boy i like likes me too. my parents don't like this guy because they say he's too immature. he is totally hott, really sweet, and just amazing. my parents have judged him wrong. i have one class with him and i catch him watching me across the room and i see him watching me during lunch too. we both go to a very small (less than 900 students) school so we see eachother a lot. i do not want to ask him out, but i may end up having to! he is really good friends with several girls but they are just friends. they are cheerleaders and he plays football. i play sports too but cheerleaders are automatically "in" so i have competition. what should i do? i need help asap! should i ask him out? wait on him to ask me? just let it rest a while? HELP! (link)
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Having feelings for a guy younger than you is okay, normal too. If you like this guy that much, go for it. However, don't let your emotions get in the way of your self-respect. You said you dont want to go all the way, make sure he knows that. Doesnt matter if he's younger than you- "no" means "no" and dont forget that. Me and my girlfriend understand each others comfort zone, thats what you need to establish. As far as parents go, talk to them. Sounds stupid but let them know that your not plannin on running to Vegas or anything, just that you like this guy. Chances are you Dad doesnt wanna see his "little girl" get hurt, which is understandable. as far as moms go-only heaven knows...=)
Hope I helped-
Jeff
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well there's this boy like but he has a gurlfriend already. what am i suppose to do? i think i just wanna be friends with him. what do i do? (link)
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Been there, trust me-its hard no matter what. On one side you wanna see them happy( I know I did) on the other you want to be happy...with them. My advice to you is lay back for now. Be supportive, if he comes to you with a problem about his girlfriend, it means (most likely) that he feels comfotable with you. Comfortability is very important in building a relationship. Trust me, for now lay back and stay friends-be there for him. You wont wanna here this but don't go after him yet, that'd be a mistake. Just wait. Who knows- maybe he'll see what he's missing.
Hope I helped,
Jeff
PS-Leave a message in my inbox and Ill give you my email if you want/need anymore advice.
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to put it simply.. about 5 guys like me a lot right now and are fighting over me... i cant just pick one though because i feel a connection
with every single one of them. i dont know what to do.. do i pick one of them or just try to find someone other than them so i wouldnt be "picking"?? please help me (link)
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Okay I am a guy. And as you prob know-guys are very competitive. These guys will most likely play copy cat and try n beat each other out until you make a choice. So I guess you need to talk to each of them and take it a step further. They need to understand what kind of position they've put you in...it'll be tough but just talk to him...
Hope I help,
Jeff
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I think that I'm in love with my friend. It sucks really bad because he's all popular at his school and I'm not really all that popular. I have liked him since 6th grade. I try to tell myself that he is just a boy and that life will go on but then....I see him at my neighbor's house. It kinda ticks me off b/c in the sixth and seventh grade he was a geek and now that people started to like him he thinks he's all that. I have known that this guy was great all along and NOW girls are starting to notice what I noticed almost 4 years ago. I hate it and it is making me depressed b/c I know I will never be good enough for him. Is there anything I can do to get my mind off of him? Thank-you! I RATE HIGH!! 15/f (link)
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WoW! Thought I was the only person that had that bad of luck. Same thing happened with me, except Im the guy and shes the girl. I know it's pretty much the obvious answer-but talk to him. Tell him how you feel and make sure he understands where your comin from. Tell him that you've had your eye on him. I did that and we hooked up...Good Luck
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i'm going to buy an mp3 player. nowadays everyone is going around with ipods...but i heard that with an ipod the sound gets weird because it's not a flash mp3 player or something...could someone tell me which to get? (link)
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I have an iRiver. It is awsome! The sound is frickin great, and It's really light (the manual says 2.7 ounces). The iPods are kinda bulky and dont fit in your pocket, the iRiver models are small and great for basketball,running,biking, and other stuff like that. In my opinion you should go with the iRiver models-I have a 512MB it holds 40 hours of music. It also can record 20 hours of music, it has an FM tuner, and you can record off CD Players.
I hope I helped,
Jeff
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okay so my me ad my boyfriend were gonna make plans for this weekend and i just found out that he might be goin to this other chics party that i wasnt invited to! and i really want him to be with me this weekend. how can i get him to hang out with me and not them? (link)
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Be honest with him, even if that means admitting your a lil jealous. It's okay, we all get jealous occasionally. You just have to be honest with him and ask him if that party is really that important. He may just wanna have a free night type thing ya know? Or heres an idea, have him take you!
Hope I helped,
Jeff
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Hi, well my names Jen and im 15 and a freshman. In gym class i noticed this boy Matt and he went to my middle school but we never actually talked. But today in gym he said "Hey Jen!" and i dont know i was kind of happy about it. I saw him alot that day and i tried to say hi and smile alot but i know he is extremely shy and everything but he kind of smiled but looked down saying hi. Hes sort of geeky, but i dont think i really care about that but im not sure what to do? Thank you so muchhhh (link)
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I think I answered this...lol ttyl
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Hi, well my names Jen and im 15 and a freshman. In gym class i noticed this boy Matt and he went to my middle school but we never actually talked. But today in gym he said "Hey Jen!" and i dont know i was kind of happy about it. I saw him alot that day and i tried to say hi and smile alot but i know he is extremely shy and everything but he kind of smiled but looked down saying hi. Hes sort of geeky, but i dont think i really care about that but im not sure what to do? Thank you so muchhhh (link)
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Hi, Im gunna try and help but I am only in 8th grade...just an FYI. Dunno if your okay taking advice from a person younger than you so Im just saying....
It honestly sounds to me like your not sure whether or not you want to try and make this friendship (or more) happen. In my opinion you should just try and hang out with him a bit. You know, don't just say "Hi" ask him how he's doing that kinda thing. You wanna talk to him enough that he gets comfortable. If he's as shy as you say, you may have to work twice as hard and give it some time. "Hey Jen" may have taken him a week to come up with =) It is definatley hard talking to a girl you like. Maybe that's whats up with him....
Hope I helped,
Jeff
PS-My email is minimason761@yahoo.com and my AIM s/n is GettinThere000
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Ok... Tommorrow I am going to the Gym for my first time. I dont know what machines or activities i can do.. Or which machines I'd be best suited for.. So help me please... I am 5'4 and 130 pounds i want a tone but i dont kno which machines or activities can help you out when you want to get a tone... thanks..
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Go to this page, it will give you exercises that you can do even at home... www.toneteen.com I use them all the time and Im doing fine....
Hope I helped...
Jeff
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To tell the honest truth, I dont have a lot of friends & most of them when i call them (like tonight) make up an excuse not to go out with me. *yeah, i know, mean but please dont pity me* So, anyways i have nothing to do! Im not going to just sit around - but im not going out alone! wtf can/should i do? =/ Signed, Oh so lonely (link)
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Had this problem before, the best thing to do is not pity yourself. Pick up a book, chat online, start a new hobbie. There's tons of stuff you can do, you just gotta think for a minute...
Hope I helped,
HereWithOpenEars
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Is there a website or something that I can go to to see what time it will start getting dark where I live? (link)
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If you do a Yahoo! or Google search for your areas weather, it should give you sun-rise and sun-down. If not, try local TV stations websites. They often have an area for weathe stuff and in the weather section is that info. Hope I helped- HereWithOpenEars
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Hey...I random searched, and you poped up. Well anyways I used to live in Kansas City Kansas...and I wanted to know f you knew a person named Collen Johnson?!? (link)
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Nope, sorry. I have never heard of 'em.
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hey! im doing a project for school and i need to collect some data about things some teens do that they realy dont want to just to fit in. if u could tell me all the things that u did just to fit in, it would help. thanx
ps: annyone who ansers will get a 5 rateing unless they r joking or being rood or whatever (link)
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~Made fun of ppl to seem cool
~Acted like someone I wasnt
~Done activities(nothing dangerous or sexual) that I HATED
~Gone out w/ a person so I would be seen as a boyfriend
Hope that helps
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hey .. okay i have this friend and i like him alot .. i've felt ways for him that i have NEVERRR felt for ANYONE before .. i have dreams about him .. and there good dreams .... he knows i like him but i dont know if he likes me .. he like leads me on making me think he likes me ... but i dont know .. any suggestions !? and could it be l0ve ? -- i rate g0od .. (link)
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Hey, I am a guy and I am having the same situation with a girl I like. But first Id like to say somthin:Not all guys are A-holes. Anyway the girl I like is doing the same thing. Heres what I did: I just confronted her about how I was feeling and talked to her. Amazingly enough she felt kinda akward too(she doesnt like me but Ill get over it)anyway we realized we should just be friends....who knows, maybe your "friend" can be more...
Hope I helped,
Jeff
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My boyfriend is shy and he is afraid to talk to me. When he comes over and he'll say hey and thats about it. He is like afraid to talk to me. He always says online hey i'm really shy and i can't ever think of anything to say. And I say something like omg its just me. and he'll say just you?!? He's like afraid to talk to me in person but will on the phone and online. any advice (link)
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Okay, I am a guy. I know right now I become uncomfortable around a girl because she is amazingly good looking. In my opinion your boyfriend just hasn't figured out exactly what he should be doing. Some guys aren't great with relationships and can be uncomfortable some girls, even if the girl is his girlfriend. Hope that helps, and good luck with the rest...
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