hey .. okay i have this friend and i like him alot .. i've felt ways for him that i have NEVERRR felt for ANYONE before .. i have dreams about him .. and there good dreams .... he knows i like him but i dont know if he likes me .. he like leads me on making me think he likes me ... but i dont know .. any suggestions !? and could it be l0ve ? -- i rate g0od .. <3 a.g.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? FunnyCide answered Wednesday April 6 2005, 6:30 pm: Hey hey,
Well, yes, it could be love. I think I know what you're feeling.. it's a smoking fire, waiting to burst into flames at the smallest hint of heated oxygen? A passion that could only grow stronger with every passing second? A want, a longing, a hunger to spend every second possible with that person? If so, then, yes. I know what you're feeling. Pretty wild, isn't it?!
I would say, though it's hard and maybe embarassing, you should ask him if he likes you. Kindly bring up the subject, and just tell him that you like him, but you don't want to get carried away if he doesn't feel the same way about you.
Though, he might just feel sorry for you, and act as if he liked you, even if he doesn't... but that's a rare case. Dreams are good... I have good dreams, too. Sometimes, things that I dream come true. (I'm SO not kidding!.. I could give examples, but that would make this answer twice as long as it's already going to be.)
I woudln't mention your having dreams about him yet, though.. that might scare him away.
Is it love? I think it might be, but don't let it get carried away. You don't want to be in love if you're not loved. That hurts.
He probably likes you. :)
That's sweet that you don't feel the same way about anyone else... I know that feeling, too.
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kayjayhcheer answered Wednesday April 6 2005, 6:18 pm: If you think he's leading you on, maybe you should get one of your friends (or yourself) to ask him if there is anything going on between ya'll! If you've known him for a long time and you've felt this way for a while...YES! Of course it could be love! It isn't for us to decide...it IS your feelings! :-D!!!!!!!* Maybe tell him how you feel for him and ask if he feels the same way in ANY way!!!
HereWithOpenEars answered Wednesday April 6 2005, 6:11 pm: Hey, I am a guy and I am having the same situation with a girl I like. But first Id like to say somthin:Not all guys are A-holes. Anyway the girl I like is doing the same thing. Heres what I did: I just confronted her about how I was feeling and talked to her. Amazingly enough she felt kinda akward too(she doesnt like me but Ill get over it)anyway we realized we should just be friends....who knows, maybe your "friend" can be more...
BehindBluEyes892 answered Wednesday April 6 2005, 6:05 pm: hey! thats awesomeeeeee!!!! well, hopefully he's not leading you on..b/c sometimes guys can be assholes like that =( well i think u should ask him if he likes you! there's no reason why he should be leading you on and putting you through a broken heart in the end...so ask him for an honest answer. i hope i helped! and good luck =) i'm sure things will be soo awesome!!! and also...i don't think teenagers can be in love ..at least not really the intense kind of love. but perhaps =) later...let me know how things go if u get a chance!
shake answered Wednesday April 6 2005, 6:01 pm: You cant LOVE someone you arent going out with. You cant LOVE someone you have been going out with for a couple months either.
You have an infatuation. You think hes hot now, wait a little while. You'll be over him.
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