To tell the honest truth, I dont have a lot of friends & most of them when i call them (like tonight) make up an excuse not to go out with me. *yeah, i know, mean but please dont pity me* So, anyways i have nothing to do! Im not going to just sit around - but im not going out alone! wtf can/should i do? =/ Signed, Oh so lonely
x0xTarax0x answered Sunday April 10 2005, 11:01 pm: dear oh so lonely,
i think that you should make new friends. if they make up excuses to not hang out with you then they are obviously not your friends. be friends with people who you think are nice, remember if your a friend to them they will be a friends to you ( i know its corny but its true )
x0xTarax0x
*rate me please* [ x0xTarax0x's advice column | Ask x0xTarax0x A Question ]
Teza answered Saturday April 9 2005, 7:39 pm: Tell your friends the truth. They will keep ignoring you until you say something. Maybe they dont relize that they are doing that. Go somewhere with a cousin or start a new hobbie. Play sports,chat online, do your nails, try a new hairstyle.. You could also rent and watch some movies, TV shows, stuff like that! Keep your self busy. x0 [ Teza's advice column | Ask Teza A Question ]
Lil-keaney answered Saturday April 9 2005, 7:19 pm: Well think to your self have you bee na loyal friend to them? How come they're treating you like this if you have been loyal.. if you havnt then try and make it up to them. Even ask them why they are kind of avoiding you and ask how you can change it.
lush me x hope it helps [ Lil-keaney's advice column | Ask Lil-keaney A Question ]
Breanna_Marie answered Saturday April 9 2005, 7:17 pm: Hi! Please don't pity yourself! Tell your friends you don't like them ignoring you! Be honest with them! Read a book, chat online, listen to music, play a game, (i know whatching tv can get boring) but you can whatch tv too! you caould also online make up your own website on www.xanga.com. i have one and it kept me busy for a while and its fun making one! you can check mine out at www.xanga.com/bre1 an if you need any help, im me or email at dancinchic309! [ Breanna_Marie's advice column | Ask Breanna_Marie A Question ]
HereWithOpenEars answered Saturday April 9 2005, 6:14 pm: Had this problem before, the best thing to do is not pity yourself. Pick up a book, chat online, start a new hobbie. There's tons of stuff you can do, you just gotta think for a minute...
Kels answered Saturday April 9 2005, 6:07 pm: play the sims, or another computer game. make something, like food, or cookies or a cake, or a braclet, also do your nails/toes, clean your room or play a game!!!!!
tweetysweetyangelLeLe answered Saturday April 9 2005, 6:07 pm: Here's how I see it. Your friends are thinking of excuses because they are either hanging out with someone who doesn't like you or they aren't in the mood to be around you. If you don't wanna be in the house just sitting around then you could do something fun in the house (shopping online, chat rooms, be on the phone with someone who isn't busy) and when you get bakc to school you need to expand your friends to people who have time for you. Don't drop your friends now but just add some of those enemies or don't know yous's into the friend category. It never hurts to have more friends unless you have too many as is. Good Luck! [ tweetysweetyangelLeLe's advice column | Ask tweetysweetyangelLeLe A Question ]
HyperactiveMiss answered Saturday April 9 2005, 6:06 pm: Maybe you can join some clubs at school. That way you can meet some new people there and spend some of your time dedicating yourself to the club. You could go out to the movies if you're bored...it's dark and no one can see you. lol. Or you can just stick to movies at home. My advice to you is to try to make new friends and keep yourself busy. Keeping yourself busy with cooking, reading, movies, cleaning, etc will keep lonely thoughts away from you. Friends might not come as quickly and easy as we all hope, but I'm sure you'll find some that are right for you soon. Hope it all works out. [ HyperactiveMiss's advice column | Ask HyperactiveMiss A Question ]
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