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Name: ♥Charleigh♥

Eye colour: Blue

Hair colour: Brown with blonde

Boyfriend: Mitchell Thornby..



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i have a big wart on my arm how can i make it go away in a week? (link)
I had a wart on my forehead it was ugly and every called me rice crispy girl and said i had left my breakfast for later so i got it burn off and it grew back, then i got it froze off and it fell off and hasnt turned since I recomend seeing a doctor or going to the hospital to get it frozen off its kind of tickely and it is a really cool feeling! Love Lil-Keaney


Ok well I like this guy but the problem is, we havn't met in person yet. We've talked on the phone and computer but havn't met! And im like, So crazy about this kid its weird! And i don't want him to see me in person 'cause i think im really ugly and fat. People say no but i think they're lieing! But i need help on what I should do. Because what if we do meet and he thinks im ugly or what ever and doesn't talk to me anymore? He's seen a few of my pictures but i don't think they look like me! So i don't know what to do. Please help. ANYTHING! I rate high. Thank you so much.

x333 Kara (link)
Get over him thats my advice. He could be some 40-year old perv unless you seen him on cam then that is ok.. ok you might have heard him on the phone but he could put a voice on or something you never know.. I used to know a girl... vicky untill she got raped and murdered. She met a guy on a chatroom got REALLY friendly with him he rang her said he was her age.. he went on google and found pictures of good looking teens and then they finally met one day and then she got tooken away by him raped and murdered and he turned out to be 42 years old not her own age! So be carefully and if he really is "The love of your life" he wont care what ya look like. Love ♥Charleigh♥


is there a good home remidie or product to get rid of blackheads ??? (link)
Solution to spots - CLINIQUE / Cleaning pads, daytime shield, night time shield, cleansing foam

Stlves Energising cleansing wipes, £3.99

Face masks

and black head removal nose strips £5.99


ok so my friend (Amber) is so confused and i dont no how to help her. This guy that she has liked asked her out and she said yes. Well then a couple days later this other guy asked her out and she really liked him to, but he is moving. She is having seconed thoughts about this hole thing. Should she brake up w/her bf to go for the other one or should she stay with him? (link)
Same with me this guy keeps begging me to go out with him while im dating his mate.. I say no even though i want to say yes I like them both but you just have to choose.. 1 or the other.. Love Lil-Keaney!


oK, SORRY FOR THE LENGTH...ok well i was talking to my friend online(he is a guy lets call him Tod) and he was saying that him and his friend(lets call him Ben) called my house to see if i wanted to come over, but i wasn't there so i couldn't. And when i was talking with him online he said that they had drinks(we are all 14 by the way) and they wanted me to come over to have more fun, and when i asked what type of fun it was they said, "A girl and guys getting wasted not caring what they are doing, like any base" So i just went along with it and then they said next time i should come. I mean i want to come and i want to hang out with them, bc they are my really good friends, but i dont know what will happen if i drink...any advice?!!! I RATE HIGH FOR ANYONE WHO ANSWERS!!!!
please i need advice.
thx (link)
Look put it this way they want some fange.. sorry to put it that way but its true.. un less they think its a turn on to drink with a girl.. I dunno.. But just stay clear or you might regret going.. Love Lil-Keaney!


My guy friends giving me hints that he likes me. There are plenty of them except he likes another girl & our whole class knows that he does (ever her). Sometimes it seems like if he likes her & could tell her then if he likes me why couldn't he tell me? The signs are big & they're really hinting toward liking (talks to me on the phone for a long time, memorized my phone number, always finds an excuse to touch me, gazes into my eyes etc). How can I confront him about this? (link)
Well the same with me really, what I did was asked his mate to find out for me and in the end his mate went up to him not saying CHARLEIGH ASKED DO YOU FANCY HER but he was like "So.. who do you fancy? I think you like charleigh" then he said yeah i do actualy then his mate set us up! So its not all bad!! Love Lil-Keaney!


Hey me and my friend..want to get into shape! Any ideas plz help..and if u are going to just critizice me and call me stupid and say i have bad grammar..then dont reply plz... (link)
Walk, swim, eat healthy, have a balanced diet, sleep, and best of all DANCE! It is the best way to keep fit! So is yoga x


hi um, i have heard a bunch of words in school, and i dont know what they mean. can you help me?
they are:
mingle
goatee
fingering
fugly
saprophites
ratastrophe

-thanks (link)
Mingle - ?
Goatee - Is a type of beard
Fingering - When someone inserts there finger(s) into a/their vagina
Fugly - Ugly basically
Saprophites - ?
Ratastrophe - ?

Maybe search them on google/dictionairy or maybe type in something like "Moden slang meanings" or somethingg hope it helps love Lil-Keaney!


One of my best friends is EXREMLEY rude to me, she bosses me around so much and she doesn't do it to anyone else. It makes me upset because I feel like she doesn't like me. On her profile she listed her friends and i'm not even on there and im supposed to be her best friend. Then the other night she had our 2 other best friends over and didn't even invite me. Shes acting really weird and shes always making rude away messages about me. I don't like it at all because she was never like this before. Please help me!

*[ Hayley ]* (link)
Is she using you? - Is your so called 'amte' a stirrer, a dog or a user? I reveal seven tell-tale signs of toxic friends - and how to deal with them!
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The Dog
A bitchy mate tramples over your feelings and smiles sweetly as she does it. Whether she's making jokes at your expense or asking if you've put on weight cause your jeans look tight, she knows how to make you feel bad. Watch her she'll spill your secrets just for fun.

How to deal with her
This is one 'frienemy' you should bin. Being around her will sap your confidence and hold you back. Bitchiness is often a sign of insecurity - truly confident people tend to be nice because they've got nothing to prove.
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The Preadator
It's easy to spot the preadator.. shes usually moving in on your latest crush. she wants every lad around to fancy her, and goes into a sulk if you get any attention.

How to deal with her
Your friend is natually competitive and your getting the brunt of it. You cant force her to change but pull her up on it and explain how her behaviour is making you feel. That sound be enough to stop her
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The Reckoner
You know the type; Shes got perfect hair, fab clothes and a fit BF... and doesnt she know it! She aces every exam and never acts shy or stressed out. Why? Because this girl reackons shes great and nothing ever shakes her confidence. Yep shes really really annoying

How to deal with her
If she's trying to put you in the shade shes not a true friend. But if shes not really doing you and harm your probably just irritated bu her ego. Reackoners are the trickiest type to change, so if her attitude is too hard to handle then the onlu solution is to stay out of her way!
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Hope it helps Love Lil-Keaney!


i have a huge outbreak of acne. i have been washing my face 2ce a day (morning and night) and i have been usind clearisol or somthin like that. i read somewhere that honey mixed with orange juice helps. (very random i know :) ) do you know if this is right?
-thanks (link)
About 85% of people age 12-24 have acne.Here are some facts about Acne and how you can get rid of it.
1. First of all, Acne is NOT caused by chocolate like some people think. It's really caused by hormones.
2. Washing your face a thousand times a day only irrates the skin more. Your skin because your skin overcompensates and produces more oil. Use Cetaphil Gentle Skin Cleanser, $10, or a spot treatment like Clearasil Instant Clean Rollerball Applicator, $4.
3. NEVER EVER EVER EVER EVER PICK YOUR SKIN. IT ONLY MAKES THE SPOT INFECTED AND MAKES IT STAY LONGER.
4. Hydrogen peroxide is great for cleaning out cuts, but for a pimple, your best bet is a salicylic acid or benzoyl peroxide treatment. For the salicylic acid variety, we recommend Origins Spot Remover Acne Blemish Treatment Gel, $10.
5. There are few problems that don't have products designed to help — back breakouts are not one of them. So try a cleanser like Neutrogena Body Wash, Salicylic Acid Acne Treatment, $5, and it should clear everything right up
6.Covering a zit with heavy-duty stuff will only worsen it. But that doesn't mean you're stuck. Try Clean & Clear Concealing Treatment Stick, $5, to work undercover.
7. You should always protect your skin from the sun, but especially when you're using antibiotics or a topical acne treatment. A good everyday solution is Olay Complete UV Protective Lotion SPF 15, $7.
8. It's hard to believe, but the black part of a blackhead is really just a chemical reaction to the stuff that's clogging it. Which makes us feel better, because visible dirt on your face is pretty gnarly. To get rid of them, use Clearasil Blackhead Clearing Pads, $4.
9. Anything touching your face (even your hands) can make acne worse. But don't hang up your phone forever. Just make sure that you clean it — and your hands — often with alcohol wipes to keep the germs away.
10.One type of hyperpigmentation is the small discoloration that's left after the pimple heals. In order to avoid this, don't pick (as if we need to say it again) and avoid the sun. Taking care of this should help.
Love lil-keaney x


how can you let a guy know you like him, without sounding too desperate? (link)
How to pull him - (Without looking desperate)

How do you ask THAT lad out without humiliating yourself? Here are 10 top tips from boys and celebs.

1) dont try to be mates with him becuase then he wont see you as girlfriend material. Lads are more intrested if you look like you're not trying to hard, so be friendly - but not TOO friendly. Then take him by supprise and ask him out - Guy Bumet, Hollyoaks

2) Buy a pair of tickets to a gig that your boy likes, then stage a phone call in front of him where your mates blow you out. If he likes you he'll jump at the chance to come instead.

3) Eye him up in sunnies. If he keeps looking over to see if you're checking him out, take them off and get chatting! Angela. bliss staff

4)Ask him to help you with some homework in a subject hes good at. He'll love the chance to flex his intellectual pecs. Organise a study sesh and you'll be snogging by the end of it!

5) A girl should just smile and keep looking over. That's how I can tell she's intrested in me, and wont say no if i ask HER out. Guys are scared of looking desperate to! Phillip Wright 17 london

6) Find out if Mr Fit goes to the local scate ramp or bowling alley. 'Bump' into him there and ask for some tips. He'll have to get close to demonstrate, AND he'll realise you've got something in common.

7) The best way to pull a bloke is to just go up, be friendly and ask him straight out, if your confident and dont look like youll mind if we say no then there no way you'll look stupid - Danny, McFly

8) Playing hard to-get works for me. You have to flirt just enough to make him want you, but be classy about it.

9) Winking always attracts guys to girls, they think its super sexy and there'll come running!

10) Send him a random text, He'll text you back asking who you are then bingo - you can start chatting!


does anyone know any work outs that can get rid of the fat on you inner thighs? i rate 5's (link)
Like in my other post dancing! Burns off the Macdonalds you just gobbled down and also it brings sucsess.. If you're good. Also try yoga! Ok you're probably thinking 'Its for oldies' or 'Me? Yoga? Yeah right!' but seriously I done yoga last night at my mates house, we used her yoga video and it teaches you all kinds of strenches and stuff and whilst you're doing those streches the lady tells you what you are actually tonning up! Its great! But there is a lot of standing up and putting your arms in the air involved!


What's a good way to tone down your hips so they don't stick out as much? I don't have a big frame, it's just my hips are a bit on the bigger side. (link)
Dancing burns it all! Trust me I av the most enourmous asses in the world its like beyonces!
And im only young! But yeah dancing is the key to success and to burning off that big mac you just ate! Cheeky! Hope it helps x


does size matter or is that just some shit ppl say cause mine is 6 inches long and girls tell me that is small but does it really matter (link)
Some one told me that big ones you can actually feel and fit in but small ones get lost and are not pleasureable... you sound as if you're like "OMG my penis is ONLY 6inches long" when that is big and you just want us to say "Thats not small is MASSIVE!" had to let that out thanks ...


i was just wondering how to get a girl you likes attention without exposing yourself to every enemy everywhere.

thanks (link)
Body language is the key thing. Try these out and maybe she wil notice you!! [Its sort of in a feminim script sorry] So just do the things that are shown and she will be drooling over you! We hope!

The peacock
When a peacock wants a date he shows off his feathers. If a lad looks at you while running his fingers through his hair hes either rehearsing for a head & shoulders ad or he fancies the pants off you!

The body builder
back, straight, tummy in, chest out. These moves are normally associated with us girls, but they also busted by the loved-up lad. Subconsciously, he wants to make his chest look bigger and show he's strong enough to take care of you.

The cow boy
Its no secret thar lads are obbessed with there bits.By standing with his legs apart and hands on his hips, this lad subconsiously wants you to think he's er manly.. The cowboy is competitice especially if he spies another fella chatting you up!

The helterskelter
If a really cute lad's chatting to your best mate, but his body and feet are turned towards you, dont worry - its YOU he really wants to get to know. Hes just plucking up the courige!

1. If his foots aimed at the door. This shows he wants to escape!
2. His hands are in his pockets. This means in no mood for a chat
2. He gives you a tight-lipped smile. He's being polite but he see's you as more as a mate not a date.

He fancies you -
Boys top 5 flirt signals to look for

Eyebrow flash - if a lads into you he'll raise his eyebrows - its his silent way of showing he likes what he sees

Million dollar smile - Tell if his smile is genuine by looking for wrinkles around the eyes [a fake smile wont have them]

Toe-Tale signs - To suss a boys feelings just look at his toes. His foot points to the most amazing thing in the room, which is hopefully you!

Facts -
It takes 90 seconds to decide if we fancy someone

Girls read body signals 3 times better than lads

93% of our first opions of someone are based on their body language!

Hope it helps! Please Rate xx lush me xx


does anyone know how to get rid of disscharge...its so gross i know but i really want to be sexually active but its holding me back (link)
You cant rid discharge! It cleans out your vagina I believe.. and it is good for sexual activities. If it gets green or really smelly then see a doctor or you may be infected hope I helped luv Mod-Keaney =P Mwha x


Ok, when I was 8 both my parents died in a car crash. I've been in and out of foster homes ever since. Most of them were assholes and abusive and then the last family I was with, before this one, just took off in the middle of the night and left me there. I took care of myself for about 3 months before someone found finally found me. when they finally found me I weighed 65lbs. and they said I was lucky to be a live. Now I wish I had just died then. That was when I was 10. I spent 2 years recovering and then I was put in another home. I ran away from there because they were assholes who enjoyed watching people get hurt. I'm now 15 and I'm not sure of anything anymore. I can't get close to people. I'm afraid to keep living. I really just want to give up. I've had thoughts of suicide before but never like this. I feel like there is nothing left. The people I'm with now are just like all the rest and I can't do it anymore. I don't want to keep living like this. I don't want to keep living at all. But I'm scared to go through with it I'm so confused and afraid and screwed up I don't know to do about anything.

My question is does anyone know how I can make things better? I've tried drugs, drinking, cutting, burning anything to take away all the confusion and nothing helps. If anyone has any ideas of how I can make things please let me know I really need help. I don't know what to do anymore. All I can think of is suicide and I know that's wrong but I'm just lost right now. Please if anyone has any ideas of how i can make things better help me. (link)
Useful contacts -

childline - 0800 11 11
www.childline.org.uk

NSPCC Child protection help line - 0808 800 5000
www.nspcc.org.uk


hey well im 13 n recently ive bin having a problem with my weight n i get annoyed cz nufink works n the clothes i wont dnt fit im a size 14 but i would loike 2 get down to a size 10! but because ive bin annoyed ive cut my arm n i wanna stop it but i duno how bcz it makes me feel betta plz help!! thnx xxxxxxx
p.s sorry i didnt no which category to put this under! xx (link)
Every girl has problems with there weight, but if you're not happy with it try and loose it! Eat healthy, like fruits and vegtables NEVER NOT EAT - It may seemed wierd but if you dont eat you get fat!! Becuase your stored fat turns into more layers of fat becuase your body has nothing else to eat.. why did you think the little african kids have massive bellys eh? Maybe seach online ehow.com or google.com call a help line if your having mental problems..

Useful Contacts -
childline 0800 11 11 www.childline.org.uk

Kidscape 08451 205 204 www.kidscape.org.uk

Eating disorder Association: Open mon-fri 4pm-6:30pm and 1pm-4:20pm saturdays 0845 634 765

Hope it helps rate me!


my b'f wants me 2 give him a blowjob but i dnt wana but wen i tell him he gets angry wt cn i do? plz help! xxxxxx (link)
Tell him that you dont want to give him a blowjob, if he abuses you call a phone line which will help you, or tell someone. Talk it out with an adult! Thats best =PHope fully he will understand hope it helps xx


When we do our work in class, he eavesdrops and tells me and my friend to shut up because he can't concentrate...then sometimes, he looks at me and smiles and says "oh my god you guys" and then after class he WALKS with us...and he lets me push him down the stairs...kinda cruel yes...but i do it because I like him...=D does that mean he likes ME? or not...is he just being nice? And in class, we were in groups, and it was a trivia game for lots of extra credit, and I needed it..and at my table, i was facing him, vica versa...and when he saw I wanted to win...he told his team the wrong answer and then he looked at me and smiled...as my table dissed their table, I sat there smiling like an idiot at him...haha...funneh times...but like, he smiled BACK...HELP!!!

-Clueless- (link)
Look at my advice colum to know more about "if he fancys/likes you" thanks lush me hope it helps xx




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