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Ok well I like this guy but the problem is, we havn't met in person yet. We've talked on the phone and computer but havn't met! And im like, So crazy about this kid its weird! And i don't want him to see me in person 'cause i think im really ugly and fat. People say no but i think they're lieing! But i need help on what I should do. Because what if we do meet and he thinks im ugly or what ever and doesn't talk to me anymore? He's seen a few of my pictures but i don't think they look like me! So i don't know what to do. Please help. ANYTHING! I rate high. Thank you so much.
x333 Kara
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He may not like you...you won't know until you meet. You may not like him either. People are a lot different in real life than they are on the internet or phone. Its just something you will have to find out when you meet. Don't meet alone, even though you have common friends. :)
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first of all i used to talk to people on the internet and all that yeah thats iight its just for fun but you should not talk on the phone with him or meet him in person
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I suggest you make sure this guy is who you really think he is. Make sure he's not a man that would do anything *innapropiate* to you or the people around you. I think it's unsafe to give someone your phone number on the interent, but since you already did that, then I suggest just being yourself around him. Everyone feels uncomfortable with themselves, including beautiful girls, so just be yourself and hope for the best. I'm sure if he has already seen your pictures, then he must know what you look like.
*Kids get kidnapped everyday, and thank God you haven't gotten kidnapped from giving someone online your phone number and picture.*
~Alexa~
Good luck!
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Ok, the best advice that I think I can give you right now is this:
1. Be Yourself when you meet him. If you are yourself and he still dont like you, then why would you want to be with him? It would not be fair to yourself or him.
2. Work on your self-esteem. IT RUBS OFF!!!! If you think that your beautiful then I assure you, others will share that opinions.
3. Dont ever change for anyone, INCLUDING THIS GUY! The most important thing here is to be true to yourself and who you are. Not being true to yourself is NEVER a good thing.
This is basically all that anyone can really tell you. I think you should use your own judgement. When you meet the guy, pay attention to what kind of vibes you receive from him. You should be able to tell if he dont like you. He would act different. Just be careful and as I said, BE TRUE TO YOURSELF!!!!
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Get over him thats my advice. He could be some 40-year old perv unless you seen him on cam then that is ok.. ok you might have heard him on the phone but he could put a voice on or something you never know.. I used to know a girl... vicky untill she got raped and murdered. She met a guy on a chatroom got REALLY friendly with him he rang her said he was her age.. he went on google and found pictures of good looking teens and then they finally met one day and then she got tooken away by him raped and murdered and he turned out to be 42 years old not her own age! So be carefully and if he really is "The love of your life" he wont care what ya look like. Love ♥Charleigh♥
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ok babe, it don't matter wat u look like, eceryone is beautiful in there own way, so if he don't see the beauty in you, then he aint worth the time. And even if you really do like him, you will see that if he don't like you, then he don't desirve you. And don't call yourself fat, its not nice!!!!!
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Pictures can look good or bad, yes, but they cant make you look like an entirely different person! If he likes the way you look from your pictures, odds are he will like the way you look, flesh and blood! Maybe you could send him more pictures, so he sees you lots of different ways, and then you can be more confident that he really is interested. But I would say, go for it! When you meet in person get yourself all dolled up and I'm sure he'll be smitten! Do meet in a public place though and you tell people where you are going, it's always wise to do that when you are meeting someone for the first time! But be confident and have fun!
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the pictures they may look a little different but its u...
and if he really lies you the way you like him he wont really care what you look like! good luck chick
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I think as early as now you should reduce your figure so that when you meet him you'll be physically fit infront of his eyes. You eat lesser now and if you can afford it, have a make-over. Choose a hairstyle that fits your face. I don't believe there's a person made by God that's ugly. Maybe you haven't found the hairstyle and the products to use to enhance your face. Not only that be confident too. Have extra care on your body.
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