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wEiRd FriEnD!
One of my best friends is EXREMLEY rude to me, she bosses me around so much and she doesn't do it to anyone else. It makes me upset because I feel like she doesn't like me. On her profile she listed her friends and i'm not even on there and im supposed to be her best friend. Then the other night she had our 2 other best friends over and didn't even invite me. Shes acting really weird and shes always making rude away messages about me. I don't like it at all because she was never like this before. Please help me!
*[ Hayley ]*
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it seems like shes not being such a good friend...i think you should just forget about her after treating you like that. if you really want to know whats going on, ask her and see what her reaction is. maybe you did something wrong and you didnt know about it? hope i helped
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grab her by the hair and pull it out
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Hayley...it's time to make new friends and forget about this one. Don't put up with her rude behavior, it will just make her even more rude. Tell her to get lost. :)
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Is she using you? - Is your so called 'amte' a stirrer, a dog or a user? I reveal seven tell-tale signs of toxic friends - and how to deal with them!
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The Dog
A bitchy mate tramples over your feelings and smiles sweetly as she does it. Whether she's making jokes at your expense or asking if you've put on weight cause your jeans look tight, she knows how to make you feel bad. Watch her she'll spill your secrets just for fun.
How to deal with her
This is one 'frienemy' you should bin. Being around her will sap your confidence and hold you back. Bitchiness is often a sign of insecurity - truly confident people tend to be nice because they've got nothing to prove.
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The Preadator
It's easy to spot the preadator.. shes usually moving in on your latest crush. she wants every lad around to fancy her, and goes into a sulk if you get any attention.
How to deal with her
Your friend is natually competitive and your getting the brunt of it. You cant force her to change but pull her up on it and explain how her behaviour is making you feel. That sound be enough to stop her
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The Reckoner
You know the type; Shes got perfect hair, fab clothes and a fit BF... and doesnt she know it! She aces every exam and never acts shy or stressed out. Why? Because this girl reackons shes great and nothing ever shakes her confidence. Yep shes really really annoying
How to deal with her
If she's trying to put you in the shade shes not a true friend. But if shes not really doing you and harm your probably just irritated bu her ego. Reackoners are the trickiest type to change, so if her attitude is too hard to handle then the onlu solution is to stay out of her way!
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Hope it helps Love Lil-Keaney!
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give her some space.
if you make her your only friend you put her in power of making your life bad. so let her find out whats wrong with herself and go to the mall and hang out with some new or other old friends. if that doesnt work, the only thing left to do it talk to her. if she denies it and keeps using you, she wasnt ever a friend, is she realized what she's done and tries to improve, shes a keeper
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liars vs lovers
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Maybe you two hang out too much. Thats why she didnt invite you. You feel jealous of this. Although, you really shoudl give her her own time to herself.
Im thinking that she isnt actually extremely rude. You're just into her too much. Of course now, im going to get a one for speaking my TRUE opinion. No im not messing around as usual. The only reason you're going to give me a one is the fact you cant admit she's possibly bored of you.
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ok this has happened to me with my EX "best friend." we are no longer friends. you should NOT be friends with someone that treats u like crap. i told my friend it was simply wrong. i have made new friends and im much happier, i think you will be to.
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well obviously if she is rude and snobby to you then she isn't your BFF so i would just ditch her and hang out with your other friends, she isn't worth the trouble all she will give is problems and as for the rude away messages and crap like that just ignore it, it will drive her crazy!o.0 it will make her weaker and you stronger-if you understand that at all- so just ignore her and go out and find a true friend, and hold on tight to them! hop i helped! good luck!
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