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how do i make out with a boy? i'm going to a party this weekend and i need to know how! (link)
Haha i was the same way. and practicing on your hand doesnt help at all. just go with it, its an instinct. but dont go to fast. my first make out session was super fast and i learned to slow it down and make it good and make it last. just remember nO BITING and if you must now, making out is kinda massaging the other person tougue.
its conplicated but its not hard.
HAVE FUN!

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What's a good way to tone down your hips so they don't stick out as much? I don't have a big frame, it's just my hips are a bit on the bigger side. (link)
find good snug hip huggin jeans, skirts, whatever you wear. make sure the extra meqat doesnt bulge over the sides, make it so its perfectly straight. and dont wear suffocatingly tight shirts, give your hips and stomaCH some space to breath.

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Ugh. When I think about it, this question sorta sounds like those 12 year old girls who come on here talking about how they love their little boyfriends and stuff.

But really- let me just get to it.

I think this guy at school likes me, because whenever he sees me having a good time or laughing, he finds me and joins in. I know he's coming FOR ME, and not for anyone else. And we talk like we're really really good friends. But, when we're in class or in the hall, he never says anything, just sometimes hello. What's going on? I keep catching him staring and stuff.. so..what's up with him? What can I do to make him less..shy? (link)
instead of making him bring himself in the convo. you bring him in. say hey ____ come here this is o funny or whatever.
if you see him staring at you smile and leave it alone. he doesnt want a staring contest. its obvious that hes mesmerized by you. you just have to return the favor
best of luck
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is there a good home remidie or product to get rid of blackheads ??? (link)
Biore
OXy


those are the best cheap kinda you can get
(i use biore, PERFECTO)
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i was wondering, what are some websites, for like teenage girls. that we can find like quotes, and like stories of breaking up, where ypu can find poems and stuff like that.
thanks so much (link)
bored.com

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my dog is a 7 month old schnauzer, and he has been throwing up! he also has really bad hip problems. my dad keeps saying he will die really early. i am crying just typing this up. i dont want my puppie to die! does anyone have any helpful tips on how to cure throwing up? my mom said she gave him peptobismol... but he just threw up in my room so i dont know what to do! please help me fast!
i rate all fives! (link)
take your sweet little puppy to the vet.

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One of my best friends is EXREMLEY rude to me, she bosses me around so much and she doesn't do it to anyone else. It makes me upset because I feel like she doesn't like me. On her profile she listed her friends and i'm not even on there and im supposed to be her best friend. Then the other night she had our 2 other best friends over and didn't even invite me. Shes acting really weird and shes always making rude away messages about me. I don't like it at all because she was never like this before. Please help me!

*[ Hayley ]* (link)
give her some space.
if you make her your only friend you put her in power of making your life bad. so let her find out whats wrong with herself and go to the mall and hang out with some new or other old friends. if that doesnt work, the only thing left to do it talk to her. if she denies it and keeps using you, she wasnt ever a friend, is she realized what she's done and tries to improve, shes a keeper

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This year has been so different! I am usually really social and always confidnet, but now its like everything changing. i know its kind of because i am becoming a teenager but what are some tips to be social, confident, flirty, and get back the REAL me again? I havent had a boyfriend all year, and maybe if i got back to my old self i could. Any help? I rate HIGH!! (link)
I was like that. I was outgoing, fun ot be with and liked having fun then one day i woke up and was feeling depressed. that feeling didnt go away for a long time. i wanted to be back to normal so bad, but it wasnt worth it, either let it play itself out, go see a therapist, or confide in your friends. its obvious that there is something bothering you deep down adn you need to find out what it is. keep a journal and update me on how youre doing. i would also give yourself a good day or shopping or doing whatever you love to do (or use to love to do). try to have a self discovery day.

best of luck
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i have a bff, and she's going to a new school next year, and i'm going to miss her so much. but what if her new school makes her turn bad again? cuz she used to be bad and do cutts and stuff, and she had just gotten back to her old self, and was good. i'm worried that she'll turn bad again and do stuff that she shouldn't be doing, and i don't want that to happen agian, because i used to always have to take care of her and everything, and always had to be there for her, and it was a lot of hard work, and i don't want to have to do it all over again. is it bad to think that? should i keep being friends, or cut the string? please help! (link)
listen, your friend is probaly scared even more. shes worked so hard to get better and now its starting over when she doesnt want to. dont ditch her, this is a time of need for your friend. call her and reassure her that everything will be ok. that yall will still hang out and have fun. also let her know that you care about her and it would break your heart to see her giving up everything shes worked for. tell her that you love her and that she amtters to you. confort her. have one last night of being together like old times before she goes.

hope it works

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This girl is flirting with my boyfriend and she is trying to break us up and I really like him and don't want him to cheat on me like my last boyfriends. HELP! I don't know what to do. I am confused. (link)
first off tell the girl to get lost. second off if the guy loves you like you love him, he wouldnt do anything to hurt you. if he does, then he isnt worth crying over

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I have a pet monkey. I also have an awesome girlfriend who I plan to ask for her hand in marrage. I love her a lot and she means the world to me. However.. I had alredy bought a very expensive white gold and diamond encrusted engagement ring. But.. I know this is going to sound stupid and made up.. but my monkey ate it. He seriously honest to god te it! I dont have enough money to buy her a new one.. so what to I do? (link)
take the monkey to a vet or wait for doo doo to come adn take it to the cleaners. and dont forget LYSOL

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Well this morning i woke up and my boob was hurting. what could this mean?? 14/f. thanks (link)
theyre growing or time for period (YAY)
haha
take some midol, asprin, or advil
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What ways can you tell if a guy friend wants to be MORE than friends? (link)
if he calls you everyday, if he says how much he cares about you, if when you call him no matter what time in the night, he answers. if he wants to meet you places and have hugs and jsut talk to you. if he persuades you that there is such a thing as true love and if he gives you hope
those are somethings that could give a firned away

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My best friend lives in another state. She thinks shes in love with this guy who's 17 (my friend is 14/f). I've never met him, but i really don't trust him. He's currently in jail, and he has a baby on the way with his Ex-girlfriend. I really want to help my friend, but she thinks shes in love with this criminal. he was arrested for drunk driving! SHe doesnt want me to judge him, but i cant help but judge him! what am i supposed to do? should i support her, even though i think she's gonna get hurt, or should i keep trying to convince her not to keep giving this guy everything he wants? (link)
heres the deal
you cant protect your friend from everything, especially since she lives in another state. you need to let her learn from her mistakes, but if you insist differently, talk to her saying that you just dont get why a 17 year old dude would want to go out with a 14 year old. if she still doesnt get it, let it go. atleast you tried.


does anyone know any work outs that can get rid of the fat on you inner thighs? i rate 5's (link)
lunges
do lunges for 1 minute ear leg for about 6 minutes a day
it helps so much. im one of the many unluncky people in my family who have monsterous inner thighs. or you can go to the gym, get a trainer or go to a machine where you have 2 pads inbetween your legs and you push in.
its hard to explain

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okay theres a girl in my class whos really anoying i hate her and i know this is imature but wishs she would die. she likes me and im afraid that shes going to ask me to dance with her. (we have this stupid rule that sais you are not alowed to reject someone to slowdance) give me some good ideas of how to avoid her. thanks (link)
since you cant say no at the dance, say no before the dance,
tell her that youre just not interested and that you need some space to breathe. tell you you appreciate you #1 fan but that she needs to back off.
if she still doesnt give up then break the school rule (i think the rule is kinda stupid but o well) tell her youre just not interested.
try not to be mean (and definatly dont tell her you wishes she'd die) just tell her in a meaningful way.

glad to be of help
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mmkay. a bunch of people in my school are calling me a slut & lesbian ND I am so ajainst gays ( sorry to anyone ) and i dont get where there getting a slut. they say "im the biggest whore in school" how do i make it stop. casue i've tried to dress more down & not flirt with guys so much. but they still do it.
PLEASE HELP FAST. casue i think im a bout to bunch somone! (link)
wow, at my last school my mom got so fclose to suing because of that mess. it happens so easily in todays world and its pathetic and sad. its hard to cope but once that name gets out itll either be forgotten or make your life hell. so heres what i did. i met some new friends who saw me for who i was. i stood up for myself and didnt let those wannabe's get to me. there are probaly many reasons behind why your school is attacking you. but you need to show them youre not a lesbian, a slut, a whore, and whatever else they are. lemme tell you somehting, parents are not right when they say ignoring will make them stop, ignoring them feeds them. they need to be taught that youre a human and have feelings and that youre who you are.


i need some help getting a new screenname i absolutly hate the one that i have now.
can someone give me some ideas on new s/ns

if this helps any
-im 15
-i like punk rock and metal music
-my fave colors are black and pink
-my afave things are my chucks

ill rate 5s (link)
Im not an expert at screen names, but we have a lot in common. My chucks are my favorite types of shoes right beside VANS and my favorite color is black. Im also IN LOVE with Nirvana,crossfade, korn, and all that good listening value of time stuff.
You could try d3aththr3at (deaththreat) which is something i got close to using. PuNkPeRsoN ,
rOkMYwoRLd RoCKMYLIfe punkNmetal

if you dont like those, im sorry i tried to be of help


I am so full of energy so after I was laying down for like 10 minutes, i ust had this blast of hyperness and i jus ran outta my room yelling..ahaha..my mom was scared..so when she realized I was just being crazy, she started cussing at me..BAD! she was like "F*** YOU! MOTHER F*** YOU!!!" i feel so sad now :-( what can i do? (link)
Wow, that has to be hard. I didnt know what to do when my mom yelled and cussed at me for the first time. I cried, but I couldve spared that. You should sit her down and apologize, saying that you didnt realize you worried her. Let her know that it was immature and innapropriate of you to do that. And remember, be strong, dont let her or anybody else's stubborness get to you.
Be STRONG

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