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okay theres a girl in my class whos really anoying i hate her and i know this is imature but wishs she would die. she likes me and im afraid that shes going to ask me to dance with her. (we have this stupid rule that sais you are not alowed to reject someone to slowdance) give me some good ideas of how to avoid her. thanks
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Hey there!
I've been in your situation before dealing with someone that I can't stand. One thing I've learned in class today though, learn where she is coming from that way you can understand why she acts the way she always do. Be more tolerant and don't let her get in your nerves.
If these still don't work do this....... Find a time where she is in a serious mood or good mood then talk to her. Don't talk directly that she is annoying and all because that might not work. Try talking positively and let your point be heard and I'm sure in time you will get what you want. If still she doesn't change then go to drastic measures... And by the way, let go of your fears anything to do with her. And don't focus much about her asking to dance with you. If in case she asks you to dance with her just say I'm sorry I don't know how to dance or your a bad dancer better yet before she approaches you ask some other girl to dance with.
I hope this helps!
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Well, you can just say that you want to be nothing more than friends.
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just tell her your not interested and tell them to shove that rule up there ass because if you dont wanna dance with her then you dont have too!!!!!!
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You are a very mean person. You should never wish someone would die.. BAD YOU!... bobby bousche's mom would thinkn you were the devil!.. lol.. ok any way if you dont want to dance with her.. a) dont go to the dance b) hide in the guys bathroom or c)make her hate you
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I know that I am probably not going to get a high rating for this but here is my advice. You have a few options. I personally have had a situation that was JUST like this. When I was in the 8th grade this girl (who is now a friend of mine) asked me early at the dance to slow dance, I didn't want to but I panicked and said "yes". All during the night it was fast dancing so I just danced with other girls and everybody. When the slow dance part came I saw her before she saw me so I went into the bathroom and hid because I didn't want to dance with her. I waited until the very last song, came out of the bathroom and pretended to be looking for her I even asked people where she was just to make it looked like I was trying to find her. Needless to say I did find her but the last song was over. Years later we are friends now but she told me how much she wished I had found her sooner. It hurts a lot knowing that I avoided her on purpose. I did slow dance with her this year at our dance just as friends and it wasn't a big deal at all. I think what you should do is give this girl that one dance and know that you did something really nice for someone else. Or if you absolutely can't do that then I would suggest talking to her before the dance and tell her how you have feelings for someone else and you don't want to hurt her feelings. One more idea is to find a girl you like as a friend or whatever and ask her to the dance, stick with her that night and maybe the other girl will get the idea. Best of luck dude!
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When a slow dance comes on, conveniently go to the bathroom or go get something from the concession stand if you have to. You can't dance with a drink or food in your hands, right? If you have a friend thats a girl you can ask her to dance, so the other person cant ask you because you're already dancing with someone. Since there is that rule, your friend cant reject you. I hope I helped.
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ok you have a few options:
1) Bring a squirtgun and when she asks you, unload.
2) Publicly humiliate her (superly not recomended)
3) Dance with her.
4) Be bruatally honest
5) wear those hill billy teeth and eat onions and garlic so your breath reaks and when she asks breath on her hard and agree and give her a night to remember...(funest)
6) my brothers fav. -- hit it, quiet it , and never admit it.
7) duct tape
8) Try to understand her(lame)
HOPE I HELPED.. IF NOT YOUR SCREWED.
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since you cant say no at the dance, say no before the dance,
tell her that youre just not interested and that you need some space to breathe. tell you you appreciate you #1 fan but that she needs to back off.
if she still doesnt give up then break the school rule (i think the rule is kinda stupid but o well) tell her youre just not interested.
try not to be mean (and definatly dont tell her you wishes she'd die) just tell her in a meaningful way.
glad to be of help
xoxo
liars vs lovers
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aw, just dance with the poor girl. it will probably make her life. 3 minutes of yours will not be that bad. you have no idea how much it means to girls to get to dance with the boy they like. :)
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