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Location: erlanger ky
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Age: 21
Member Since: May 29, 2005
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whats the difference between smoking pot vs. smoking a normal cigarette? like, whats the difference between the two? thanks!! (link)
Well theres a huge difference!Pot gets you high cigs don't.Pot burns brain cells cigs dont.Pot is illegal cigs arent.


I'm a 21 year old Female and I have a very big issue with my weight. This issue is affecting my happiness and love life. My question is how can I NOT let this affect me? (link)
well if you have an issue with your weight you may need to try to lose it or gain it.you didnt include the actual problem.Go to a doctor and see what he suggests


I got sick yesterday morning, and i stayed home from school today because of it. I have a really bad scratchy sore throat. Like those ones where you constantly have to cough and your throat feels dry and scratchy. Thats' what I have and I want to know how i can get rid of it asap because I have a dance to go to tomorrow night. Anyway have any home remedies I can try? Thank-you.. (link)
try gargling salt water may sound nasty but it works.


Are guys supposed to masturbate? This was a big issue at school today. I was wondering if most guys masturbate. K thanks .. ♥ Tiff (link)
at some point in a guys life they are gonna discover masturbation. In my opinion its a big part of the puberty process.I also think that girls masturbate just as much it's just not openly discussed like male masturbation is. I would say yes most guys masturbate.


Im a girl, so i already know i'll suck more at guitar then guys. But, i'd like to start getting into guitars because music is one of my passions. I have long slender fingers so will that be an advantage when playing guitar? Okay well my question is, i want to play the song "vermilion pt. 2" on guitar, and I think its acoustic. I looked up the tabs. It said acoustic i think. Well anyways i was looking up acoustic guitars on google, and i also looked up electric guitars. And acoustic guitars are ugly! So, whats the difference between acoustic and electric guitars? Electric looks easier, but i dont know much when it comes to guitar. Please let me know as much info as possible, from experience would be even better. Im a beginner (only played like a couple times and sucked). Thanks so much this is something i wanna get into. THANKS (link)
im a 22 year old man and ive been playin guitar for about 10 years. When i first started playing i really sucked and i couldn't wait to be able to pick a guitar like willie nelson and the eagles.I thought that it just came easy but it dont the guitar is something that takes alot of time and patience. If i was you id get the feel for the electric and the acoustic.Never put a limit on what you can do.Especially music wise i play country rock classical i enjoy it all so take your time learn the chords and youll get get it.hope i helped!

steven


I am racially Jewish.

As far as my faith goes? I'm not quite sure. I was raised thinking Jesus is the true Messiah, not not worshiping him, per say. My father's side of the family has a lot of Jewish traditions woven in with Catholic ones.

I think Christians worship Jesus INSTEAD of God, and I don't think that's right.

I DO NOT want to be a Jew for Jesus. I'm sorry, I'm not praying in a highschool gym. Its not going to happen. I've prayed in both churches and synagogues, because I just say, "Hey, its the same God, right?"

But the way of worshiping Him is quite different. I have no idea who I am, where I fit, or where I should go to pray. (link)
you can pray wherever you want. just dont put other religions down. But before you pray you may have to learn how to pray first


I am currently 8 months pregnant and the last 2 months i have been addicted to sniffing Tipp Ex and marker Pens, could this have caused any harm to my unborn baby? (link)
well if you stop now id say everything will be ok but dont hold me to it inhalants are very dangerous and maybe you need some help with this addiction


Cool. I live In Ky To. (link)
what part


Can premature ejaculation get you pregnant?? (link)
yes it can there is still sperm in pre cum


im 16 years old and 8 months pregnant..my boyfriend ..which is the father and is 19..wont have anything to do with me..he wont even touch me anymore yea he comes over every now and then but he doesnt stay long..it breaks my heart because i love him so much..he says he loves me but it definately doesnt feel like it..what can i do? (link)
My g/f is also 8 months pregnant. I know what your going through and it's tough but dont let it get you too upset.He's going through changes too.Not as many as you but he's changing.Try sitting down with him and telling him how you feel.I went through the same stage he is going through and it's probably not you.He's probably really scared and thats ok.I'm sure he loves you and cares for you.Talking will help because maybe he doesn't know how you feel let him know..congrats on the baby good luck i hope i helped ya out....Let me know how things go


steven


Hello there , I chose to ask you my question because you sound like the right person to answer.
Anywhoo, it's about facial hair, in a good way.
I can grow a "mini" beard if I wanted to(I'm 17)
and I would really love to grow it even more around some areas which there is not a piece of dark brown facial hair, I've been shaving, and shaving and shaving, but I cannot get a goat-T, or a mustache.
My sideburns and hair that comes up to the corner's of my lips are dark brown and under my chin aswell, except it is splochy under there, but yet my mustache(if you can call it one) is somewhat blonde , and the same with my goat-T on my chin,so I guess my question would be , how do I grow more facial hair ,(if it is possible), and I realise shaving will grow more in areas where there wasnt any , but I've been doing that(I'm a tad impatient), please help, I really would love to grow somewhat of a beard for when I travel to England this July.
Thanks and Cheers a bunch!

Sincerely,
Jim (link)
I had the same problem when i was your age now im 21 with a full beard.The only thing i can tell you to do is to change the direction you shave instead of down strokes use upstrokes that will help thicken it up.Other than that it just comes with time.I know that sucks but theres really othing you can do.It will grow in good time.good luck hope i helped jim.


steven


There's this girl in my p.e. class, and I think she might like me. She hugs me every day, and she seemed really excited today when she told me that she broke up with her boyfriend. We always joke around, and she's kissed my neck before, just playing around though. The question is, do you think she likes me, should I ask her out, and a random question I'm throwing in: I just got braces, how would making out with someone work? (link)
Go for the worst she can say is no. If she kissed your neck then thats a pretty good sign she likes ya!! good luck hope i helped

steven

ps:i wouldnt worry about the braces girls love a man that can bite his own tounge off.j/k. no really the brace thing isnt a factor in makin out just be sure not to cut her!!


Alright, I am 16 and I live with my twin sister, my 19 year old brother, and my mom. She has always been pretty overprotective, especially after my dad died of brain cancer. But recently it has gotten uncontrollable. She makes up stupid excuses so I can't go hang out with my best friend. She acts like she doesn't trust me but when I ask her why she doesn't she doesn't give a reason. I have a feeling that the reason she doesn't want me going places is because she doesn't want me growing up so fast. I am going to be a Junior in High school this year and then I will be graduating in 2007 and going to college. She needs to understand that I am becoming more independent and will be an adult soon. She even went as far as keeping me from getting my liscence until I finally was able to convince her to allow me to get it. If anyone has any advice for me about how I can get my mom to give me more indepedence and actually try to listen to my side of the view. (link)
Well your mother is going through a tough time right now with the recent death of your father. Try to console her.I know it's gotta be tough for you but like my mother said "Its not you that i dont trust,it's other people." Now you seem like you got your head on straight. Pick a time and sit down with her and tell her whats on your mind when it's just you two.You have to understand that your still a teenager and your mother is worried to death everytime you walk out the door.I'm 21 years old and my mom still e-mails me all the time just to check up thats her job. It'll get easier.Hope i helped good luck

steven


Does your child have to be a certain age to let them stay home alone for about 2-3 days? Just wondering because me and my husband's 25th year anniversary is comming up and I want to get out of town for a few days just the two of us. I was wondering if it is legal for me to allow my 14 year old to stay home alone for a few nights. (link)
Yes its legal where im from.I still think you should have someone check in on him just to make sure he's alright.But its also a great chance for him to show you that he has responsibility.GO FOR IT!!! happy anniversary and i hope i helped!!


steven


Ok well our last day of school was last thursday and i told my b/f to come to school b/c that was the last day i would be able to see him b/c he was going to another school.well he didn't come so i didn't get to say goodbye or get a pic of him so i could remember him!i don't have his phone number or anything so i can't call him! what should i do so i can get over this?

i rate high! (link)
He's your b/f and you dont have his phone# or a pic.Sound to me like your too young to be dating.
good luck..


steven





i have a friend and she is kind of stupid and I think she is only my because she wants to copy off my homework (link)
well let her copy!!


I know my mother wil die in the future but I don't know if I can handle it? I might need more help in the future? (link)
Death is a very dreadful part of life. But as we all know it's going to happen sometime to all of us.Just cherish the times that you have with her now.Spenevery moment that you can spare with her.She will be a part of you for the rest of your life. Itll be tough and there will probably be a little part of you that never gets over it.But you'll get stronger everyday. Look for support through family and friends.Look for a good support group for your type of dilemma in your area.My best wishes go out to you and your family i hope i helped.


steven


i have this really good guy friend, and he's always really nice to me and treats me really well. but as far as other girls go, he cheats on them, talks bad about them, and completely uses them. he's tried to get me into a physical relationship w/ him a couple of times, and each time i've sternly told him no, because i know what happens to every one of his girlfriends ... the problem is now, that his current girlfriend is my good friend. i don't want to see her get hurt the same way he hurts every other girl who crosses that line with him, and i tried to explain to her that he can be a total jerk to his girlfriends.... but because i spend so much time w/ him (he's a close friend), now she thinks i like him, and that i'm just jealous... which is 100% not true. i would never go out with him... ever. i'm smarter than that. but anyway, what do i do... do i let him break her heart? and how do i get her to understand that i'm not trying to steal her man? (link)
Just stay out of it.Not trying to sound mean but that is her buisness.Iunderstand you dont want your friend to get hurt but its a part of life.I guarantee you that if you keep on her about it your friendship will detoriate!!hope i helped good luck!!

steven


my mom says that if i use too much acne medication products, and other things to clean my face, i'll have really bad skin in the future.

should i believe her??

oh, and i dont wear any make up (link)
if the acne meds contain alchohol it will dry your skin out badly in the future.TRy noxemas new acne medicine it has aloe in it.Hope i helped good luck.


steven


Okay, well.. this was my first time having sex. but it was like a spur of the moment thing and i didnt even realize it was going to happen. but i was like no i cant get pregnant but he said that if he didnt keep it in long enough to ejaculate that there was no chance that i could get pregnant, is this true? (link)
Thats not true at all! When a guy has his penis inside of you there is stuff called premature ejactulation that comes out and he cant control that.He may be able to pull out before the big one comes but you can still get pregnanat from the premature ejactualion.Please take this advice and use some kind of safe sex method whether its a male condom or a diaphram.There is so many sexual diseases out there now.So pregnancy should be the last thing on your mind!!!!I hope i helped and good luck!!

steven




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