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guy w/ girlfriend
i have this really good guy friend, and he's always really nice to me and treats me really well. but as far as other girls go, he cheats on them, talks bad about them, and completely uses them. he's tried to get me into a physical relationship w/ him a couple of times, and each time i've sternly told him no, because i know what happens to every one of his girlfriends ... the problem is now, that his current girlfriend is my good friend. i don't want to see her get hurt the same way he hurts every other girl who crosses that line with him, and i tried to explain to her that he can be a total jerk to his girlfriends.... but because i spend so much time w/ him (he's a close friend), now she thinks i like him, and that i'm just jealous... which is 100% not true. i would never go out with him... ever. i'm smarter than that. but anyway, what do i do... do i let him break her heart? and how do i get her to understand that i'm not trying to steal her man?
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Just stay out of it.Not trying to sound mean but that is her buisness.Iunderstand you dont want your friend to get hurt but its a part of life.I guarantee you that if you keep on her about it your friendship will detoriate!!hope i helped good luck!!
steven
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Alrite..well i think you should keep trying to tell your friend that he really does do the things you say he does. If she doesnt belive you, then shes not a very good friend. She should trust what you say and she should probablly talk to her boyfriend about it. And maybe since your friends with her boyfriend, talk to him and maybe even make sure he doesnt act like an idiot or cheat on your friend because this is a really tough situation. Explain to him how you care about your friend n dont want her getting hurt because you know that she doesnt deserve it. Tell your friend you deffinately dont like this kid and you just dont want her getting hurt because you'd never ever go out with him...since you know what he does. Hope i helped..
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Wow, this seems complicated. Luckily, I have JUST the solution. Tell this friend of yours that you don't like him & that you are telling her the truth because she is your friend & you don't want her to get hurt. Then just walk away (or sign off if you're online) & let her think about it. If you keep on persisting then she'll start to think you're doing it just because you like him. Try it just one more time being stern & telling her that you're worried about her. Also, give some examples of his past girlfriends so she sees you really are telling her the truth. Good luck & it's nice to know there are people like you that would go to all this trouble for their friends. If you ever need any more advice, feel free to ask me!
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I think you should stay out of it, if you already talked to your friend and warned her there isn't much you can do. Maybe try talking to your guy friend about what he does and tell him be nice to your friend, she doesn't deserve to be treated the way he does all his other past GF's.
Just be there for your friend when the relationship ends, thats the most important.
AG
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Well.. in addition to getting your guy friends former girl friends to talk to your friend, possibly talk to your guy friend, and tell him how important it is that he treats your friend with well, and if he does end up breaking her heart by his actions, i guess the best thing you can do is be there for her, don't be like " i told you so" just be the good friend you are and help her through the tough time she is going through.
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Well if you know any of his ex g/fs try to get at least 2 of them to tell your fiend how he is and that he will cheat on her too and just let her know that you dont want him because he cheats on all of his g/fs and he treats them bad and hope she understands
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