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this is so typical it kills me.....
i have liked this guy for the whole school year, we became really good friends and he found out i liked him and it brought us closer.. then he liked someone else. she broke his heart and now he hates her.. we became friends again and i thought things were going in the right direction and now i just find out my friend likes him and she didnt tell me , when she knows i have liked him for a long time (supposedly shes like him this long too) and now he has a "crush" on her, but he doesnt like her.. i dont understand..
what should i do?
thanks
Heyy*
Well if you n this guy are really good friends, maybe he secretly has always loved you, but didnt wanna ruin anything between you guys. Maybe you should ask ur friend if she remembers how much you like this kid and see what she says. I think when he says that he has a "crush" on your friend but he doesnt like her, maybe hes saying that he likes something ABOUT her, but doesnt like HER her. Idk i hope you get what im saying. Maybe you should talk to this kid about how much you like him, but not all at once..you know what i mean? Try telling him secretly but not so secretly that it has to be a secret. Woah confusing ik..but trust me it works. I hope i helped n that everything works out alrite
Okay,,,,,
I have this boyfriend(Kevin) that im madly in love with and hes in love with me. I am 13 and hes 15. We've been going out for 7 months!! Theres a problem though. My neighbor is the one i always hung with and i introduced her to him because he was my boyfriend and they have became close and she always im's him online and calls him on his cell phone. Latly i have been getting scared. Shes been saying maybe she will take him to the prom next year if she has noone to go with and crap though my boyfriend says he wouldnt go with her and i do belive him... and i think shes falling for him. Shes 16 years old too so shes closer to his age. She had alot of crap about him written in her profile saying stuff about there friendship. She doesnt have a boyfriend and im positive shes never had one. I know he wont leave me for her but i am afraid thats shes falling for him. How do i tell? Im scared because i dont want her too and if she does then i dont know if i can handle it. Shes been writing about a guy in her profile and she says she likes this one guy but i think she has some feeling for Kevin that are getting stronger. I think she flirts with him but im sure Kevin doesnt think so.... i donno please help I'm flippin out here!
♥ Meg ♥
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Heyy*
Well no doubt about it ur friend deffinately has feelings for your boyfriend. You shouldnt be worried though, because even if she's closer to his age, she cant give him what you give him. If he really, truly loves you, then you know that only you can make his life complete and perfect...not someone that will like him for a day n then move on to liking someone else. I can tell that you deffinately love this kid to death n dont be worried. I have a strong feeling that your not going to lose him. Hope i helped
well me and my boyfriend are so happy together well he lives with his grandparents and his grandma doesn*t like me at all even though I never did anything to her well my boyfriend recently got a job and he works from 4:45 until 1:00 in the morning and his grandparents won*t let him call me when he gets home well I call him during the day cause he is home but his grandma only lets us talk for about 20 minutes so we never get to talk or see each other which is bad for a relationship but I love my boyfriend so much he makes me happy and everything but I don*t want a boyfriend that I never get to spend time with or get to talk to and it is summer right now so should I break up with him? or should I stay with him? I don*t wanna be lonely but if I have to I will plz help me I rate high! thanxs so much
Heyy*
Well i think that if you really love him, then you should stay with him. At least you guys get to talk for a little while. Maybe sometimes you can visit him at work or plan something secret so his grandparents dont know. He shouldnt have to lie to his grandparents..but he doesnt have to tell them the whole truth if you guys do plan something like that. Its up to you about the whole breaking up thing, but sometimes when your with the one you love, sacrifices have to be made. Idk why his granparents dont like you. You seem really nice. I really hope everything works out with you guys because when your with the one you love, it shouldnt matter if you never get to see eachother or talk to eachother, but you have the most important thing that no one else in the world can give you besides him. That one special thing that no one else has.
i have this really good guy friend, and he's always really nice to me and treats me really well. but as far as other girls go, he cheats on them, talks bad about them, and completely uses them. he's tried to get me into a physical relationship w/ him a couple of times, and each time i've sternly told him no, because i know what happens to every one of his girlfriends ... the problem is now, that his current girlfriend is my good friend. i don't want to see her get hurt the same way he hurts every other girl who crosses that line with him, and i tried to explain to her that he can be a total jerk to his girlfriends.... but because i spend so much time w/ him (he's a close friend), now she thinks i like him, and that i'm just jealous... which is 100% not true. i would never go out with him... ever. i'm smarter than that. but anyway, what do i do... do i let him break her heart? and how do i get her to understand that i'm not trying to steal her man?
Heyy*
Alrite..well i think you should keep trying to tell your friend that he really does do the things you say he does. If she doesnt belive you, then shes not a very good friend. She should trust what you say and she should probablly talk to her boyfriend about it. And maybe since your friends with her boyfriend, talk to him and maybe even make sure he doesnt act like an idiot or cheat on your friend because this is a really tough situation. Explain to him how you care about your friend n dont want her getting hurt because you know that she doesnt deserve it. Tell your friend you deffinately dont like this kid and you just dont want her getting hurt because you'd never ever go out with him...since you know what he does. Hope i helped..
.:*Leah*:.
ok so im going out with guy now and like every time im with him and his friends i can never talk to him cus im really nervous i might say something really lame and his friends will laugh at me. when he is about ot leave im to scared to hug him goodbye . i dont want him to think i dont like him so how do i talk to him without being scared? please help fast! i rate good!
Hey
My boyfriends the exact same way. We've been together for about 6 months and whenever hes around his friends i cant be myself around them caz it might "embarass" him or me...The best thing to do is talk to him like in a way you wouldnt normally. Like talk to him when he looks at you or wait until you guys are alone. Sometimes it gets really frusterating because maybe he'll spend more time with his friends than you because he cant afford to lose his friends or w/e. So yeah just try to find the right moment with him to actually say something. Theres no reason to be scared unless his friends really really dont like you. Try to be really close with his friends too, so then you guys can hang out more and you can actually say anything without any kind of critisizm. Hope I helpedd*
.:*Leah*:.
my dad has a brother and he is my uncle my dad and him got in a fight like 15 years ago and they still are fighting ever since then they have been fighting the whole family has been split apart i am not able to see my cousins ever my dad tried apolygizing and it didnt work my uncle has treatened my papa by emails (not going into detail) i want are family to get along but have no clue what to do if you have any serious advice i would love to see it
brittany
Hey
I know what you mean. My mom and aunt were fighting for a long time, and we barely got to see my cousins or go to birthday parties. Maybe you should try talking to your dad about it..maybe even your uncle. Its hard to give advice when idk what the problem is, but the best thing to do is probablly just talk with them about it. Just because they have stupid problems doesnt mean that they should take it out on you and your family. They should deffinately try to work things out. And maybe if not..tell your dad to get a new email adress so he doesnt get threatening emails from your uncle. That way nothing can get worse. Im really sorry that this is happening to you and i hope everything turns out ok someday..
15/f. Okay, I like this guy, and there's been signs that he likes me too, but I'm not so sure. I met him through one of my friends one day when he picked her up from school, and she asked if I wanted a ride home. (She has a boyfriend who is his friend, so they don't go out or anything)
Well, he asked me a question and after I told him my answer he said "You're my type of girl." and not only that, he kept glancing at me in the mirror. Then one weekend in March my friend invited me to spend the night with her, and of course, he also goes to her house after he gets off work. Well, my friend decided to go to Dairy Queen, then later on the dance our school was having that night. He was flirting with me all that night pretty much, and when we were in the car he was holding my hand. Not only that, he would pinch my butt and just look at me for no reason. So yeah, I figured he liked me, lol. I didn't see him for about a month and when we were around each other he was still flirting and stuff, and everytime he leaves my friends house he gives me a hug. (One more thing, lol. One time I was there we were laying on the couch together and he had his arm around me) He also got my AIM screename and we talk from time to time, and he usually makes dirty jokes and stuff. Anyways, I saw him again this week and he was acting different around me. He wasn't so flirty as usual, but he still gave me a hug and held my hand. So I was trying to get this from another person's perspective. Do you think he likes me? He used to act like he did, but not so much anymore. So I was just trying to figure out if he still did or what. Thanks. =)
Heyy!
Well i deffinately think this kid really likes you. Maybe he doesnt really act like it anymore because i guess for him it must be really hard not seeing you for a long time. I really think that if you tell him you like him you guys would end up going out because he sounds like a really sweet, nice guy and fun to be around. I think you should try telling him how you feel about him and maybe ask him if he wants to hang out at the movies or wherever sometime just to catch up n who knows..you might even have a relationship by then ;)
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.:*Leah*:.
i was wondering, what are some websites, for like teenage girls. that we can find like quotes, and like stories of breaking up, where ypu can find poems and stuff like that.
thanks so much
theres this one site called www.best-love-poems.com/love_quotes.html or if you want i have like a couple good breaking up poems i wrote or here I'll just paste them here:
Who knows where we are now
We're through and I dont know how
If you say we're not so alike
Then why were we able to stop all the fights
All though they happen all over again
I still get the paper and pick out a pen
To write you the note that says it all
Without you I'd be nothing at all
But you think different...I know its true
You dont want to hear the words Me and You
Now all i hear is You and Her
And all i want to do is change those two words
If you only fall in love once
Theres no reason to cuss
You think you love Her*
And I dont know if its true
But all I want to hear is Me and You
Me and You together forever
Like it used to be when all things were better
With you in my life was a reason to live
But now i want to throw in the towel and give in
You put me under a spell
In a trans...I cant explain
Its almost like my tears are like the pouring rain
Every drop stands for something you said
And every night I lie awake in my bed
Hearing those words that you said to my face
Me and You are just words of disgrace
I dont understand what the world wants for me
If I cant have Me and You...can I at least get We?
I dont know why I love you
...I dont know why i do
You make me cry you put me down
You always find a way to make me frown
But at the same time I just want to hold you close
Feel your heart's beating pulse
Its like whenever I'm with you we seem to fight
and it haunts me and hurts me every single night
But Im so afraid to let you go
and I try so hard to not let my love show
I cant seem to explain the feelings I feel
I dont really know how to settle this whole deal..
I could care less about the places you go,
people you see...I dont wanna know
But one things for sure...this is hard for me...
I Cant let you go..I Love You...Cant you see?
Sometimes its like this..
I think about your kiss
The touch of your sweet lips
The tangling of our fingertips
As it goes..a tear rolls down my cheek
I start feeling dizzy and weak
My world is screaming as im silently being torn apart
In bits in pieces lays my heart
You stole my heart, soul and mind
I cant leave these memories far behind
I try to go on...I try to forget
But this is something that I deeply regret
Letting you slip away was the worst thing to do
I really couldnt tell that i needed you.
those are my only good ones..hope you like themm*
.:*Leah*:.
I have a friend Luke, and I really like him. As in more than a friend. But Im not sure he likes me. So, he broke up with his girlfriend (Emma) and he really liked her. Then he hooked up with another girl (Rachel) but he didnt like Rachel at all, he was just trying to make Emma jealous an dget back with him. But it didnt work. Soon Rachel and Luke broke up, and he still liked Emma. But then he thought that she wasnt worth the effort so he stopped liking her. When we are in class, Emma keeps telling me that Luke likes me and that he's trying to get attention. But im like "Nah.." And now he's looking for another girlfriend, and asian again. All his girlfriends are asian. And guess what, he said he liked my best friend! I cant stand that...I feel like dying...i worked hard to get to him but it doesnt work...he told his frend that he thought I liked him (which is true) but I said "No i dont" because he doesnt keep secrets that well...And i wouldnt want to look like an idiot. I nearly started crying, so I went to my other group and said that they were leaving me out, and started crying, but I was actually crying because he liked my best friend. How can i make him notice me...he's my soulmate, and were really good friends. He's the perfect person.
Alright well I know exactly what your going through. Sometimes it's hard to watch the one person you love inlove with someone else. Try to take ur mind off this kid luke for a little while n talk to ur bestfriend about it. Tell her how you feel about Luke n make sure she would not go out with him. To me though it sounds like Luke is a real player and dont fall for anything sneaky caz you might end up with your heart broken. Trust me I know from expierience. He may be the perfect person when he wants to be..but to me it sounds like he cares more about his appearences with the girls that are probablly really popular...