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ok so im going out with guy now and like every time im with him and his friends i can never talk to him cus im really nervous i might say something really lame and his friends will laugh at me. when he is about ot leave im to scared to hug him goodbye . i dont want him to think i dont like him so how do i talk to him without being scared? please help fast! i rate good!
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Hi..
I was the same way when I had my Real first boyfriend.. I would be really quiet and the only way I would give him a kiss good by was when he said.. Then one time I was leaving I just asked.. do you want a kiss goodbye.. In your case I think maybe you should try to do the same and be like. "Do you want a hug goodbye?" and just act really inocent ;-) thats the way to do it.
And about the Talking part. Just start talking when him and his friends are having a conersation.. but think before you say anything to make sure they wont think its stupid.. but if they do laugh.. thats ok.. cause they think its funny!
Hope i helped
-maddie
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Okay! You need to be yourself around him no matter were he is. Because he may loose intrest in you because he notices that you are atotal diffrent person when he is around his buds. So be yourself and it may take time but if you want to keep this guy you need to be yourself!Hope i helped and i hope you make the right choice!
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First of all don't worry about what his friends think of you. You aren't out to impress them. So long as he likes you... that's what counts!
About hugging him...what does he do? He could just as easily hug you. Try your best not to be scared. Remember you don't have to be the one to do everything. He should be helping out. You might tell him how you feel about things if you could get some time alone with him. :)
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heyy I think you should ignore his friends I mean who cares what they think...and im sure you wouldnt say anything that lame haha. And about the hugging if you feel weird dont do it but if its just nerves go for it I mean you only live once and what the wrost that could happen? I hope I helped send feedback lyl mwaaa<333 diane
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My boyfriends the exact same way. We've been together for about 6 months and whenever hes around his friends i cant be myself around them caz it might "embarass" him or me...The best thing to do is talk to him like in a way you wouldnt normally. Like talk to him when he looks at you or wait until you guys are alone. Sometimes it gets really frusterating because maybe he'll spend more time with his friends than you because he cant afford to lose his friends or w/e. So yeah just try to find the right moment with him to actually say something. Theres no reason to be scared unless his friends really really dont like you. Try to be really close with his friends too, so then you guys can hang out more and you can actually say anything without any kind of critisizm. Hope I helpedd*
.:*Leah*:.
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Ok, try to talk about what his friends are talking about, or try to talk about him, thats not lame, talk about music and all that jazz . I hope I helped you out! From the famous ToNy!
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