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my best friend likes the same guy as me. Im 14 and im a girl. She has a better chance i think. she is always flirty and everything right in my face. should i keep liking him or just give up and let her win?
I think you should never give up on your dream! If you think you have summtin with this guy never give up on him. And hey you never know you it may could get some where with it. HOPE I HELPED AND IF UA NEED
I'm one of the unlucky people who have thunder thighs. I really like this one bathing suit with a skirt for a bottom thats not to long, not to short. I go to the pool to swim, so is there a way i can swim w/ one of those w/o it looking weird when i'm in the water?
Yes, they have bathing suits that are made with skirts on them so oyu could look and see if there is one that looks like it and get that! or maybe you can get someone to sew it on the bottom of your bathing suit. Hope I helped.
ok me and my bf are planning to have sex the thing is we are both virgins and i was wondering wat it was like the first you have sex... mostly on the girls part.. like does it hurt and all that i want to no bc i want to be sure im really ready we already have everything else planned out and all but i still wanna be sure ne good advice and no loser advice is apreciated ill rate good laters
It hink you should save sexs for marragie cause you may someday go back and think you made a mistake and u would want to share it with your husband more than you would want to for a guy u may never see after the time you do him.
well here it goes..
i like this boy who i have dated in the past (let's call him *j). He tends to drink a lot as well as smoke. However, now he has cut back a lot on smoking. My friends think that in our previous relationship he didn't treat me right. Well, he did cheat on me with other girls while he was drunk. But, he confessed. On valentines day (while we were going out) he gave another girl a card saying he loved her. Yet, knowing me.. i just let it go. About a month after that incident we broke up, and now we are starting to like eachother again after a break of about 2 months. However, this time he is treating me different & way better. He actually calls me now as well as asking me to do stuff outside of school. He even calls me when he is around his friends, which he like never did in our previous relationship. Now i am debating as if he really has changed and wants a commitment or if he is just the same. Last week, he kissed me.. & that is giving me mixed signals. Now, i like him even more, which is killing me because how do i know he is a different person.
okay! i think you should just be friends with this J cause he most likely is wanting you just because he cant get anyone else cause they dont want to be with someone that smokes and drinks and is a cheater. I do think that if you get him going on the right track he could become a really good guy! Hope i helped!;)
are boobs really important to guys? should i be "showing some skin" to get boys to like me? girls are always talking about who they made out with at the last party..should i be doing stuff with guys to get more popular?
No! Because most likely these girls are going to become sluts one day. And if you plan to get far in lifeyou should always be yourself and never change who you are just ti become poukar! Hope Helped! AND Good Luck!
My boyfriend can be so immature sometimes & it really bothers me. He's always fooling around & playing pranks of people. I know he's a guy so he's entitled to have fun with his friends but sometimes, it gets out of hand. What do I do?
x`laur
you nees to sit him down and tell him how you feel; becasue the only way he will know how to fix anything is i fyou tell him! i know it may be hard to but it is what is needed to do and mayb if you dont really like being areound him you should break it off with him! Hope Helped!
ok so me and my boyfriend broke up because he stalked me and he still kinda does.he got mad becuase i hung out with this guy down the street who is 15.me and the guy hung out alot by ourselves and we never did anything like that.my (ex)boyfriend always accused me of doing things with him.not just him but a bunch of others guys and the guys who he thought i was doing stuff with stop talking to me because my ex boyfriend is 6'5 or 6'6 so none of the guys wanted to get in fights.was i right for breaking up with my boyfriend?i was really missing my guy friends=(
Yes! you made the right choice! you should not feel bad because you ex was one of thoes that was to over baring! And if he thought you were cheating on himor doing other things with your friends then that just proves all he wanted was you and didnt care what you wanted or what you needed! HOPE I HELPED!
Theres so many drugs and violence and sex in my school i some times feel left out and want to join the crowd by smoking or drinking or having sex i mean my friends do it and so do my brothers they seem to get all the girls to like no girls like me but they all like my brothers and my friends
Should i join the crowd and get the hot girls?
or
Should i stay sober and not have sex ?
Signed ~Very Confused~
You are doing the right thing by staying out of it! Not many teens are able to do this and addventually u will realize that in the long run you were the one that made the right decision! So keep up the good work and say away from the stuff you know is right! HOPE I HELPED!
I get embarassed so easily!! I can't help it. Then I think over about what I did all night and I'm even more embarassed!! HOw can I stop this??
I think you should just be yourself cause the only way to over come your fear so to speak is to do that fear! So try to get embarrassed every now and then and adventually ull get used to it and ull realize how much fun your "fear" may be. HOPE I HELPED!
Ok, I have some bumps on my u no where... Below the belly!!! Anyways, all i've done is oral sex.. can I get herpes from oral sex?? HELP!! Do I have herpes!
YES! You may not want to hear this but you need to tell an adult FAST! cause you could really get infected w/ them and then have know way of tryin to get rid of them. I know this may be hard to tell an adult but it is what is needed! GOOD LUCK! I HOPE YOU GET THINGS WORKed out!
ok so im going out with guy now and like every time im with him and his friends i can never talk to him cus im really nervous i might say something really lame and his friends will laugh at me. when he is about ot leave im to scared to hug him goodbye . i dont want him to think i dont like him so how do i talk to him without being scared? please help fast! i rate good!
Okay! You need to be yourself around him no matter were he is. Because he may loose intrest in you because he notices that you are atotal diffrent person when he is around his buds. So be yourself and it may take time but if you want to keep this guy you need to be yourself!Hope i helped and i hope you make the right choice!
theres this girl in my class whos awesome! I like her alot but she has a boyfriend (who shes losing interest in). sometimes she stares at me and after class she talks to me for no reason. next year we have a major dance coming up (8th grade) and im wondering if i should ask her. please help, it would mean the world to me.
Okay well i think you should tell her how you feel and not just gun whole it and aske her out, because she does have a boyfriend and that would probly be aturn down to her! Good Luck and hope you make the rigth decision!
ok so i told my bff (who's a guy) that i liked him. I went out w/him last year but we broke up. I wrote him a letter b/c he was moving. and i gave it to him after a party. that night he called me and was like i was surprised when i read ur letter. i was lik o. and he said that he wont act weird around me tomorrow (we had another part). and that he was goin to write me a poem and give it to me. that was the end of the conversation. the next day i saw him and we didnt really talk that much. at the end i gave him the biggest hug b/c i wasnt goin to c him ever again. he invited me over to his house to hang out. and im goin to go over to his house. well im not sure if he's goin to ask me out but i want him to. well there's this other guy and i like him to. he has this thing on his profile that says there is sum1 special out there for me. and i asked him who it was and he said that i would find out who it is at camp.(were goin together) so i kind of think it might b me but im not possitive. i dont no wat to do! i like them both and i want to go out with both of them. p.s. im 13 and a female
well honestly, i think u should just wait a little while and see what happens. Because if the guy that is moving away wants to be with you then he will stay in touch when he moves and yall will do things together even though he is moved away. But if the other guy would like to be with you then he would have most likely have already told you cause i mean ofyesly he just wants a summer thing. Well ihope i helped! Good Luck in your decision!
are there any websites with a quiz that would match you up with the perfect job for you or type of job? that would be great!
you can always go to google, ask, and yahoo, and type in jobs in your areaand it should give you some tips or u may can ask for quizzes to. GOOD LUCK!
I met this guy on a Friday and got his number on Saturday. We talked nonstop on Sunday, Monday and Tuesday and he asked me out on Wednesday. Well, we went out for six days before I asked him if he thought we rushed into things and of course he said yes and I asked him if he would like to take a break so we could actually get to know each other and he said no, but I pushed it and now we are on a "break" and I feel really bad like I've hurt him. He hasn't talked to me at all. I feel really bad, but I know that I rushed into it. Did I do the right thing by taking the break? And do you think he's mad at me? I would put more details about him for the past two days, but he hasn't said anything to me so I can't.
14/f, um...the guy is 15/m
Thanks so much!
YES! you did the perfect thing. In a relationship it takes two ppl to work it out and if one thinks that it was pushed to much then of course you did the right thing. Now the question is is he mad at u? If he is then that is his own fault becuse he loves you and wants to be with you he would want to wait. REMEMBER it takes two for a relationship to work adn if hes mad at you because you did the right thing then that just proves he really didnt want ot be with you. HOPE I HELPED!!!!
My friend [no names] is constantly annoyed & mad over this one boy that she IS supposively in love with.. what should i do ? i almost tried everything. I took her parasailin today & that didn't even help ..
This is a hard thing to answer, but the only thing you can do is tell her what you think. And she may never understand you but at least you know you tried and told her what yo thought. HOPW I HELPED! & GOOD LUCK!
Yeah uh...I've got ideas...but...I want to be correct. Wtf is masturbating?
Trust me wait till marriage and im sure you'll find out!;) GOOD LUCK!
i have been dating my b/f for one month now and i cant stop thinking about him! it's crazy, i'll be watching tv and then for no reason i will think of him. or if i'm listening to the radio, a song will remind me of him. i mean even when i'm shopping or eating. he is constantly on my mind! nd i have been totally crazy about him for a year, and he said he has liked me since he first met me. he tells me all the time about how he cant get me outta his mind either. we'll be on the phone for hours and it will be 2 in the morning nd he's so tired but we never hang up. he says its bcuz he wants so hear my voice and as soon as he hangs up he misses me. i think i love him, i always get this excited crazy feeling when i just think about him and i smile all the time for no reason, i feel like a dork.
do you think i love him?
well its hard to tell if you love him because im not you. But from what i have read you do sond like its aBIG case of puppy love! and i think one day you will actually grow to love or if you do now it will grow more and more as ualls relationship stays together. but i hope that this is what you want cause i would hate for you to get hurt if uall were to seperate.Good luck!
Would you be someone's friend still even though that person always went back on her word on things she say? Becuase I'm having that problem with my friend named J-lo, and I don't really want to be friends with J-lo anymore. because when I stop talking to her beacuse she goes back on her word with things, she always tries to talk to me agian and be my friend again then, tell every one who's her friend that i'm not her friend then everybody ends up asking me all these damn questions why I'm not J-lo's. And I'm sick of it, cause this kinda be happenin every 3 or 2 times a week. And I need advice what to do.
I think you should tell J-lo what you think cause then she will understand the reason that you all cant seem to stick at being friends. I know it may be hard to do but hopefully the out come will be good so that she will know what the problem is and that she will change he ways and then thoes ppl tha keep askin you why uall arnt friends will stop askin! Good Luck adn always hope for the best!
ok, i went out with this guy a couple of times and i love him and he loves me but when he is around me if we're dating he starts getting all quiet and shit. thats not what this is about though. we split up about a month ago and i have a boyfriend now but i still love him. he asked out one of my friends and it made me want to cry. what does this mean. i would still be going out with him but he changes so much. i need help with all of it. it might be hard to answer but thanx to those who try
i honestly dont know how to answer this question but i do know that you must have strong feelings for this guy. i mean i honestly think that if u cried when he went and someone else out u are in love, but i also think this may not be your true lover. cause i think that your true guy would be that someone that never changes. well i hope i helped!