Would you be someone's friend still even though that person always went back on her word on things she say? Becuase I'm having that problem with my friend named J-lo, and I don't really want to be friends with J-lo anymore. because when I stop talking to her beacuse she goes back on her word with things, she always tries to talk to me agian and be my friend again then, tell every one who's her friend that i'm not her friend then everybody ends up asking me all these damn questions why I'm not J-lo's. And I'm sick of it, cause this kinda be happenin every 3 or 2 times a week. And I need advice what to do.
i have a friend like that too, although instead of going back on her word my friend lies a LOT. the thing i can say is go with what you feel. i know thats not much great advice, but if shes a great friend otherwise from her going back on her word, well, why lose her? talk to her about it and if she does it subconsciously then point it out to her. ya noe? [ missing-identity-seeker's advice column | Ask missing-identity-seeker A Question ]
karenR answered Sunday May 29 2005, 4:38 pm: Tell her you are friends no more. When everyone starts asking why tell them she's a freakin' liar and you don't need any liars as your friend. :) [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
~FrOgGiEbAbE515~ answered Saturday May 28 2005, 9:25 pm: I think you should tell J-lo what you think cause then she will understand the reason that you all cant seem to stick at being friends. I know it may be hard to do but hopefully the out come will be good so that she will know what the problem is and that she will change he ways and then thoes ppl tha keep askin you why uall arnt friends will stop askin! Good Luck adn always hope for the best! [ ~FrOgGiEbAbE515~'s advice column | Ask ~FrOgGiEbAbE515~ A Question ]
Kate05 answered Friday May 27 2005, 5:44 pm: I think you should talk to your friend about whats going on tell her how you feel and if she still does it calmly tell her you dont want to be her friend any more. Friend do that maybe shes going back on her word because shes maybe jelous or even mad at you so just talk and see what happens [ Kate05's advice column | Ask Kate05 A Question ]
MelSP answered Friday May 27 2005, 5:34 pm: go up to her and be like...this has to stop were not 6 years old...and if you dont stop doing this then i seriously cant be your friend any more...and tell her whats bothering you about her...and if she says something like...oo your just overreacting...say im not overreacting this happens like 2-3 times a week and i cant take it any more
zapreth answered Friday May 27 2005, 5:30 pm: Just tell the people asking, "She's not my friend. Why should I be hers? She has proven herself over and over. I'm sick of it." [ zapreth's advice column | Ask zapreth A Question ]
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