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whats it like ur first time
ok me and my bf are planning to have sex the thing is we are both virgins and i was wondering wat it was like the first you have sex... mostly on the girls part.. like does it hurt and all that i want to no bc i want to be sure im really ready we already have everything else planned out and all but i still wanna be sure ne good advice and no loser advice is apreciated ill rate good laters
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Hey.. Yea it will hurt at first.. because your cherry will pop... so you will bleed. All the luck to you and your boiifriend.
Tonie.
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sex can be alot of fun the first time isnt so bad as long as his dick isnt huge youll feel sore afterward and since he is a virgin also it might not last long dont go for your second time the same day because then it will mostlikely last longer and cause some pain id carry a condom with you or make sure he has one because you have to be safe
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If you`re sure you`re going through with this (because there are MANY things to consider) well here`s what to expect.
First off, USE A CONDOM. And LOTS of lube. It hurts, alot (it did for me at least) so make sure you`re loose. Make sure you won`t get walked in on either haha. Good luck!!
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yeah, it hurts, just be ready for it. XO bi
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Umm...it could be different everytime.
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Yes, it will hurt...VERY BADLY!! It may hurt the first few times you do it...make sure that you are well lubed up...that will make it easier too!!
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It hink you should save sexs for marragie cause you may someday go back and think you made a mistake and u would want to share it with your husband more than you would want to for a guy u may never see after the time you do him.
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yea it hurts the first time but the pain eventually goes away after each time you have sex. it feels so good after a while. the first time is always scary but you will get used to it.
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for me it only hurt when he was putting it in.it hurt wayy worse the 2nd time. BUT every girl is different. I know girls who say the pain was unbearable and others who say it felt good.But make sure he goes slow it will reduce the pain.
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For a girl the first time yes it hurts but dont worry its not something you cant handle and it doesnt hurt the whole time you do it either.. you might not like it the first or even second time but you eventually will, &hearts Nikki
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ok what you see in the movies...yeah that's NOT sex!...it will hurt...depending your pain tolarence...some of my friends it didn't hurt them as much cuz the masterbated alot and stuff like that...yall both are going to be extermly nervous...and the fact if it hurts or not should not determine if your ready to have sex yet or not...and everything planned out? are you saying you no when where and how yall are going to do it!...i don't know your age so i'm not going to give you the marriage lecture...but just remeber this is a big thing...and ya'll might get extermly attached to each other...some people say o i'll never get attached but you will...and you will always remeber your 1st time...i have no clue how long ya'll have been dateing but hopfully yall have been daten long enough that yall are already attached and this would either bring yall closer together or apart...just remeber the 1st few times of yall haveing sex will hurt...and make sure he goes slow so he doesn't "kill" you...it might be best for you to get on top so you can control how much of his penis will go in you...also make sure he fingers you enough so you get "lose" a lil bit!..and if you just so happen to be on the bottom...put some pillows under your backside..the pillows elevate your vaginal canal so it's easier for him to go in...i hope i gave you enough...some of this may not even matter to you..but you never now!!..wear a condom and be safe!!
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