hEY mY nAME iS tiFFANY. i will bE 14 sO0N & i sTARTED tHiS siTE cUZ mANY fRiENDS &` fAMilY mEMBERS hAVE t0lD mE i aM gO0D wiTH aDViCE. s0 d0N`t bE sHY &` aSK aWAY, tHANKS
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society tells us that having premarital sex is wrong, (risk of pregnancy, stds...) but also emotionally, that you cant handle a breakup after you lose your virginity to someone, it changes your life forever, etc. I know all of that, but is it true with EVERY SINGLE relationship that if you have premarital sex, it'll drive you two apart and you'll eventually break up. How wrong is it to have sex in highschool (only with 1 person of course and you keep it between yourself.) my boyfriend and I have been going out for 7 months and I want to have sex with him eventually but I'm afraid it'll make us break up... why does that happen? like think back in the 1940's, if you got pregnant both of you would drop out of highschool and GET MARRIED...why cant it be like that these days? (link)
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BECAUSE GUYS THINK WITH THEIR PENISES. Wouldnt it be nice if it worked that way though? Unfortuntly times have changed. But I agree with you actually. I dont know how true the "having premarital sex will drive you apart" is. But I will say that personally I think that one of my old boyfriends and I broke up because we had sex, and I honestly dont think I go one single day without thinking of him and we broke up like 6 months ago, so maybe it is true?
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Yesterday my boyfriend and i had sex and i bled on him, we thought that it was jusy my period coming because i am late...but it wasnt my period. He said that it could be possible that i contracted a std from my previous relationship or i could be pregnant. Im not sure what to do or what to believe~Im going crazy because i dont have anyone to talk to about this and if i do have a std he'll probably leave me...and i dont think that i would want to live without him; i'll be better off commiting suicide. (link)
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If this was your first time having sex- ever, he tore your hymen. Your hymen is a little piece of skin near your vaginal opening and the first time you have sex it tears and bleeds. Its PERFECTLY normal, dont worry about it!
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Does anyone know (please) some quick solutions to a zit...I'm not talking a pimple but one of the bigger zits that form under the skin and hurt=( i just want it to decrease in size without it becoming a scab. Please help! (link)
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Neosporin actually works well. Put it on overnight & it should be reduced in sizeby morning!
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watdoes it mean to eat a girl out? (link)
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Oh Lord...
It`s oral sex performed on a girl. You "eat" (shove your mouth and makeout with) her vagina.
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All around my breasts and on them its all red and REALLY itchy they're little rash lumps aswell. It has just happened when i wore my new white bra but the thing is I have the same bra but in black and it didnt do this?!!? The bra is 100% cottonn and it dont itch with anything else. Why am i itching and how can i make it stop and go away! I tried Eurax fast itching cream but it didnt work please help thanks x (link)
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The only thing I can think of is if your mom switched laundry detergent on you. Sorry =[ Get better though!
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ok i wasn't sure what to put this under but i have bad vision and i hate wearing contacts or glasses. are there any cheap ways to improve my vision? Can some one please give me easy ways to do it (not surgery or glasses or contacts).ty
** i rate high for helpful or funny answers**
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You could just buy new eyes =] I hear they don`t cost too much but if they are you can just rip them out of someone you don`t find socially stimulating. It will relieve your stress & help with your poor eyesight!!!
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i always get really bad cramps when i have my period. does anyone know good ways to dull the pain, either home remidies or medication? thanks. (link)
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Heating pad, pamprin, advil, midol, tylenol, & stretching gently. Get better! =]
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Is it true that not eating can make you GAIN weight rather than lose it?
(it's not that I'm planning on not eating, it's just a question) (link)
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I`ve heard this is true. Because it slows down your metabolism.
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does noxema help the pimple scars go away? if they dont, what are some stuff that helps the pimple scars go away ? (link)
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Neosporin helps with scars.
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Has anyone used the Secret Platinum deodorant before in gel form? does it last for 24 hours? i usually use Dove but i'm tired of the smell and want to try something new..on the back of the dove it states 24 hours but it doesnt on the other and i was wondering if it does because i have to run tomorrow and i will get all sweaty and i dont want to smell for the whole day during summer school since i'm taking personal fitness. thanks in advance. i dont need stupid answers either. (link)
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I personally use it & I love it, I don`t know if it lasts 24 hours but it does last for a very long time, test it out for a day & see if it`s for you. But won`t they have different scents for dove too?
And the last part, I do it all the time it works good lol.
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i've recently become a vegitarian. my mother is worried that i wont get enough protein, what are some foods that i can eat that contain protein (besides meat, obviously)? (link)
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I know peanuts, beans, and eggs contain a lot of protein. You might also want to contact your doctor to make sure you get all the nutrition you need because if not you may need to buy vitamins to take since you don`t get it from the foods you avoid. Good luck!
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How can I make friends at my school when most of the people act like they don't know me and are jealous of me? I haven't done anything to them except be nice to them and try to blow off there imature ways. I can't take it anymore what should I do and im and a female. (link)
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Well, I don`t exactly know all the people involved in this situation so I can only tell you what I would do & wish you the best of luck.
I would definetely open up my mouth & stand up for myself, I would never let people treat me that way. Let`s face it lots of people get jealous so your probably a very nice girl. Anyways, I would ask them why they blow me off so immaturly & see what they say then take it from there.
If you would like some nice friends maybe join an after school activity like a club at school or like a dance or art class or sports or something (I`m not sure what you`re into, just suggesting). Best of luck & if you have anymore further questioning please let me know!
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hi its brittany again i told you that my friends are all exprienced in sex and making out and i havent even madeout and you said dont use to much tongue i just wanted to know even though it sounds stupid is that does the guy usually put thier tongue in your mouth or do the girl usually put thier toungue in the guys mouth and if you do put your toungue in thier mouth do you stick your whole tongue in or no?? im srry for asking sucha stupid question. (link)
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Haha it`s ok, it`s not a dumb question! You don`t stick your WHOLE tongue in, you`ll choke the person lol, so just a little is good and as you get more comfortable use a little more each time. Well you both kind of put your tongues in eachothers mouth, like you take turns, which is why I said you need a rythm otherwise it`d be confusing & messy. Good luck babe!!
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you know that new eminem song that goes 'the way you move it, I cant believe it, I aint never seen an Ass like that' Well when he says 'makes my pee pee go Da Doing Doing Doing' < what does that mean?? (link)
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Are you like 10 years old?
>>>>>>>EDITTTTTTTTTT: Ok fucking bitchass who thinks they know it all... (and obviously doesn`t) it apparently means he`s getting a boner from the chick`s ass he is admiring.
Peepee= penis
Doing doing doing= Him becoming stiff
I answered your question so there cunt.
By the way, the song is called "Ass like that" and it`s not new, people only started to listen to it because the music video popularized it.
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ok so i havent madeout before but i have kissed and stuff all my friends are a year older and i love them to death but they all are starting to have sex i dont want to judge them and stuff i just tell them to realize that they are doing and tell them to be safe. and they love the fact that i dont judge im just there for them. well i havent madeout and im worried if im not the best the first time will the guy judge me because most likely he will be expirenced. please help btw (its not that i dont try its just that i worry about my friends) will he judge me and tell his friedns if its not the best?
love Brittany (link)
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Ok, let's break this down issure by issue...
#1. Confront your friends, at least that is what I would do. Tell them straight out in a calm friendly manner how you feel and that you are only doing so because you love and care for them very much. You probably won`t get through to them the first time but if they are true genuine friends they will most likely try to be more careful because they wouldn`t want a good friend like you who cares so much worrying (trust me, I know).
#2. Everyone gets very nervous their first time making out. I personally don`t know the guy so I don`t know if he`s the type to kiss and tell, sorry! However to build up some self confidence, here`s some making out tips:
1. Try to relax a little bit, not too much though you don`t wanna be too loose, but enough to be able to move and still have control of your mouth.
2. Don`t use too much tongue your first time, I`ve had bad experiences with other people who have used too much and it feels like being strangled with a wet slimey worm haha. (But don`t worry if you mess up because it will just make you more nervous, it`s your first time so cut yourself some slack. =] )
3. After your first couple of minutes you will soon become comfortable, if you follow the other person`s rythm you will definetely get the hang of it.
4. And close your eyes, I personally HATE when people have their eyes opened.
5. Don`t force it either let it go naturally, it seems complicated but trust me it`s very easy and you will warm up to it.
And as you become more comfortable you will be able to experiment with different techniques like licking or nibbling your partners lips! But for now, just focus on self control and rlaxing the muscles in your mouth. Practice makes perfect, I hope I helped with that.
If you have any further questioning please leave another one in my inbox! =]
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Are there any ways to speed up my metabolism?
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I read on the top of a Light & Fit yogurt container that eating dairy products that are low in fat bring up your metabolism.
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i need to no the right make for me. I have fair skin..but kinda a lot more color.I have big brown eyes and Brown hair . What is the right make up for me? (link)
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I personally haven`t tried it but maybe you should try the almay eye intensifer that brings out the color in your eyes. You could probably get it at a pharmacy or drugstore.
I look like that too and I wear black eyeliner and mascara and bronze eyeshadow, my friend wears purple eyeliner and purple mascara but we both look good, ya know? I guess it also depends on your facial features and structure too, so try a bunch of different things get some feedback and stick with what you like! It would probably be easier for us to give advice if we had a picture of you but you don`t have to. Or you should definetely consult one of those makeup artists on the makeup sections of department stores in the mall. Hope I helped!
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Yesterday I was trying to crack a glow stick and it exploded in my mouth. Only a little bit of liquid came out and I spit it all out and rinsed out my mouth. It burned my tounge..Does that mean it was toxic? Would I know if I was poisined by now? Please reply quick so I will know how to treat this! (link)
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Call your local poison control center. Try the yellow pages.
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okay at skool the other day i leaked and it was all over my chair. i coverd my pants with my jackett. i was wearing a extreamly large pad. it went through. am i bleeding to much
this is my 3rd period (link)
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No, you are not bleeding too much. It is your third period so it is still irregular and your body is still getting used to it. Don`t believe it when people say you`ll bleed to death or need a transfusion or that "eat your beats" bullshit, `cause it`s not true. Don`t worry! =]
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okay.. i was talking to my friend yesterday and she told me she thinks she might be pregnant.. At first i thought she was kidding but she was being serious. She said she doesn't want to tell anybody and would be too scared to get a pregnancy test or anything. She thinks she should be on birth control too. She's only 14! what can i do?.. Oh her boyfriend doesnt know she might be pregnant either :/ (link)
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Be supportive, when I thought I was pregnant all I wanted was a friend, a shoulder to cry on, someone who would not criticize me. Because yes, she made a mistake, and she knows it she doesn`t need to hear it from other people, she is just a little girl and wants to still feel loved even though she made a huge horrible mistake. She definetely should take a test, be there with her to make her feel better, it will probably help. Whatever you do, don`t tell anyone else, it is not your place to tell! Good luck to you & especially her.
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