|
making out
ok so i havent madeout before but i have kissed and stuff all my friends are a year older and i love them to death but they all are starting to have sex i dont want to judge them and stuff i just tell them to realize that they are doing and tell them to be safe. and they love the fact that i dont judge im just there for them. well i havent madeout and im worried if im not the best the first time will the guy judge me because most likely he will be expirenced. please help btw (its not that i dont try its just that i worry about my friends) will he judge me and tell his friedns if its not the best?
love Brittany
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Sexual Health and Reproduction category?
Maybe give some free advice about: General Sex Questions?
Ok, let's break this down issure by issue...
#1. Confront your friends, at least that is what I would do. Tell them straight out in a calm friendly manner how you feel and that you are only doing so because you love and care for them very much. You probably won`t get through to them the first time but if they are true genuine friends they will most likely try to be more careful because they wouldn`t want a good friend like you who cares so much worrying (trust me, I know).
#2. Everyone gets very nervous their first time making out. I personally don`t know the guy so I don`t know if he`s the type to kiss and tell, sorry! However to build up some self confidence, here`s some making out tips:
1. Try to relax a little bit, not too much though you don`t wanna be too loose, but enough to be able to move and still have control of your mouth.
2. Don`t use too much tongue your first time, I`ve had bad experiences with other people who have used too much and it feels like being strangled with a wet slimey worm haha. (But don`t worry if you mess up because it will just make you more nervous, it`s your first time so cut yourself some slack. =] )
3. After your first couple of minutes you will soon become comfortable, if you follow the other person`s rythm you will definetely get the hang of it.
4. And close your eyes, I personally HATE when people have their eyes opened.
5. Don`t force it either let it go naturally, it seems complicated but trust me it`s very easy and you will warm up to it.
And as you become more comfortable you will be able to experiment with different techniques like licking or nibbling your partners lips! But for now, just focus on self control and rlaxing the muscles in your mouth. Practice makes perfect, I hope I helped with that.
If you have any further questioning please leave another one in my inbox! =]
]
More Questions: |