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So thers this guy I like and I only get to see him when I go camping. Well Last year he didn't come bck and said he was sorry he couldn't come see me and thsi weekend he danced with me (slow danced) and was all close and singing into my ear and he rode the 4 wheeler with me and was holding onto my legs. But he also danced with my mom like that. Does he like me or what? I rate high (link)
i say someone has a crush on you:)But i do agree that you will get your heart broken.all i can say is follow your heart.Do what makes you happy.Good luck.Hope i helped


Hi. my name is maddie and im 14. For about a year now I have liked this guy named pj. I could swear at somepoints he liked me to but im not sure. Well you see now he is liking this other girl. who I really dont like. And im not sure what to do. Everyone says I should move on even my bestfriend does! they say I have so many other options.. but I keep giving guys up for a chance with him, but that never seems to happen.. Im not sure what I should do.. Can you help?

-thanks maddie (link)
this is gonna sound a little harsh but its not gonna happen.He obviously likes someone else.So i would say to move on and find someone worthy of your time.


ok me and my bf are planning to have sex the thing is we are both virgins and i was wondering wat it was like the first you have sex... mostly on the girls part.. like does it hurt and all that i want to no bc i want to be sure im really ready we already have everything else planned out and all but i still wanna be sure ne good advice and no loser advice is apreciated ill rate good laters (link)
for me it only hurt when he was putting it in.it hurt wayy worse the 2nd time. BUT every girl is different. I know girls who say the pain was unbearable and others who say it felt good.But make sure he goes slow it will reduce the pain.


Hey, I have this guy friend, and I found out yesterday that he likes me. I thought about It, and I guess I've known for a while, I've just denied it, but the more I think about it, the more I like him too. I don't know what I should do considering I'll see him tomorrow because we're both in band @ school and so we're gonna be marching in a parade. I don't know how I should react when I see him. He knows I know he likes me, but I don't think he knows I like him back. I want to give him the message, but I don't know how because i don't want to come off desperate or like i'm making fun of him. The way our friendship works is we always bug each other, and we always make-fun of each other just playin around, so... can you please help me? I'm SO confused. (I'm 14, and a girl.)

Luv ya bunches and I'll rate high if you help.

Confused Songwriter (link)
I really dont see the problem if you like him too.Just flirt with him.I would personally just tell him.I mean what do you have to lose?


does anyone know any web sites to get cute girly'ish quotes to use in yourt firehotquote AIM profile?


p.s. not firehotquotes.com cuz i hate it

&& i already know wittyprofiles.com

i need differant both of those are getting bad

p.s.s ill rate high for anything! (link)
try www.quoteccraze.vzz.net they have all kinds of quotes.Thats where i get mine..or www.xanga.com/siimply_quotes they have good ones too!


is it a good idea after you meet a guy to tell your friend to tell him that you think he's hot?

does this instill a wrong impression?

is it better to let it wait and become friends with him before you tell him he's attractive?

guys opinions on this one would rock. what would you think if a girl you just met told you she liked you, and how would you feel about a girl who didn't tell you she liked you? (link)
im not a guy but i say go for it.What do you have to lose?


im 15/f & i have been dating this guy for about 5months now...whoopie 5 months i kno it doesnt sound long..but we talked for the longest before dating...we've had sex a couple of times & stuff...i love him so much..well at least i feel like i do & i know we arent going to break up & i know im guna be with him forever...but no one believes that i "love" him..how can i prove them wrong?!
sincerly,
Love Struck In La. (link)
Don't worry about proving anybody wrong. Who cares if they believe it or not.All that matters is that you and him know the truth


i have been realy good friends with a guy a my school(max)for about a year or two he had a girl friend for most of the time we've been friends. a couple months ago him and his girlfriend was kinda drifting from eachother and he told me he lyked me. i made the mistake of telling him a like him too. it turned into a big mess and he ended up juss staying with his gf. So i oviously got mad and told him that i didnt have feelings for him anymore because he wasnt acting lyk the max i knew..But now him and his gf "on a break" and he recently asked her back out and she said no.. but he'll give me all these signals lyk when we're hanging out ..but this is wat i dont understand .. once in a while hell try to set me up with some of his friends that are on his baseball team and kids that i havent met and stuff.. so does that mean hes juss leading me on..? hes lyk my best friend but theres one side of our friendship that i havent been understanding.. if you understand where im coming from plzz help with your opinon on wat you thinks going on -- (link)
Don't fall for this.It sounds like hes using you so he has someone to fall back on.Think about it He likes you but is still trying to work things out && trys to set you up with his friends BUT drops hints that he likes you.I could be wrong but a lot of guys try to pull this same thing all the time.my advice would be to forget about the relationship thing with him and keep the friendship.


okay ive been going out with this guy for like 2 months and i really really care for him alot. but recently he hasnt seemed to care for me as much. and i think its because our relationship is gettin old and too predictable. how can i keep him excited and happy with our relationship? how can i keep him comin back for more? and not gettin sick of me? (link)
Change thigs up a little bit.For example if you guys always watch movies go to an arcade instead.Or if he likes baseball take him to a game.Do something HE likes.My boyfriend loves when i watch sports with him.He like the change in activity.Hope i helped. Good luck.Also a lot of relationships turn out like that when the newness wears off so your not the only one who feels like this!


Okay...i went out with this guy (lets call him fred)we went out for about 3 months.. he broke up with me with the excuse "i deont want a girlfriend" but i kept in touch with him i called him every night. he ended up dating one of my best friends and he told me he was still interested in me but he dont want a girlfriend we still go on "dates" but im not interested in just being friends. im in love head over heels with this guy. hes all i ever talk about and hes the only guy im interested in i still cry over him about every night and i have dreams about him ALL the time! I wanna be dating people but when i try to it makes him sooo mad so i stop but it seems that im only there for him to fall back on like he uses me..what should i do i dont wanna keep waiting on him and i dont wanna b used but im sooo in love with him and ive tried letting go of him but i cant help myself hes just so amazing. should i keep waiting untill he wants a g/f or should i move on? PLEASE HELP! (link)
Sounds to me like your a bit of a rebound girl to him.I know its hard but you need to leave him.Its not fair for you to have to wait && you dont deserve to be used.I know being in love with him makes it so much harder to forget about him but trust me in the long run it will only make you stronger...




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