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Do I keep waitin?
Okay...i went out with this guy (lets call him fred)we went out for about 3 months.. he broke up with me with the excuse "i deont want a girlfriend" but i kept in touch with him i called him every night. he ended up dating one of my best friends and he told me he was still interested in me but he dont want a girlfriend we still go on "dates" but im not interested in just being friends. im in love head over heels with this guy. hes all i ever talk about and hes the only guy im interested in i still cry over him about every night and i have dreams about him ALL the time! I wanna be dating people but when i try to it makes him sooo mad so i stop but it seems that im only there for him to fall back on like he uses me..what should i do i dont wanna keep waiting on him and i dont wanna b used but im sooo in love with him and ive tried letting go of him but i cant help myself hes just so amazing. should i keep waiting untill he wants a g/f or should i move on? PLEASE HELP!
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You don't continue to wait while hes allowed to do as he pleases. He is using you and must be getting a perverted pleasure out of making you do what he wants. I think you need to get him out of your life and keep him out. :)
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it sounds like freds parents dont want him to have a girlfreind.
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The answer is staring you in the face. You can't make someone love you. But you can make sure that no one takes advantage of you. Why would you settle for that? There is someone out there for you. Someone you are going to love very much, and he is going to love you very much. It is not going to happen as fast as you want it to. It never does. BUt itdoes happen. But if some nice guy is interested in you, and he sees that you don't think enough of yourself to not let yourself be treated this badly and just be used by some guy. Then he is not going to be interested in you. I know it hurts to love someone that does not love you back. IT hurts, nothing you can do. Feel it, cry, do whatever you have to, then move on. He is not the only guy in the world. You feel bad now because he treats you so badly, and just uses you. Imagine if you could actually make him spend the rest of his life with you,but not treat you any better. Are you ready to face a life time of that? You'd be miserable. Then you'd be miserable with kids. then you'd be miserable with kids, and divorced and no money. Find a guy who thinks you are the most wonderful, most beautiful, most alluring, and fun to be with person on this earth. That man/boy you can have a life with. Not someone who treats you badly, says things to hurt you, then gets sooo jealous when you even try to have a decent relationship with a real guy. This man/boy is using you. He can't do that unless you LET HIM. So stop letting him. Keep your heart safe. The right guy will come along. Keep yourself safe so that when he finds you, he will fall in love with you, and you won't have any relationship baggage.
I know, I have been there.
Michele
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Sounds to me like your a bit of a rebound girl to him.I know its hard but you need to leave him.Its not fair for you to have to wait && you dont deserve to be used.I know being in love with him makes it so much harder to forget about him but trust me in the long run it will only make you stronger...
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OH Honey, i would break up with him. He wants you to be there for him, but he doesnt care about you he is using you. You seem really into commitement but take it slow. Screw him, go out with other guys. If he gets mad blow him off you dont need him. You need to take your mind off this loser and get out there in the dating world you'll make it. As for the guy if he's not ready for a g/f he might be GAY!!! Hope it works out
~CrzyLatinaChc
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