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Question Posted Sunday May 29 2005, 5:03 pm

Okay, I wasn`t really sure what to put this under but okay. I am 13 years old and I have some clear, kind of gooey stuff that sometimes appears in my panties. I'm afraid to get fingered because of it. I'm afraid the guy will get grossed out. Could someone tell me what this is and how I could get rid of it?
Thanks I'll rate fives for good answers.


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Additional info, added Sunday May 29 2005, 5:19 pm:
PS- i have already started my period i started last summer-.

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TimeOfYourLife answered Wednesday June 1 2005, 2:09 pm:
its natural honey, get used to it

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waylonlover859 answered Tuesday May 31 2005, 1:23 pm:
That can also be a sign of a yeast infection.If i was you id go to the doctor and at least get checked up on.hope i helped good luck!!

steven

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Sum41bizzyd504 answered Sunday May 29 2005, 10:13 pm:
discharge

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MHScutie87 answered Sunday May 29 2005, 6:39 pm:
its just discharge (which is completely normal)..
about the whole wanting to get fingered.. if he doesnt understand and know what it is ya'll are both probably too young (but just do whatever you think is comfortable- i cant tell you what to do)
good luck w/ that- :)

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hailebop answered Sunday May 29 2005, 6:30 pm:
It sounds like normal and healthy discharge. Discharge is secreted by your vagina naturally as it cleans itself. If your discharge changes suddenly in colour, smell or texture, this could be a sign of infection, but otherwise it's absolutely a normal and healthy part of being a woman.

If the wetness in your underwear bothers you, you can wear a pantyliner on days when your discharge is heavy, but this is up to you. As for guys, any guy who is put off by the natural vagina is cbviously far too immature to be sexually involved with anyone. But honestly, I think it's highly unlikely that any guy would be the least bit put off by it, as a moist vagina is a sign of sexual arousal.

In conclusion: it's normal, and don't worry about guys not liking it.

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BabyGirl05 answered Sunday May 29 2005, 5:57 pm:
Same here with the period thing and with the "gooey stuff" and im 13 too. Its normal so dont worry about it.


Im sorry but 13 year olds realy shouldnt be getting fingered or anything else.

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Karen answered Sunday May 29 2005, 5:57 pm:
That clear, gooey stuff is called discharge and there is no way to get rid of it. It's natural and a lot of girls have it. It will eventually go away when you get older but for now, you just have to deal with it. You can wear panty liners so the discharge won't get on your underwear.

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helpful_jess answered Sunday May 29 2005, 5:56 pm:
its ok its only discharge its not something to worry about and its nothing that a guy will notice or get grossed out its normal and if he asks then just tel him its normal every girl gets its i sometime worry why we get it cause i dont no the full reason why but i know that most girls get it so your not alone n you shouldnt be worrying

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MicahsLilGirl answered Sunday May 29 2005, 5:40 pm:
Hey Calm down this is completely NORMAL.. Ebery female gets it and he can still finger you.. he'll most likely think its from you being wet if you get wet.. but even if he does say anything tell him its normal.. ♥ Nikki

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xXxpinky615xXx answered Sunday May 29 2005, 5:18 pm:
You can't get rid of it. It's called discharge and it happens to all girls. You get it around the time you should start menstruating. So, if you've never had your period before then this is a sign that you should be starting soon. And, you're a bit young to be fingered by a guy, but if it is to happen, he shouldn't be too grossed out anyway because it's completely natural. He could easily wash his hands. It's not something to be self concious about, you can get pantie liners such as Kotex Light days to keep your panties from getting ruined by it. But, sorry hun, there's no way of making it go away. Welcome to the world of being a woman.

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FrEe2bMe answered Sunday May 29 2005, 5:17 pm:
Hey there. Well, first of all don't be alarmed. That "stuff" is completely natural to have. Every girl gets it. The proper term for it is discharge. It just means you are a healthy, maturing young lady. It can sometimes also indicate that you are going to start your period (either for the first time or for your regular cycle). Every girl gets different amounts of it. There is no real way to get rid of it though. It it bothers you that your panties are feeling wet and uncomforable just try wearing a pantyliner. It will keep you dry and the discharge will go on that. As for the fingering thing, you are still young. Make sure you do stuff like this only when you and the guy both are TOTALLY ready to do so. Don't feel pressured. You can say no to a guy. And if y'all do stuff, he shouldn't be grossed out because it's something that all girls have. Just remember be yourself! :)

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