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Kourtni (Korrt-neee) n. 1. Loves swimming, boating, her friends, and her hubby* 2. 5'4" Hazel eyes and hair with a little red, brown, and some lighty brown/blonde highlights (THAT ARE NATURAL OF COURSE) 3. Favorite Color:: Orange - Favorite Sitcom:: Everybody Loves Raymond

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i feel that i am progressing to the point of an eating disorder. i hardly eat breakfast lunch and dinner. i snack on a little bit of cheese nips and water everyday. i usually do 200 sit ups a night but sometimes i do less but never less than 100. i am noticing i am getting very tired latley also could that be becsaue i am not eating what i usually eat. i just hate how people think only the really skinny girls are attrctive and love their bodies. i just want to make people look at me like that. i am not fat i just have like a tummy, i mean its not huge, but i am average maybe alittle below. i have tremendous boobs which do not even fit my body they ar elike bigger then my head. i just hate the way i look, i have pretty much given up on eating and i have been very attitudish latley and i cant take crap form anyone. i jsut dont know what to do, does anyone have any advice that well make me look better or feel better about myslef and my body, i jsut hate not being skinny enough and ji cant wear tanktops becasue of mt DDD boobs which look retarted when i wear one becasue it goes from a huge chest a small body and it looks retared like i got reductions and i didnt i am so depressed i do not no what to do with myself!!!! can someone give me advice i think i need help????

Not eating anything at all actually doesn't help you lose weight. Your body thinks that since you're not getting that much food in you, it needs to store fat to save it. However, eating healthy, like fruits, veggies, and whole grains, is a big help in losing weight and a tummy. Drink lots of water too! As for your bosoms, talk to your mom about getting a reduction if you really want one.

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I really like this one guy he flirts a whole bunch with other girls but he respects me more then the other girls as far as i know. do u all think its better to be respected of flirted with?

both! but respect is important.

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I was just watching the Britney & Kevin: Chaotic series and I saw that while they were doing Britney's makeup, they used some kind of concealer stick pencil thing to cover up her mole...I was wondering if anyone knew what it was called and where I can get it? -thanks

usually "celebrity" makeup costs a fortune and is only sold in like beauty salons.

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this guy who is a grade above me asked me out, and i said no. the only problum is he still talks to me and flirts with me and smiles at me and crap, and i think hes gonna ask me out 'again'. not only that, but i like 2 of his close friends alot so i dont want to majorly affend him. i dont want to have him ask me out again. its imbarrising. could someone please help me i rate well!

Just tell him that you're not into him, but you still want to be friends. (If thats what you want, of course). Anyways, you don't necessarily have to tell him about the guys you like, because it's not really any of his business.

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my age is 16 i was going out with the boy from my secondary school for about a year and i found out he still had a crush on another girl from the same school.So we broke up he was always mean to me. Ok this guy texted me from my secondary skl and he said do i want to be with him?i texted back yes because he was always there for me when i was upset he even bought me a present when i was sad. Anyway when i sent him a message the other day he has not answered why do you think this is??i do not understand because he sent messages before??

Give him time, I'm sure hes just busy at the moment.

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There's this guy named *Jason*. For months now he's been staring at me. Sometimes I see him blushing when I look at him or stand near him. Recently, my teacher was talking to him after class. The whole class basically was listening as they talked about relationships. All of a sudden he looked at me and said "Rachel dumped me." That was his ex gf but I didn't know they had broken up. I just get the vibe that he likes me. I sent him an email at the beginning of the weekend saying I liked his haircut. He sent an email back saying "Who is this"? I'm soo afraid to tell him because it might be awkward at school. There's only 3 1/2 days of school left though. Should I tell him I wrote it or what?

Of course you should. It could be the budding of a new relationship :).

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this girl that i am friends with but hate at the same time (jane) likes one of my close guy friends (peter) and he likes her. she has a tendency to lead guys on and then break their hearts just because she likes to feeling of being wanted. my other guy friend (owen) also likes her and she has told him that she does like him. he was one of the guys that she has led on. now she is thinking that she should go out with owen because she feels bad for him. she told peter that she is going to ask someone out but it isn't him. now here's where i come in. peter told me that him and jane like each other and what she said to him. jane told me that she is thinking about going out with owen when she doesn't like him. i told owen that she is planning on asking him out because i dont want her to break his heart. and i also told peter (before i knew he liked her) that i can't stand her. i am in a huge mess. what do i do?

Try and make your guy friends understand what Jane is up to, and remind them of her reputation (breaking guys' hearts).

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Theres this guy that i like name joe. And his friend always ask me if i have called joe yet. And i always tell him..joe doesnt like me so why call. Why does his friend keep doing this to me? Do you think joe has said something or what?

I think his friend is just messing around with you.

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im not looking in my area code, i need one in the usa ANY WHERE!!! do u have any ideas?

no

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Ok, so I have this friend and I didnt know she had myspace until the other night. Well, I found her myspace and in her blogs, she had an entry about "How To Get Rid Of Old Friends?". Well, in the entry she was talking bad about two of my good friends and how she dont want to be their friend anymore. I sent her a message and told her what I say and that I think I should tell my friends about it. Should I? How can I handle this in the right manner? I want to do the right thing. Also, should I even be her friend anymore if she is going to act like this? Help!

handle it by not handling it. its none of your business, its between her and your other friends.

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Okay, I wasn`t really sure what to put this under but okay. I am 13 years old and I have some clear, kind of gooey stuff that sometimes appears in my panties. I'm afraid to get fingered because of it. I'm afraid the guy will get grossed out. Could someone tell me what this is and how I could get rid of it?
Thanks I'll rate fives for good answers.

its natural honey, get used to it

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well me and my boyfriend just brokee up, well i broke up with him...and we broke up and he couild care a donkeys ass about it..and it got me really depressed in side..and my mom was always saying how mean he was to me and i just broke up with him just to do it..and i mis him sososososososo much and i want to call him but imm like no i cant it wil make me look like im running back to him..well i broke up with another boy b-4 i went with the boy i just broke up with.well me and that boy went out for awhile and he was so freakin imature..and i just got tired of him..and my mom loves him..so she always talks..and shes always going over her cell phone minutes to just talk to him...and it gets me mad..only because my mom will always say you cant find another boy like him and she wants me to marry him..and if i have a new boyfriend my mom never wants to meet them because she thinks they wont be as good or as cute as my x..so what do i do..its hard to tell her i like somebody or i go out with some body..but i dont no what to do...

"mom, i like a guy. its not my ex. me and my ex broke up for a reason. just because you like him, doesn't mean i have to."

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okay well one of my friends was in a very bad car accident last night...she swerved off the road, the car flipped and she was thrwn from the car and stoped breathin so they put her into a coma. Right now she is suffering from a fractured skull, broken ankle, broken eye socket, broken nose, and many bruises.. Im not really sure what a coma is, and i dont really understand what the doctors are gonna do to her, so could somebody please explain to me ablout it?! thanks in advance!!

how do you break an eye socket?

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i broke up with my bf of 2 months today b/c of lack of communication. he wasnt crushed at all..i dont think we meant anything to him but anyway, its the second last day of school before summer. how long should i wait before i go with his friend? we both really like each other and he actually cares about me. hes my friend's ex and im his friends ex..any opinions? tell me what u honestly think...i wont take away from the rating. thanks!

go for it

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Okay, well.. this was my first time having sex. but it was like a spur of the moment thing and i didnt even realize it was going to happen. but i was like no i cant get pregnant but he said that if he didnt keep it in long enough to ejaculate that there was no chance that i could get pregnant, is this true?

if you don't know about pregnancy and the risks of it, don't have sex.

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There is a guy that I like and I’ve never kissed before and I was thinking of going for a French kiss if I get to kiss him, but then I though about it and I started wondering if it’s a turn off for guys if you French kiss them on the first kiss. Can you, please, give me your opinion? And my second question is, do guys judge you on the way you kiss, is it very important to them if you are a good kisser or not?

french kiss on the first kiss? jeeez. and if a guy judges you on the way you kiss, and not for who you are, why even bother to spend time with him. hes not very nice!

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Okay so theres this guy i met on the inernet he goes to my school i see him at school and talk to him a lot. The problem is he has a gf. He always is like go to the mall with me and would u go out with me if i didnt have a gf and how far i would go. is he just trying to get some or what but i think i mite like him now.

if he really liked you i don't think he would have a girlfriend

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i'm in 8th grade and everyone i know has had or has a boyfriend, but i have never had one. i am kinda shy and i'm friends w/guys but nothing ever happens withour friendships. but anyways i am moving at the end of the school year and there is this guy i really like how can i get him to ask me out or get a boyfriend before i leave?

p.s. i rate high

whats the point of getting a boyfriend now if you're just moving to another place?

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I recently just found out that I have scoliosis. I have to get a brace and was fitted today for it. I'm going to have to wear it a minimum of 16 hours a day. I was wondering if there is any one who can tell me what it was like having a back brace and give me advice on when to wear it, what to do in the summer, and things like that. Thank you very much.

shouldn't your doctor explain that to you thoroughly?

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My skin gets bitten a LOT during the summer...are there any home remedies or good sprays that you guys can suggest
thanks (ill rate)

get bug spray. Off! usually works best

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