this girl that i am friends with but hate at the same time (jane) likes one of my close guy friends (peter) and he likes her. she has a tendency to lead guys on and then break their hearts just because she likes to feeling of being wanted. my other guy friend (owen) also likes her and she has told him that she does like him. he was one of the guys that she has led on. now she is thinking that she should go out with owen because she feels bad for him. she told peter that she is going to ask someone out but it isn't him. now here's where i come in. peter told me that him and jane like each other and what she said to him. jane told me that she is thinking about going out with owen when she doesn't like him. i told owen that she is planning on asking him out because i dont want her to break his heart. and i also told peter (before i knew he liked her) that i can't stand her. i am in a huge mess. what do i do?
karenR answered Wednesday June 1 2005, 7:59 pm: Just stay out of it from now on. I know it will be hard to do, but you know what? Sooner or later all the guys are going to know what shes like and she won't have ANY asking her out. Then she'll be the one in the mess. :) [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
xXtashmahottieOo answered Wednesday June 1 2005, 6:27 pm: I think you should act all buddy buddy ywords her and lead her in a new direction. Like omg scotty is cute and then she'll go out with him and leave peter sad but it'll save him wrose heart break later. hope I helped MWA LYL XOXO GOOD LUCK! <33 dianee [ xXtashmahottieOo's advice column | Ask xXtashmahottieOo A Question ]
oxKateKaylaxo answered Wednesday June 1 2005, 4:41 pm: Well, if Owen doesn't still like Jane then have Owen tell her that he doesn't think it would be right of them to go out when she likes Peter and Peter likes her (making sure that he tells her that he knows about her and Peter first). Tell Peter he would be better off without her(if that is how you feel) but let him make the real decision. About telling Peter you didn't like Jane-who cares? Not everbody likes everybody else. It human nature. If he is your good friend than he should accept it. Just try to stay away from the two of them and hang out with Peter alone if they decide to go out. Hope I helped!
~oxkatekaylaxo [ oxKateKaylaxo's advice column | Ask oxKateKaylaxo A Question ]
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