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this guy isnt getting it
this guy who is a grade above me asked me out, and i said no. the only problum is he still talks to me and flirts with me and smiles at me and crap, and i think hes gonna ask me out 'again'. not only that, but i like 2 of his close friends alot so i dont want to majorly affend him. i dont want to have him ask me out again. its imbarrising. could someone please help me i rate well!
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Just flat out tell him how you don't like him and never will. Any sign of mercy will be an invitation to ask you out again.
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just go up the guy and tell him you dont like him like that you just want to be his friend. tell him that you like his 2 closest friends. it may seem rude or mean to tell him, but its the only way to get across to guys. he might be shocked and not talk to you for a couple days, but he'll get over it and be your friend again
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all i can say- is let him know. there's really nothing else you can do to let him get the picture, then to tell him how you feel. just let him know that you arent feelin him, and that you just like being (distant) friends with him, even.just be nice, but dont lead him on. hope i helped. lamewithakause@yahoo.com
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if he really likes you then he's NOT gonna leave you alone lol. you have to just tell him to leave you alone. tell him nicely though. if you don't he's never gona leave you alone and he might ask you out AGAIN!
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L0L! He isnt going to leave you alone because he really likes you. You need to tell him straight up to leave you alone or he seriously will never. It doent matter if you embaresse him. L0L! Just tell him to back off. ♥
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I don't understand why you would be embarrassed... I can see how it would be embarrassing for him to be turned down!
He may just want to be friends. Is he that gross?
Flirting and smiling do not necessarily mean he's going to ask you out again. Just don't respond in a manner to make him think you want him to and I doubt he will ask again. :)
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Just tell him that you're not into him, but you still want to be friends. (If thats what you want, of course). Anyways, you don't necessarily have to tell him about the guys you like, because it's not really any of his business.
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ok i would look at it from his point of view, the guy likes you..and maybe he just wants to be friends? if he asks you out again just tell him no..you want to just be friends and nothing else..i think its more embarassing for him..for now i would just be his friend..and understand he has feelings for you and he cant just not talk to you and ignore those feelings..he will learn that its only going to be a friendship, not a relationship..
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Well did you make it cleaR to him that you don't want anything to do with him????? Just because you said no when he asked you out... doesn't automatically mean that messaged is sent. If he DOES ask you out again, just tell him you obviously don't feel the same way foR him as he feels foR you. He'll be majoRly huRt.. of couRse he will!! WhicheveR way you say "No", he'll be bummed... but theRe's just nothing he can do about it. Just be fiRm, and honest; all the while.. polite.. Goodluck!! Hope this helps!!
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